he left me all alone
By alina
@swissheart (6482)
Romania
March 26, 2017 1:00am CST
it's hard when you've been living for the past two years with someone in the house. it's horrible when you get home at evening and the silence it shouting in your ears.what made him leave? he says he went to work and wants a better life for us....personally I don't know if I still get included in his plans
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
26 Mar 17
Everything happens for a reason, maybe there is someone else out there for you.
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@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
26 Mar 17
yes indeed...i'm trying to see the postive in all of this
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@abhinalstrikr (4111)
• India
26 Mar 17
There may be otherway but living you alone in house must be not so good i guess
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
26 Mar 17
yes...indeed...especially if you're used to seeing someone around all the time
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@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
27 Mar 17
@abhinalstrikr maybe if he told me how things are and where I'm standing...I would be able to move on
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@abhinalstrikr (4111)
• India
27 Mar 17
@swissheart exactly,we can't stay away unless we are made understand that there are some good coming,but its painful
@silvermist (19702)
• India
26 Mar 17
@swissheart That is not good.Either way he should have let you know where you stand.This is sort of vague.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
26 Mar 17
indeed. i have no idea if we continue to be in a relationship or should we call this
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@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
26 Mar 17
@wabomba this is what other people told me too. I'm not in a good state of mind so I shouldn't jump into conclusions
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@wabomba (15)
• Nairobi, Kenya
26 Mar 17
@swissheart no don't rush to conclusion try to be patient first, if you later see that it will not work then u will have a better decision. Remember it is not advisable to make decisions with feelings
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
26 Mar 17
So sorry to hear this. Just take one day at a time. You will get through this. 
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
26 Mar 17
thanks dear.it's really important for me to know that there are people out there who think about my well being
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@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
26 Mar 17
This is really sad.. I can understand how you must be feeling. I'll pray everything falls in place soon.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
26 Mar 17
thanks for the support dear friend. I really appreciate it
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@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
27 Mar 17
@amitkokiladitya right now I don't know what answer to give you
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@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
27 Mar 17
@swissheart can I ask one thing
..do you think he deserves your love
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
26 Mar 17
it's was pretty suddenly and I have no idea how to tae this
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@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
26 Mar 17
@ShifaLk he went to work abroad because he pretends he wants a better life for us
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@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
26 Mar 17
@swissheart oh sad... I think you should try to ask him what's the matter
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
26 Mar 17
even if he will...he disappointed me and things are never going to be the same
@subhajitsil6 (961)
• Kolkata, India
26 Mar 17
It pains.. I have experienced something similar, when my friend left hostel and I was still a student. It happened as such that I was outside most of the time, and only during the night I use to come in my room. Rest of the day I was always outside.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
26 Mar 17
I know how you feel....I hate it to be in the house. it just feels like the silence is taking over me
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@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
26 Mar 17
thank you so much. i'm trapped in this and I have no idea if i should just move on with my life or wait for him
@filan86 (14)
• Indonesia
28 Mar 17
@swissheart don't waste your time for something that unreal and uncertain. You will wasting your life in vain. The real man for your mate is someone who treat you well and ask u for marriage to build a family together.. well it just my opinion and sorry for my bad english hehehe :)
@wabomba (15)
• Nairobi, Kenya
26 Mar 17
May be he is genuine of the reason may be not, but what you should know is that love comes from ones inner heart if he loves you he will be back but if may be he was living with you because of privileges then he might be gone. But life must get on so take your time and analyze the situation, i understand how u feel my sister but take heart and be strong
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
26 Mar 17
thanks for the moral suport my friend. in such times it's comforting to know you can find support even if it's in people you don't know live
