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@wiLLmaH (8802)
Singapore, Singapore
March 29, 2017 2:07am CST
That is what my colleague told me when I explain to him that I have trouble sleeping in past few days. Well the main reason is, husband is now, should I say again, assigned to have a rotational shift. Every two weeks, they will change schedule. Every night he is not around, I fall asleep very late and will wake up around 3am or 4am. From there, I will hard time again to snooze out. But hey! I am a girl that always looking on the bright side. His company, gives an additional of $50.00/night. So all I need to do is take a 30mins nap in our office every lunch break and long sleep with him every weekend. Do you experiencing this too? It is more comforting to sleep with your loved ones right?
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@LadyDuck (471500)
• Switzerland
29 Mar 17
I have never slept well, even when I was very young. All the time I wake up around 2 in the morning and it takes forever to get back to sleep.
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
30 Mar 17
Do you went to a specialist to check it?
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@LadyDuck (471500)
• Switzerland
30 Mar 17
@wiLLmaH I talked about the problem with my different doctors, they says that I am too stressed and my brain does not shut down during the night.
@spiderdust (14761)
• San Jose, California
30 Mar 17
@LadyDuck I have the same issue with my overactive brain at night. I lie awake a lot.
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
29 Mar 17
Even though both my wife and I love to sleep together when we do occasionally have to spend a night apart we both love being able to stretch out in a double bed on our own. And we usually sleep better too!!
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
30 Mar 17
Oh! in your part, it is a good thing that the other is not around. :)
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
31 Mar 17
@WorDazza yup. 'i miss you' suffocates the air. :)
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
30 Mar 17
@wiLLmaH Yeah, but it's always nice when we get back together!!!
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
29 Mar 17
hahaha! for me, i sleep soundly at home, knowing that my son is sleeping in another room beside my room.
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
30 Mar 17
Oh! Mother! How old your son is?
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
30 Mar 17
@wiLLmaH he is a young adult, my friend. he sleeps late at night then wakes up late the next day.
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
31 Mar 17
@ridingbet oh! That age is really at the peak of not getting late to bed.
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@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
29 Mar 17
That is very true. The thought that he is beside you, makes you feel comfortable and easily get to sleep too. Nice seeing you again friend.
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
30 Mar 17
Thanks @magallon for the sweet 'welcome back'. Yup! it pacifies my mind whenever he is around.
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
30 Mar 17
@magallon Yup! I think so too! Hahaha!
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@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
30 Mar 17
@wiLLmaH that's what we call "LOVE"...
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@thelme55 (77061)
• Germany
1 Apr 17
You will get used to the change of time. For now, just take a nap whenever you can.
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
1 Apr 17
Yup. But isn't make my sleep way too abnormal?
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
4 Apr 17
@thelme55 oh okay. I hope so. Sleeping is very important for me.
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@thelme55 (77061)
• Germany
1 Apr 17
@wiLLmaH no, it doesn't. I have experienced that too when my hubby used to have night shift at work.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
29 Mar 17
I know the few times that my fiance was out of town working I had a hard time to sleep. I slept much better once he came back home.
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
31 Mar 17
@Happy2BeMe intermittent sleeps give headaches right?
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
30 Mar 17
Wow! This confirms that I am not the only one experiencing this. :) Around what time you sleep whenever he is not around?
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
30 Mar 17
@wiLLmaH I have seen myself stay awake all night because I can't sleep or just sleep for 15-20 minutes on and off all night
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
29 Mar 17
I can sleep well, when I know that my husband is at work if he is in such schedule. But not when suddenly, despite me calling him on the phone because it's already late and he is not home yet, I really won't be able to sleep until I talk to him on the phone. Or could it be that you are just excited of going to the US ?
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
30 Mar 17
@wiLLmaH Why would he be worried, if it is only I love You that you are texting?
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
30 Mar 17
@SIMPLYD Because it is not good to be lacking of sleep for straight two weeks.
@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
29 Mar 17
That starts from December. But that is okay po, I can still bear it. But husband is worried whenever I send him sms in the middle of the night.
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• Philippines
29 Mar 17
yeah, but because I got hooked with this korean series that was popular back in 2011
Wheesung - Alive Even in Death The kingdom of the winds
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
30 Mar 17
Okay,,, So not a husband but because of the drama series.
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Apr 17
At least he will earn extra money. My husband and I are rarely apart, but when we were, I had trouble sleeping. It is more comforting to sleep and cuddle with my husband.
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
4 Apr 17
Correct. The comfort that they brings to us.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
6 Apr 17
@wiLLmaH Yes, they bring us comfort, and are so good to us.
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@carexing25 (1822)
• Philippines
29 Mar 17
my husband is working far from us and to be honest it is frustrating to not have him near us..
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
30 Mar 17
True! All we need to do for now is to endure are longing for them.
@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
29 Mar 17
If you wake up at 4, then maybe you should do an early morning jog or walk, Ms. WiLLmah :)
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
30 Mar 17
I am afraid I can bump to a ghosts along my way. Haha!
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
30 Mar 17
@wiLLmaH Hahaha! I thought ghosts are only in our country; they also live in Singapore? LOL!
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
30 Mar 17
@sunrisefan Maybe following me? hehe!
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
29 Mar 17
Of course we always love to be with our love one
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
30 Mar 17
That is for sure :)
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@spiderdust (14761)
• San Jose, California
30 Mar 17
I don't sleep very well, and even less so if something in my environment changes (such as someone not sleeping in the room, or the room being too warm). I completely understand why you're having such difficulty!
@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
3 Apr 17
Aww I can understand that.. Yes it's more comforting to sleep with the loved one especially when you're habitual :(