I am sorry ma little angel...
By Shweta singh
@Shwetasingh (1333)
April 1, 2017 7:47am CST
You came in my life 7 years ago and I became your mom. From then you were my only concern, your food your likes your dislikes and your weird little stories everytime I was there with you. But then my little son came and everything changed. . Now I have to take care of him and he is so notorious that he took almost all my time. I know you want to talk to me you want to show your work, get appreciated by me but many times I don't have time for you, many times I have to say -wait I will catch you latter on. I feel bed but have no choice. I feel guilt many times.. don't know what to do?can you people help me....
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
1 Apr 17
It is hard sometimes to divide your attention when you are so busy with a new baby. Try to make some time when baby is sleeping to make it just mommy and the other little ones time. As the baby gets older it will get much easier. The older one could even help with baby so that they don't fell left out.
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@Shwetasingh (1333)
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1 Apr 17
I know.. that too I am living in a joint family so again household work requires a lot more time. But ya that's a good option when little one will sleep I will try to give hone time. Thanx
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
1 Apr 17
@Shwetasingh you are welcome, I wish you all the best
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@Hasana (348)
• Mumbai, India
1 Apr 17
Well it must be a very difficult stage of life. And soon i am going to face a similar situation by end of this year.
I am thinking my wife and myself will equally divide our responsibilities so that we feel less on guilt and tackle this unavoidable situation. What say?
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@Shwetasingh (1333)
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1 Apr 17
Ya this is the most difficult time for parents especially for mother , it's she who has to make a balance between two kiddos. See at this time generally bigger one gets frustrated because of negligence as you are busy with smaller and that frustration usually make him stubborn so you have to focus more on elder one . But still whatever you do initial 2 months are going to be very difficult. And slowly they both will start enjoying each other's company then you will feel neglected??just kidding. Just go for it and enjoy all your frustration.
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