About My Students
@GardenGerty (160697)
United States
April 1, 2017 3:12pm CST
Each of the students I work with is incredibly different from the others. None of them work at the same level or have the same schedule.
We have a student who is severely autistic, does not communicate much at all, and POSSIBLY has other mental health issues. He has never been evaluated. He has not even seen an autism specialist, though we would like that. He also has other non related health issues.
He just turned nine, is approximately the size of a six year old, but when he has an "episode" he can turn over all tables, knock all partitions in the room down, and throw all kinds of things around the room. He gets physically aggressive and also will deliberately pee on things. As far as we can tell he is not in a well structured or regulated home.
We spend time running with him, walking with him, having him do some pushing of carts and things that cause him to burn excess energy, and for the most part at this time he still does almost no academics. The parents were finally persuaded that he needed a doctor's visit, and with help of other agencies, he was seen at a charity clinic.
I am sharing this to illustrate why I am often tired. I have lost a little weight this year as well. I LIKE THIS STUDENT, and the other three students. We want the best outcome for all of them. I do not want people to be "horrified", but there are many students out in the public who are this way.
When this student recently saw the doctor, the doctor prescribed a medication that is regularly given for "aggression associated with autism". Mom said the state insurance was refusing to cover it. I guess something happened though. She got the medication last Thursday, and gave him one dose in the evening. The general protocol with this med is four days of half dose, then increase to full dose.
So Friday one of our regular staff was gone for the day. That is often a recipe for disaster. This young man had about 1/20 th of the negative behaviors he usually has in a day. He worked at all of his academic tasks. I only had him do one lap around the block on an "AmTryke". It was a very good day.
We are hopeful. We have not had a day this good since Christmas Break.
I am not going to be at work on Monday, but I certainly hope that when I am back on Tuesday he is still functioning in a more self controlled manner.
So that is a picture of what my job is like. I need to say though, that I like my job, I believe I am good at it. I have a terrific lead teacher. The principal, counselor, school psychologist, music and PE teachers and the Speech Therapist and Occupational Therapis all work hard at supporting the students as we try to help them learn.
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11 responses
@much2say (55655)
• Los Angeles, California
1 Apr 17
You are all wonderful for doing what you do to help these kids - I'm sure it's not easy. It's amazing that child had not been evaluated for so long, but it's good he is getting the help he needs now and that it is working out for him.
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@GardenGerty (160697)
• United States
1 Apr 17
The teacher and school psychologist have had to push, and the mom is in poor health herself. I really hope we continue to see improvement.
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@MandaLee (3764)
• United States
1 Apr 17
@GardenGerty
Hi Heather,
My mom works in an elementary school that has a program for children with autism. He certainly sounds autistic to me.
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@GardenGerty (160697)
• United States
1 Apr 17
Yes, he is definitely autistic, but we also wonder if he has caused some brain damage to himself because when he gets frustrated he bangs his head a lot. For such a small district we have a lot of autistic kids, both labeled and not labeled. Every one of them is different. We have two in our "structured program" and some who are mainstreamed and high functioning. It is important to get a right diagnosis. My daughter roomed with a young lady who was always described as "severely emotionally disturbed" but in her twenties she was identified as having Asperger's syndrome.
@GardenGerty (160697)
• United States
2 Apr 17
Oh we do hope so too. He is really a fun guy when he is able to participate.
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@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
3 Apr 17
@GardenGerty i am glad that you managed to persuade the parents to take him to the doctor.
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@GardenGerty (160697)
• United States
5 Apr 17
@Nawsheen Not me, but the lead teacher and school psychologist. Part of the persuasion was the state got involved. Another part is that when he got too out of control mom had to drive in and come get him.
@jstory07 (139742)
• Roseburg, Oregon
1 Apr 17
It sounds like you are very good at your job. I watched a mildly retarded boy when I did childcare in my home and I did what the school could not do in one summer. I taught him all the capital letters and small and had him reading a little. The teacher asked how I did that I told her just do the same thing over and over. I wonder to this day what happened to him. The Dad lost him to the state but ten years later he stopped by my house with his adopted mother to tell me thanks and gave me a great big hug. That made all the work of that summer worth it.
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@GardenGerty (160697)
• United States
1 Apr 17
You were able to give him more attention and structure, it sounds like, than what he got in the classroom. I am glad you did see him when he was a little older. You may have helped him find some success.
@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
3 Apr 17
what makes me sad here, isn't what the kid was doing, was that he is THAT old before the parents finally decided to have him evaluated. That's a nine year old who is really behind now, when the right meds earlier could have allowed him the ability to keep progressing.
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@GardenGerty (160697)
• United States
5 Apr 17
I am not sure what age they are willing to prescribe these types of meds. I know for ADHD they want to wait until children are seven to put them on medication. Mom seems to be following through on several things now but he has some bad habits ingrained that we are having to change.
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@GardenGerty (160697)
• United States
6 Apr 17
@Jessicalynnt It never hearts to be aware of problems that might be in the making.
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
5 Apr 17
@GardenGerty well they might not have, but had he been tested, the plan could have encompassed the earlier stages of what he needed, well earlier. I am beginning to think all kids should get tested once a year, through 10 years old or something
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@GardenGerty (160697)
• United States
5 Apr 17
@JudyEv No pill will ever completely "fix" the problems people have, but it is a valuable tool for him. I hope it continues to be useful and beneficial.
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@GardenGerty (160697)
• United States
2 Apr 17
Eventually they will be forced into it or be accused of neglect by the state Department of Children and Families. We keep data on a daily basis on many of these occurrences, as well as his attendance or lack of it. We are obligated to report if he is neglected.
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@JudyEv (340178)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Apr 17
@GardenGerty That's good then. The medication sounds as though it made a huge difference.
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@rusty2rusty (6763)
• Defiance, Ohio
2 Apr 17
I am glad you like your job, it takes a special person patient enough to work with kids who are different from the morn.
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@GardenGerty (160697)
• United States
2 Apr 17
I often say it is my stubbornness that lets me stick it out in situations like this, but it is also my curiosity. I want to know what happens with them. I feel like working this job is good for me, as well as for them. I also believe that I was needed where I am and God sent me there when the time was right.
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@celticeagle (167019)
• Boise, Idaho
2 Apr 17
I can surely understand you being tired. And how horrible for a kid with these challenges to be in a home that isn't that nurturing it sounds like. That is sad. You must have a lot of patience.
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@GardenGerty (160697)
• United States
2 Apr 17
I think we have a great team and when one of us is really down another one can be steady and we take turns being patient. We have lots of kids in the US who are not in the best of homes. Their parents love them, and do the best they can with what they know and what they have experienced, but it still often seems to be lacking. We all hope that we can find a way to make a better life for them.
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@celticeagle (167019)
• Boise, Idaho
2 Apr 17
@GardenGerty .....Yes, lacking. The ones that do the best they can should be commended. The ones who just let kids raise themselves pretty much and are neglectful are a different story.
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@GardenGerty (160697)
• United States
5 Apr 17
@celticeagle It can be sad how kids with all the "advantages" can be at a disadvantage.
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@GardenGerty (160697)
• United States
5 Apr 17
@sallypup Right, there is much more to life than that check.
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@GardenGerty (160697)
• United States
2 Apr 17
I am very pleased to be part of a caring team that works really hard for the kids.
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@sallypup (61158)
• Centralia, Washington
2 Apr 17
@GardenGerty Team work makes all the difference. When I worked back office at a Vets I valued that sense of getting the job done cause we all gave a dang not cause we had to have a pay check.
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@Kuttu_007 (1940)
• India
2 Apr 17
What u r doing is really a service to mankind...
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@GardenGerty (160697)
• United States
2 Apr 17
When we help our weakest members we also make life better for ourselves.
@ponderingoe (51)
• United States
3 Apr 17
Wow! Sure sounds like you all had your hands full with this student! I'm glad his parents were able to take him to a clinic, and finally get him some of the help it sounds like he needed! Hopefully, he'll be able to start learning now, and you and your co-workers can hopefully relax some now!
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@GardenGerty (160697)
• United States
3 Apr 17
He will always learn differently from others, but if things go well he will not need so much time burning off steam. Yes, we are relieved that they are doing something for him now.
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