How do you know if you are in infatuation or in love?
By Subhajit Sil
@subhajitsil6 (961)
Kolkata, India
April 8, 2017 10:29am CST
As i was thinking about an office colleague who is confused if he is in love or infatuation, so I told him, in infatuation he would be having the affection for a very short period of time. And also I feel infatuation makes one selfish and tends to keep the partner with him/her 24x7. Day-Dreams are more in infatuation rather than the actual love. Also I have seen in infatuation people talk about their partner 24x7 but not in a real love. And also people in infatuation rush to make things happen. which is again not true if in true love.
What do you think myLotter's ? Am I right? Or I have wronged somewhere.
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@mavlana (1019)
• India
9 Apr 17
@subhajitsil6 It meant that if you accept someone completely, including one's ill habits, then you are in love.
@subhajitsil6 (961)
• Kolkata, India
9 Apr 17
@mavlana Not always true. Including one's ill habit would be a blind trust. I know love is blind for some poeple but not for me.
@cabhay (443)
• India
9 Apr 17
There is a big difference in infatuation and love! In INFATUATION people tends to get attracted towards a person only, there happiness and sadness doesn't really matters, what we want is only that particular person but LOVE changes you for better...every single incident with that person affects you too.. their happiness and their sorrows becomes yours. You only want that person to be happy with or without you :)
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@subhajitsil6 (961)
• Kolkata, India
9 Apr 17
well said, thanks for your response
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@shivamani10 (11035)
• Hyderabad, India
8 Apr 17
You have read a lot about the differences between the two. Is it necessary to know these things? For me, everything is a love.
@Mass_Sonu (1021)
• India
8 Apr 17
@subhajitsil6 I have no personal experience in this regard, but what you say makes sense, so agreed!
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