Military life
@Mariely (107)
April 12, 2017 11:16am CST
let's talk about military....
I'm thinking about this subject because sometimes is hard to understand the hard situations they live everyday. Almost all the time they live sad, estressful situations and impact their lives very hard. and I'm know it because I'm wife of one survivor. Maybe I don't expect to much time, I only spent 3 years seeing with what he have to work everyday since he started his basic until he going into deployment. The experience was hard, if I say was easy, I will be lying. When he was in deployment he was stressed all the time, thinking about his life, saving his mates, they become his family even if he doesn't know them from all his life. Because they learn to fight, for each other for being alive.
After the deployment it's hard for them to deal with the real life or in other terms the civilian life after all they going through. because they remember every fight, every lost soul in the battlefield. Sometimes is hard for them to talk about it. Because even if the army prepared them to be soldiers to fight for our country, they have to had a strong mind to deal with it.
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@atoz1to10 (6780)
• Australia
13 Apr 17
And this is why I really respect people who choose to be in this job.
Apart from having to live away from home most of the time, they have to die for their country (if they have to).
So your husband is home with you now? Hoping that you give him a lot of support. I know you need support as well so we will be here for you... Keep being positive
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@khaledsifou (317)
• Algeria
13 Apr 17
yes military life is very ard and completly diffrent than civil life.. i been solider in army for doing duty for my country because its compulsory here..; its was good experince for me but i have experinced really hard times there.. i was stessed all the time and i met good people there and learnt from them.. we were like family elp each other and care about each other.. life in army teach you how to live with others and care about them..
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@Mariely (107)
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13 Apr 17
Yes I understand you, my husband continue talking with some of his friends from his deployment and I had to see and understand how he feels because is not easy; too much experiences he had some good, others not but he's happy because that was a part important of him.
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@khaledsifou (317)
• Algeria
13 Apr 17
@Mariely yes.. they think that none cares about them while they are losing their lives to fight for the nation.. there is soooooooooooo much stres ore than you think even without war and fighting there is so much stress and in war its more terrible.. even i met people lost their minds cuz of the stress and being away from friends and family for long time
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@Mariely (107)
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13 Apr 17
Believe I know. My husband sometimes feel depressed and is hard for him to talk about it. And sometimes other people judge without see the things that they live everyday. Because even in the army prepares you, he told me that he wants to get out of it and now that he's not in service he wish sometimes to going back.
@Mass_Sonu (1021)
• India
13 Apr 17
@Mariely I always admired soldiers, and the familes behind such noble souls too. No one can understand the stress that they'd been through. And, thank you for bringing this topic!
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