relation in the modern world.
By poonam vats
@poonam76 (20)
April 14, 2017 4:18am CST
to be honest in todays world most of the people have physical attraction towards their partner.this in todays generation starts from liking at school times to coming in relation and then opting to physical activities and at last what happens is a breakup or one is not interested in eachothers dignity and labour that they both had practiced for years in building that relationship just because one of the side feels more interested in either exploring the world or exploring other humans.well everyone has a right to live their but doesnt a true relaton means that u could have explored the life by being in unity and thus making the best couple.even the law of nature says that two is better than single . so why not one can take interest in making things more beautiful by staying with the partner and then working rather than being selfish and killing others humanity. wanting the general public opinions.
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@reskyyandi (3608)
• Indonesia
16 Apr 17
You are really true
By the way, welcome in mylot
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@toniganzon (72517)
• Philippines
14 Apr 17
Yeah, it's sad how people can be shallow sometimes and they just look at what's on the outside and tend to neglect what's inside.
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@poonam76 (20)
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14 Apr 17
sometimes due to influence of others whome they might even know from less time :(
@Mass_Sonu (1021)
• India
14 Apr 17
@poonam76 I understand your point - it is indeed beautiful staying with 'partner' despite difficulties. But, in some cases, as they say, 'Better end with pain rather than pain without end'. Sometimes, it is better to be separated than suffer in silence.
@poonam76 (20)
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14 Apr 17
thats the point which i want to convey that why only one has to see the pain why cant one see the previous moments of love and togetherness and doing some compromises with the situation never makes the efforts waste or makes one feel low because time is not the same always even the nature laws says that inputs of today definitely yields the results tomorrow so why making making a "saying" of a different situation the cause of your destructive mindset when you can stay with your partner and experience the best joys of life together.
@Mass_Sonu (1021)
• India
14 Apr 17
Alas, what you said is true,and I wish that would be every case. But there are also cases like one party/partner, completely becoming selfish, egotistic over a period of time,whereas the other party/partner remains the same.What's your view on that?
@poonam76 (20)
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14 Apr 17
@Mass_Sonu if remaining same was to be the solution then no relation would ever get disturbed. remaining same is the problem, making a relation work always needs some changes. if your partner is becoming selfish or egoistic then analyse the situation for what him/her is being selfish. take interest in his interest and one will see that him/her start respecting your views(the answer excludes the situation of external affairs because for this situation the steps are different depending upon different circumstances like less time providing etc.
@khaledsifou (317)
• Algeria
18 Apr 17
tank you for this important topic. well i think people now care about phiscal things and don't care at all about mental things... they are looking just about fun and play someone for sometime and find another partner.. human nature is created to feel and give love.. but realtionsips are empty now of emotions and feelings.. we are getting harder and stone hearted unfortunitly.
