Love and Marriage: If you had it to do over again. Would you marry the same person?

Sorry, but both of my marriages ended up with pain and suffering ! Unfortunately for me, they both 'grew up' or 'changed' and eventually decided to leave me ! Had i known, I wouldn't have wasted the time that I devoted to them ! They didn't care about leaving me, nor separating me from the kids ! There is no way I would go through that again, and haven't to this day !