Long Distance Relationships

United States Minor Outlying Islands
April 23, 2017 1:05pm CST
Is it possible to fall in love with someone that you haven't met yet, but have only spoken to on the telephone?
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@LeaPea2417 (37355)
• Toccoa, Georgia
23 Apr 17
I do think it is possible in some situations.
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• United States
23 Apr 17
Hi Jan. I have done this but I would not recommend it, at least this was my experience. I fell in love with someone online and over the phone and it was a freaking disastrous adventure I tell you. Never again for me. But I guess yes, it is possible.
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• United States Minor Outlying Islands
23 Apr 17
I guess we're both looking at it as, we're putting the time and effort into really getting to know each other. We are meeting face to face in 3 weeks.
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• United States
23 Apr 17
@janlp1026 Well then in that case, I wish you all the luck and blessings to you friend. I am sorry I did not mean to make it sound so bad..it was just my experience. I have also known of others to find much love and happiness like that.
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@lovebuglena (44537)
• Staten Island, New York
23 Apr 17
I've had that happen to me, except that it was not by speaking on the phone. It was communicating via the Internet. Facebook and email to be exact.
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@skydream (1445)
• Agate, Colorado
24 Apr 17
I think yes because I've done it. Love isn't about looks or being together in person it's about the feeling the person gives you. I met my bf online and we were long distance for 3 years, and now we live together and have been together 3.5 years. I think it's very likely to fall in love with someone you have a connection with but haven't met as long as you go about it safely it'll be okay
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@skydream (1445)
• Agate, Colorado
24 Apr 17
@atoz1to10 Thank you
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@atoz1to10 (6780)
• Australia
25 Apr 17
@skydream I like happy endings...
@atoz1to10 (6780)
• Australia
24 Apr 17
I am very happy to hear that you have a happy ending...
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23 Apr 17
I think this kind of relationship doesn't work out.
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• United States Minor Outlying Islands
23 Apr 17
You're right...It doesn't.
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24 Apr 17
Telephones are not more popular now and I don't think that such things happens
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@atoz1to10 (6780)
• Australia
24 Apr 17
I think it's possible that you can fall in love with someone that you haven't met. But this kind of love is like a fantasy more...
@atoz1to10 (6780)
• Australia
20 May 17
@musicianu Yes, I agree with you...
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19 May 17
But it can happen and it does every day, thats what everyone hopes for when they sign up, whilst there is a chance it's worth putting a bit of effort in. Difficulty is there is no exact formula, who we think we are attracted too is just a wish list. You could get on great online but when you meet up in person find they have an annoying habit or poor manners and as quick as that our attraction switch just turns off.
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@Sweettoy (19)
• Atlanta, Georgia
4 May 17
I truly believe that you will start to catch strong feelings by talking to someone and might even thank that you are in love. But you really have to be around someone for a period of time to real see if that love is strong enough to last.