Missing my old house

May 6, 2017 7:01am CST
My maternal house is getting renovated some parts are done (as it's too big like hounted houses in movies) and some are on progress. The result is it is started looking awesome but my mind is stuck.. stuck with the thoughts of previous one as I have my good memories with that old type home.i don't want this.. I know it's stupid thought but can't help it. What you say.
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@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
6 May 17
I know how you feel like. It is like all memories being erased. But yes everything is changing nowadays and we must try to keep up with it
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@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
7 May 17
@HAPPSINGH good morning
@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
8 May 17
@HAPPSINGH good morning. Im fine. What about you
6 May 17
Why to change actually it lost its old palace like look and now it's as if I am going to some hotel room.
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• United States
6 May 17
This is the house you grew up in right Shweta? Is that the one? Yes the memories for you are strong there. It was like an old haunted house?
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• United States
6 May 17
@Shwetasingh It sounds like I would love this house..so intriguing Shweta.
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6 May 17
@TiarasOceanView ya and me too. Deep affection with that house. Those old antique looks are gone now that plane with sophisticated design is there.
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6 May 17
Actually it's so big and structured so complicated. Once you enter you will find 2 or may be 3 doors to exit sometimes it used to become a puzzle for our guest to move out I.e. which one will let them go outside not to another room.yes I have spent my childhood here with all lovely mango guava lemon trees.
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@allknowing (135306)
• India
6 May 17
You must have good reasons for this renovation. Once it is completed I am sure you will enjoy living there.
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@allknowing (135306)
• India
7 May 17
@Shwetasingh Was wanting it to look awesome the only reason for the renovations?
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6 May 17
Of course it has started looking awesome.. but sometimes awesome things don't attract you as you don't have any attachment with them. For me, I was to much attached with the previous look so trying to overcome it.
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7 May 17
@allknowing ya it was. But it wasn't my choice. It was the opinion of my parents
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@sjvg1976 (41271)
• Delhi, India
7 May 17
It's hard to accept changes easily especially when your memories are associated with it. Hope with the time you will start liking it.
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@sjvg1976 (41271)
• Delhi, India
7 May 17
@Shwetasingh it happens in the starting but with the time you may like it. I understand your emotions.
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9 May 17
@sjvg1976 let's see.
7 May 17
May be. But right now I am feeling as if I am lost.
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@else34 (13515)
• New Delhi, India
6 May 17
@Shwetasingh I understand your feelings.Our new house is being constructed at the same place where our old,ancestral house was.Like you we miss our old house too.
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@else34 (13515)
• New Delhi, India
7 May 17
@Shwetasingh As time passes,we will soon have the same attachment to our new houses.LOL!!
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7 May 17
@else34 may be.
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6 May 17
Ya same here. It is getting renovated so changes are slow and at the same place.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
6 May 17
I cannot blame you because the sentimental value of the house is in your heart. Not only you but maybe most of us here.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
7 May 17
@Shwetasingh sometimes we need to follow the way of time.
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6 May 17
I know.. I have spent a very beautiful time with every corner of it..
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7 May 17
@ilocosboy yes I am trying to.
@MALUSE (69373)
• Germany
6 May 17
You should move forward and enjoy the renovated house.
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6 May 17
I know but I am a fool who never want the time to change.. I know it's kiddish thought but the change always give me fear of loosing some of my beloved with passing time. I want nothing to change..
@MALUSE (69373)
• Germany
6 May 17
@Shwetasingh Knowing about your situation is the first step to accepting and overcoming it.
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6 May 17
@MALUSE ya may be some day I could.. see I am over emotional so it's difficult but surly I will try.
@Courtlynn (67086)
• United States
6 May 17
Its hard to accept change sometimes especially when we have memories involved
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@Courtlynn (67086)
• United States
6 May 17
@Shwetasingh oh im sure.
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6 May 17
Ya and I have memories of a very long time
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
8 May 17
It's hard to accept changes sometimes but they happen nevertheless
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8 May 17
Ya that's true. For me it's very difficult