Too much choice or too little - neither makes it easy

@boiboing (13153)
Northampton, England
May 14, 2017 5:06am CST
We go to India for our main holiday every year and I start planning early. We don't leave until October but I had all the flights - international and domestic - booked by New Year's Eve. Accommodation has been taking a lot longer. For Dharamsala I picked an Air BnB self-catering place in the town centre. The hotel options were terrible. Either really expensive, miles out of McLeod Ganj (and we won't have a car) or so cheap that you really have to be suspicious. Last time we visited we spent the whole trip laughing about our room because it was so terrible. This place is really inexpensive but it looks great and has good reviews. The owner was in touch within just a few hours. Amritsar has been problematic. We're only going for two nights and all we want to do is sit around the Golden Temple and the Jalianwalabagh gardens. The place we stayed before was cheap and clean but far from friendly. What I want - a mid level, family run place with a bit of character - doesn't seem to exist in Amritsar. So for now I'm hanging on to see if I can save enough hotel chain points to stay at a rather sanitised international chain. Delhi beginning, middle and end was sorted nice and early. The problem is Jaipur. Unlike Dharamsala and Amritsar where I can't find what I want because there are too few choices, Jaipur is just drowning in opportunities to stay in what look like fabulous places. My husband has proven to be useless - he thinks everything looks 'nice'. I was tempted to go back to a place I stayed in 20 years ago but the reviews suggest it hasn't been decorated during that time. So time to get back online and keep looking.
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@Essjayd (1567)
14 May 17
I usually don't mind where we stay for holidays as long as it's clean and near to where we want to be. Some people on Trip Advisor complain about the silliest things. Some of them seem to expect a 5 star luxury hotel for the price of a 1 star hostel!
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@boiboing (13153)
• Northampton, England
14 May 17
That's just SO true - there are people who will give a one star rating because they found a small hair on the carpet. I've given 5 stars to a place where I had a mouse in the room because the staff were so lovely and the views were so good. That's why it's important to read a lot of reviews and weed out the obviously fake and the obviously OCD-fussy.
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@Essjayd (1567)
14 May 17
@boiboing I wonder how some of these people survive in real life. If there's a problem I'm more interested in how the staff deal with it. Lol I used to work in a hotel and some of the complaints we got were hilarious!
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@shebish (775)
• Egypt
14 May 17
I think some people just enjoy complaining.
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@shebish (775)
• Egypt
14 May 17
Good luck with your searching, I find sometimes reviews can be a little harsh, although if there are lots of negative comments all saying the same I tend to take the advice offered.
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@boiboing (13153)
• Northampton, England
14 May 17
That's a good point. Like with reviews on Amazon or Tripadvisor, I tend to read the very positive and the very negative and check how many reviews the person has written. It becomes very easy to spot the ones that were probably written by the hotelier down the road who wants to make a place look bad.
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@shebish (775)
• Egypt
14 May 17
Sadly I think that happens a lot @boiboing
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@boiboing (13153)
• Northampton, England
14 May 17
@shebish I'm a big contrinutor to TA - I'm number 10 in my region at the moment on number of reviews written. I know a lot of people use it but don't contribute to the reviews.
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@LadyDuck (471541)
• Switzerland
14 May 17
I am the one who has to search and choose when we organize our holidays. My husband only complained one time, he was right.
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@LadyDuck (471541)
• Switzerland
14 May 17
@boiboing My husband is not someone who is easily satisfied, but he does not complain a lot. That hotel was really bad.
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@boiboing (13153)
• Northampton, England
14 May 17
@LadyDuck Some of our best travel stories are from terrible hotels.
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@boiboing (13153)
• Northampton, England
14 May 17
He's allowed to agree with me if I say it's a bad hotel
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@Poppylicious (11133)
15 May 17
This is why I rarely go on holiday ... I can't make decisions. I hope you find your perfect place!
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@JudyEv (340019)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 May 17
Good luck. I get really impatient with this type of searching and prefer to leave it all to my husband. I'm careful not to criticise his choices in case I get lumbered with the decisions next time.
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@boiboing (13153)
• Northampton, England
14 May 17
My husband would never dare criticise a place I've chosen for that very same reason.
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@franxav (13837)
• India
14 May 17
In fact, there are places which are nice to stay at moderate charges. For a change you could try southern or eastern part of India.
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@boiboing (13153)
• Northampton, England
14 May 17
I have been all over India many times but thank you for your comment.
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@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
14 May 17
It's always a gamble when traveling. Thus far we've been really lucky, and we haven't traveled much at all so the fact that I've found some really nice places on my limited experience has been a stroke of luck! When we first arrived in Myrtle Beach I was a bit concerned. We had a lovely hotel right on the ocean, but my first impression of it was that it was a dump. It didn't exactly look like a dump, but the clientele.. well lets just say I got a bad vibe and was really worried for the first 24 hours. However, my first impressions turned out to be wrong. It wasn't exactly a 4 star hotel, it wasn't spotless... but thankfully the rooms were rather soundproof, we were right over the pool and I was worried that would be loud but with the windows shut we didn't hear a thing. We had no issues during our 4 night stay, and for the price I paid I'd definitely stay there again. I did notice there were a ton of other dumpy looking places along the strip, so when I return to Myrtle Beach I'll definitely have to be cautious about staying somewhere else!
@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
14 May 17
Good luck with your search. I usually use reviews online before booking a hotel. Not just TripAdvisor but other reviews I find online as well. Bloggers tend to be helpful. They take pictures of everything.
@Fleura (30399)
• United Kingdom
15 May 17
This is the kind of thing I find so difficult, we are supposed to be going camping in Cornwall at half term and I haven't even managed to decide on a simple campsite yet! What will I do if I ever manage to get to India? I guess this is why package travel companies are still in business in spite of all the internet DIY options available.
@boiboing (13153)
• Northampton, England
15 May 17
You will send me a message and I'll sort it out for you, Fleur. I love that sort of things.
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@boiboing (13153)
• Northampton, England
15 May 17
@Fleura Indeed I should. Trouble is that people are so pissy.
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@Fleura (30399)
• United Kingdom
15 May 17
@boiboing You should start your own boutique travel consultancy!
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 May 17
We're going for the first time ever in October 2018. Our travel agent sees to all that.
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
14 May 17
Have you visited the North East?
@boiboing (13153)
• Northampton, England
14 May 17
I think I'd have to ask how far north and how far east to answer that. Sadly places like Assam and Nagaland are on the Foreign and Commonwealth Office list of places they advise against visiting and sadly some of those parts need special permits. So whilst I've been to Kolkata, to Sikkim (and Bhutan, which obviously isn't India) and West Bengal (we LOVE Darjeeling), I've not been able to go to the top right corner, so to speak.
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@boiboing (13153)
• Northampton, England
14 May 17
@responsiveme I will certainly do that. I would love to visit.
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• India
14 May 17
@boiboing I dont think that special permit rule is still prevalent in Assam. Bhutan is next door we can go for day trips, from the place where I stay. The insurgency etc which was a problem is not there now, it was a troubled area I agree. Maybe you can look up the latest info.