How do i forget the pain in the past?
By Bianca Yao
@zacemaster (46)
Davao, Philippines
May 22, 2017 5:27pm CST
My Boyfriend recently just broke up with me due to misunderstanding's like he doesn't even care anymore he alway's seem to polite sometimes and sometime's he set his mood to become very angry at me, and i did everything he asked me to do i gave him everything until we don't have any recent communications for 2 month's do you think it's time for me to let go?
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
22 May 17
It sounds like you may do so if you please as if he is angry a lot at you, that is no good for you is it?
I know it is sad but you can find another more suitable partner perhaps.
Wish you luck and happiness.
If someone is angry a lot at you, it keeps you on edge, always trying to please them, nervous, and in the end, they are never pleased.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
22 May 17
@zacemaster Well it is really your decision Bianca, I would never say my way is the right way. It is just that I have had a lot of experience with it, and I know for me it was not good, I got too upset and it made me so unhappy and sick. So now I am fine again. And I hate to think of you unhappy like that. But I know you have been together a good few years. You can do whatever you like!!
@zacemaster (46)
• Davao, Philippines
22 May 17
@TiarasOceanView Im sorry to hear that Tiara we all have heart aches i guess we all accept that it's normal. and maybe it will make me much stronger. But i don't know what he will feel if i would let him go all the memories we got together will perish maybe i'll accept that even it pain's me so badly.
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@zacemaster (46)
• Davao, Philippines
22 May 17
I guess your right i think it's time for me to calm my mind so i won't be that stressed out thanks a lot Tiara :D
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@cmoneyspinner (9219)
• Austin, Texas
22 May 17
Relationships shouldn't be a guessing game. When I was young and I started dating I had a "standard". If I can be straight with you, then I expect you to be straight with me. And I don't want to have to be on edge all the time, anxiously hoping that what I do pleases you and then get confused by your responses and reactions to something I did for you with good intentions. That's too much stress and it's unnecessary.
Love is when you can trust somebody with your life and you're not afraid for them to see when you're not at your best ... like when you're sick or you're not wearing making up or you're getting old and losing your looks.
Life is fine when you're young and you're having fun.
But who's gonna have your back when that's all done.
Some singer/rapper said those words. But they are true true true. You won't be young forever. I wouldn't waste my youth on somebody I don't know will be there for me through good times and bad times. If that's the case, I'd rather be miserable all by myself. When your man friend behaves sometimes nice, sometimes nasty towards towards you? It's not about love. It's about power and control and getting you to do whatever he wants you to do, while he does whatever he wants to do!! You're not a toy. People don't get to play with you and then throw you away. Keeping it real.
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@zacemaster (46)
• Davao, Philippines
23 May 17
This is so deep but one thing that hit's me is that i won't stay young forever but i'm so afraid maybe no one will love me like he used to. we've together for three years so that means i wasted my three years with him :( i guess i'll start a new beginning anyway :(
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@cmoneyspinner (9219)
• Austin, Texas
23 May 17
@zacemaster - Don't consider it a waste. Consider it an education. For sure, based on your experience, now you know what you DON'T WANT in a relationship. You deserve a happy life. You're worth it. There is someone out there for you. Don't despair. 
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
23 May 17
Two months is a long time not to talk. I would say it's time to move forward with your life.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
22 May 17
If you haven't had any communication in 2 months then it is time to move on with your life. You deserve better. Somebody who loves you will enjoy being with you and would never not talk to you for two months.
@zacemaster (46)
• Davao, Philippines
22 May 17
But sadly we've been together for three years it's a pain if i would do that maybe it takes time :( thanks by the way Laurel :)
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
22 May 17
@zacemaster sorry to hear that. After being together for that long it would be a hard decision to make. Only you know what is best for you. I wish you all the best in whatever decision you make.
@youless (112570)
• Guangzhou, China
23 May 17
2 months is already long for a boy. They are not like girls. Perhaps he already let it go. 2 months is already 1/6 year and we don't have so much golden time to be wasted. Of course unless you still love him then you can go to find him to explain it and try to see whether he will be back. If not, just let it go. Time will mend every broken heart.
@zacemaster (46)
• Davao, Philippines
23 May 17
I guess it's time for me to move on. majority and I will follow my heart thanks :)
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@anamika161088 (11866)
• India
23 May 17
I think yes it is the time to let go. There is no point waiting and hurting yourself.
@diosabella (4789)
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23 May 17
If that someone can drop you just like that it means that he's not into you. Try your hardest to forget him. There's someone better out there.
