Is Life Being single again will be worth it?
By Bianca Yao
@zacemaster (46)
Davao, Philippines
May 23, 2017 6:09am CST
By the recent comment's of some of you guy's, I really appreciated your advice about getting a life and be straight forward to my self, now that he leaves me it's time for me to let go but what are your suggestions on how to be happy again? and is being single worth it? should i be jealous of people out there having their partners?, I would truly appreciate your advice guys, thanks a lot.
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9 responses
@atoz1to10 (6780)
• Australia
23 May 17
If you just get yourself out of a relationship then you should enjoy your life, don't get involved with someone too early. You need time for yourself, and you should not be jealous of others.... Find something to do.. Goodluck.
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@Slayqueen (918)
• India
23 May 17
I know it's hard for you to focus on anything. You don't feel like doing anything at all. But you have to love yourself first. Just focus on what's important to you. What you want to achieve in this life. That's it. The way you think, reflects your personality.
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@zacemaster (46)
• Davao, Philippines
24 May 17
I see i must stick what's important for me the most :( well thank's a lot.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
23 May 17
I have no idea what happened with your life. But reading this post I can guess something. Life is not alike for all people. We have to accept whatever comes in our life even though it is hard or tough. You must have learnt many lessons from your own life and try to understand how to make your happy with that lessons. Our experience is the great teacher in our life. So try to find the best answers by yourself. One of my friend get cheated by her hubby and she has two children. In fact he has been cheated her for years but now only she realized the same. However, I salute her determination on living for her children without taking any help from him anymore. The situations will make us bold and brave.
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@josie_ (10032)
• Philippines
23 May 17
Don't be in a rush to get into another relationship. It is tempting to seek outside diversion to blunt the pain of separation. Emotionally you are in a vulnerable position which may be taken advantage of by some people. Deal with your inner turmoil by avoiding the "blame game" of who is at fault. Be kind to yourself.
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@anamika161088 (11866)
• India
23 May 17
Singles think that couples are happy while couple thinks that singles are happy. Happiness lies within.
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@LittleBard (121)
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23 May 17
I'm personally a firm believer that you need to be able to be happy being single before you can be happy in a relationship. Just focus on you, do the things that make you happy, rely on yourself. I know someone who can't stand to be alone so she bounces from bad relationship to bad relationship without ever stopping to just learn to be happy with just her. Be happy with you, then worry about the rest. :)
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@prashu228 (37524)
• India
23 May 17
Life is a learning process and changes are inevitable. What ever happened you can't change it. Better to move on enjoy life as it comes to you. All the best
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@Nana2016 (251)
• United States
23 May 17
It takes time first you have to be happy with yourself. After a 21 year marriage my ex husband walked in the house one day and told me he wanted a divorce. I was hurt stunned and angry. I took time after the divorce to do things that I enjoyed. Well ill have you know I remarried to a wonderful man and I am very happy. Love will fall back into your life when you least expect it to. God Bless You
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