Would you invite a MyLot friend to stay at your house?
By The Horse
@TheHorse (217886)
Walnut Creek, California
May 27, 2017 3:23pm CST
I always look forward to checking in on MyLot, and I consider some of the people I know here to be real friends. But would I invite them to stay at my house if they were visiting my area?
For the moment, I'll pretend I live in a bigger house, with a pasture and several guest bedrooms. @JudyEvans and her husband and Herc would be welcome here. So would many other of my MyLot friends (you know who you are).
But what if a visit turned out to be a disaster?
I actually dated someone I met on anther writing site (Epinions). She lived in Texas, and I lived in California. We visited each other a coupe of times each. She turned out to be a "psycho hose beast," and I terminated my last visit to Texas early, fearing for my safety.
Are we who we seem to be? Would you invite a MyLot friend to stay with you if they were visiting your area?
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34 responses
@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
27 May 17
I think you would have to book yourself into therapy after staying at our mad house. Sometimes it is just to manic with all the comings and goings!
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
27 May 17
They are very welcome at my house.I had a few visit here.Not from my lot.But other I have met while blogging on greasy.
Plus also visit them at their house.Yes I would.Your welcome if ever in my areal.
I have a dinner guest tonight who plays guitar in a trio.Jazz is the words here.
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@celticeagle (165954)
• Boise, Idaho
28 May 17
It takes all kinds to make a world and even a Mylot world. Some are sane and some aren't. I have no place to have a friend over but if I did I might do that. Your Texas visit sound scary.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 May 17
I think we know for the most part about each other. I would allow anyone to come for a visit, even if it wasn't what I expected I would make the best of it to the best of my ability. =)
Most true colors show through here whether people intend them to or not.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
28 May 17
@TheHorse Maybe she was better at hiding her true colors than most. Lol. Psychos are good at that I suppose.
@TheHorse (217886)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 May 17
@CoralLevang I got lucky but it turned out to be unlucky. I do think that there were signs that I ignored.
@Courtlynn (67086)
• United States
28 May 17
@TheHorse I don't. But I've talked to the person alot through here and bubblews. And another i talk ti through both and on social media and have exchanged gifts with. And i trust them both. Not anyone else really.
@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
27 May 17
Any of my Mylot friends who are visiting in my area are more the welcome to come stay at my place. I don't have a huge place but I can always make room.
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@TheHorse (217886)
• Walnut Creek, California
27 May 17
In real life, I have a couch. And an "artist" apartment (projects everywhere). In my fantasy world, I have a lovely LL Bean decorated guest bedroom for couples, and a small pasture for Herc or any other sheep, goat or horse someone might bring with them.
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@TheHorse (217886)
• Walnut Creek, California
28 May 17
@Happy2BeMe Heh. I live humbly, even though I really don't have to.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
28 May 17
Well, that's a hard question. A few maybe, but not with a family and kids in tow. Anyone else I'd point out the nearest motel.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
29 May 17
@TheHorse I have had friends from AC/Yahoo over for a cookout and one lady from IN stopped in to meet me on her way to FL. Another ac/yahoo person lives not too far and I write for her travel blog....I just wouldn't invite 'strangers' to stay in my home.
@paigea (36318)
• Canada
28 May 17
I met my husband on line. But the first time we met in person, was in a public place and we didn't know where each other lived. I might follow that sort of procedure.
On the other hand people who run a B&B have strangers in their home all the time!
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@teenspirit (1597)
• Israel
28 May 17
@TheHorse In my opinion no but i think that many people disagree with me but I am okay with that=)
@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
27 May 17
People would not want to stay with me lets just put it that way. I think psycho hose beast is putting it mildly to describe me and my tribe here.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
27 May 17
@TheHorse Ah you see that is the bottom line isn't it? Space..without enough space, people go stone mad, as we are here.
@jnesperos (269)
• Davao, Philippines
28 May 17
It's okay for me to invite friends of mine at mylot but justmake sure to master the limitations
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@starflye78 (260)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
28 May 17
Most definately. I could write a book on the havoc the last 5 years in my house and 10 roomates (plus two that just moved in, the verdict is out)...
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