Sorry folks a rant...5/28/'17
By bonnie
@bunnybon7 (50973)
Holiday, Florida
May 28, 2017 12:32pm CST
Ever feel like every day you get up and there is another problem?
Maybe that's just life and I can no longer deal with it.
So, yesterday, I got up when grandson left for work and found my daughter was already at work and grandsons gf was gone to her moms. so only one in house other then myself was a sleeping (daughters bf) in the room across the hall closed away.
I thought I would surely freak with that situation , but in general it was an okay day, till I heard someone out back where I can not see any more due to grandson or his gf putting paper up outside the window where I am unable to see out any more. Come to find out it was said gf, coming home and slipping things around back which I had to go to the front to see if it was an intruder.
scary.
So anyway, later I go into the bathroom, which I have to share with them to the point it seems it is more their bathroom then mine any more. and I pay the largest amount of rent here. I find a thick strange looking bath mat in there that is not even dry. looks still dirty. ?? in front of the tub. Hoping she is not throwing into the washer too, because a few days ago, daughter told me the washer is messing up and not spinning possibly from someone putting back packs etc. in it? Kids don't realize today some short cuts can cost you money in the long run. and some things aren't meant to go in the washer. when you can't afford a new one.
Then as she and I were texting because of big ears that hear what you don't want them to but never hears what you want, daughter tells me her phone just ran out of minutes.
then a few days ago we heard while getting the wipers fixed and oil changed on car, the brakes need done or that will turn into a worse thing and more money. and have you ever noticed that with some people they never seem to realize that their rides places cost money? gas, upkeep on the car. insurance, etc.
hope you are having a better week.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
28 May 17
yes daughter does a bit but the more in a house the more is needed and that is not working so well.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
29 May 17
@Jdaw1985 it usually doesn't unless everyone is a team player and share equally or what they can and clean up after themselves and the disabled one that pays more. its why i pay more. i realize it is all i can bring to the table so i expect equal consideration by understanding if i can.
@Jdaw1985 (3967)
• Harrells, North Carolina
28 May 17
@bunnybon7 i under stand that. We had people living with us before and did not work well at all.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
28 May 17
Why is there paper on the window so you can't see out Brandy?
Yes they don't realize about things sometimes.
Week here is not the best, but that is down to me not doing things fast enough, my own fault (paperwork).
Hope the day improves for you there.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
28 May 17
another thing i need to talk to them about but thats another story in itself. there room leads out to sun porch and not wanting to go into someone elses room, i don't. the kitchen has a window leads out there but paper was placed on it by them. on outside
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
29 May 17
@bunnybon7 I see Brandy. Hey I got to finally watch Bloodlines yesterday! Man that series is fantastic, still not finished yet.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
29 May 17
@TiarasOceanView cool. good for you.glad you like it
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@celticeagle (168334)
• Boise, Idaho
29 May 17
We have one more week of school for my grandson. I hope he goes and doesn't find every excuse imaginable to not go. I am sorry you are going through this. It must be our Karma or something. What do you think?
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@celticeagle (168334)
• Boise, Idaho
29 May 17
@bunnybon7 ......Or Karma from another life.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
29 May 17
@celticeagle i know what Karma is. dear i have been a believer in Edgar Casey most of my life
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
29 May 17
it is surely something. i used to wonder if someone cursed me before i was born or shortly after. lol
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
28 May 17
Oh dear.
I really hope that next week will go so much better for you Bonnie.
When my two were still living with me yet again problems with cars and high electric bills.
Those things were normal for me till they finally found their own way in life again.
Take care and wishing you a better time ahead.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
28 May 17
yes wasn't total easy with just daughter and bf here with me but now its getting nearly unbearable again
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
29 May 17
@lovinangelsinstead21 thank you sweetie. you are the best
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
28 May 17
@bunnybon7
You need the most help for sure wishing and hoping that for you.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
1 Jun 17
thanks. i really hope my situation improves soon. especially since this terrible weather has really been doing a job on my health last few days on top of everything else
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
1 Jun 17
@bunnybon7 I'm sorry to hear you haven't been feeling good. I hope it gets better.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
28 May 17
yes sometimes the hits just keep coming with no end. maybe thats just life. you think?
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
29 May 17
@responsiveme i hope for you also friend
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
29 May 17
@bunnybon7 but things do change too...Hope yours do too
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@GardenGerty (160978)
• United States
10 Jun 17
I hate sharing homes with anyone but hubby, and sometimes I have issues with him. Cars will eat you alive with costs.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
10 Jun 17
yes almost as costly as trying to keep anything going including your body. lol
@PatZAnthony (14749)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
1 Jun 17
Hope one of these days things will be better there @bunnybon7
Most of us realize it is never easy to share space.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
1 Jun 17
its especially hard when you are sick most of the time
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
29 May 17
yes one of the features i originally liked about this house we rent is being able to see out back and front. plus these days you have to be able to see who is hanging around if you are by yourself. the house before this was broken into from the back door . luckily i wasn't there at the time but some may not know or care there is still an old lady in the house even if it looks like no one is home or answers the door as i could be in the bathroom and come out to find someone strange here in this neighborhood.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
28 May 17
thanks Alfredo, its what becomes of folks with no partner in old age and having to depend on family
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
1 Jun 17
yes and thanks. cause today i am almost too sick to worry at it. lol
@Courtlynn (67080)
• United States
28 May 17
Terrible few days for you. Hope next week is better.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
28 May 17
me too. seems too many things are turning up requiring money. and sometimes the inconvienense of family is not worth the help. its like weighing the good and bad. sometimes there is more bad
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