New name for me: Ground Floor- has pets
@sallypup (61709)
Centralia, Washington
June 2, 2017 6:23pm CST
I just booked our Motel 6 stay. In two weeks I will have the energy to drive hubby, Sally dog and me West. Sally and I made this trip not that long ago but this time hubby is going.
I also decided to do it or kick my own rump. What am I talking about in this last sentence? I called the sister that is in charge of my Mom and requested that she drive Mom to a convenient Mc D's so that we all can meet and greet. That fast food joint is right on the highway heading back home. Perfect.
Sister said she would meet us then said that she had just enjoyed an hour long discussion with Mom- Mom was determined that insert my daughter's name- is who was raised on the Farm and is her daughter. My sister said no and finally just walked away from the "disagreement." Dementia gives the caregiver no rest. Nada.
So I will do it. I will participate in West side trails and a poetry reading and finally, a meet and greet with the Mom who possibly will not know me and for sure will not remember that I ever met with her for a last time. What will be will be.
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
3 Jun 17
I am glad you are going, and taking hubby. We do what we can for our parents even as they slip away from us.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
3 Jun 17
I am glad you are going Lenore.
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@celticeagle (168478)
• Boise, Idaho
3 Jun 17
Ugh! Awful to think about. At least you know what to expect and it won't come as a big surprise.
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
7 Jun 17
I am so glad you made this visit and will go see you're mom, i hope to see Great Grandma in November we will see if i am able to make it out that way. Hope you are able to have a nice visit, hopefully you can get a picture to. I know this was a hard decision for you to make but i know in the long run you will be glad you made this choice even if it may be you're last visit.....
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@sallypup (61709)
• Centralia, Washington
7 Jun 17
@chrissbergstrom You are welcome to visit with us. November is a problem time for the mountain passes. Cold and horrid roads start to set in around that time.