I'm Hurting

@just4him (317238)
Green Bay, Wisconsin
June 7, 2017 10:11am CST
Yesterday was a very busy day. My older son who is homeless and living in a trailer at the fairgrounds, just found out he needs surgery. He was in the emergency room on Saturday and called about the follow-up on Monday. Instead of him going to the doctor, they just scheduled the surgery. So now he's also unemployed until after the surgery, which is the 15th. As he works temp jobs, that means he has no income. I've been doing some praying big time for him. Yesterday, I called him and asked how he would like me to give him a full tank of gas and get him a bit of groceries to get him through for a few days. He was happy with that. When I got to his trailer I found his truck also needs a lot of work so offered to help him with that as well. That's when my trouble started. After getting him gas, he helped boost me into his truck and pressed just a little harder than expected on my ribs and now I have a bruised rib. He's real sorry about that. It was an accident. One I'm feeling big time at the moment. It hurts to breathe and move more than a little bit. With all I did yesterday, my knees were rebelling and painful. So I didn't go to the pool this morning. It might be a couple days until I get back there. So I'm hurting and taking it easy as much as possible. Right now I'm on my way out the door for my hair appointment. I need to leave now as the main road getting there is torn up with construction. So I need to take the long way to get there. I have all the notifications done for now. I'll check in when I get back. I hope you're having a good day/night. Thanks for reading.
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@thelme55 (77164)
• Germany
8 Jun 17
Sorry to hear about your son. May you feel better soon from the pain you have now.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Jun 17
@thelme55 Thank you.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Jun 17
Thank you. It's starting to heal.
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@thelme55 (77164)
• Germany
10 Jun 17
@just4him that is great @just4him. Enjoy your weekend then.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Jun 17
Sorry to hear this, I will include you and your son to my prayers.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Jun 17
Thank you very much.
@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
7 Jun 17
I am praying for you and your son. I wish him all the luck in the world. I do hope you stop hurting soon.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Jun 17
Thank you. The rib is starting to feel better, but if I move a certain way, I can still feel it. Thank you for your good wishes for my son.
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@Deepizzaguy (104192)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
13 Jun 17
You will survive your challenge that you are going through. Sorry to learn about your problems.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Jun 17
I always do. Thank you.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Jun 17
@Deepizzaguy That's an interesting concept.
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@Deepizzaguy (104192)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
13 Jun 17
@just4him The late Garner Ted Armstrong who was the author of the book "Believe It Or Not: The Bible Does Not Promise Heaven." wrote that life is a spiritual boot camp.
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@Shiva49 (26776)
• Singapore
7 Jun 17
That is a lot of trouble and anxiety. I do hope and pray all will be back to normal soon - siva
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Jun 17
Thank you. I'm praying so as well.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
8 Jun 17
I'm sorry about your son and your painful ribs. I hope everything works out well for both of you.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Jun 17
Thank you very much Ruby.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
10 Jun 17
@RubyHawk It's feeling much better. I'm healing faster than I have in the past, which is good.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
10 Jun 17
@just4him Hope you're better today.
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@celticeagle (168334)
• Boise, Idaho
8 Jun 17
Bruised ribs hurt. I know from experience. Hope you are better in a few.
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@celticeagle (168334)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Jun 17
@just4him ......Good.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Jun 17
Thank you. It's starting to feel better.
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• United States
7 Jun 17
I hope you feel better soon. He should have maybe grabbed your hands to help you up and support your back. It was an accident.
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• United States
9 Jun 17
I hope you have a speedy recovery @just4him
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Jun 17
Yes, it was an accident. I'm starting to heal.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Jun 17
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
8 Jun 17
Aren't you gong to have a check-up of that bruised rib? What surgery will your son be having?
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Jun 17
They can't do anything for ribs, so no, not getting it checked. My son is having hemorrhoid surgery.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
13 Jun 17
@just4him Oh I see. I hope your ribs pain will soon go away. My prayer for your son's surgery. I think it is just a minor surgery. Not much to worry.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Jun 17
@SIMPLYD Yes it is. I think it's outpatient.
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@Juliaacv (51407)
• Canada
7 Jun 17
It sounds like it never rains but it pours is happening. I hope that you can rest and let your bruised ribs heal, and I do hope that your son manages until he is able to return to work-I'm sure that he is grateful for your help.
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@Juliaacv (51407)
• Canada
10 Jun 17
@just4him You've got a good way of thinking about it, and you'll get thru it all together.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Jun 17
He is. He's getting the truck fixed today. I also had someone tell me they have some scrap for him. That will help. I just need to let the person know he is interested and will pick it up today. Yes, it's never a gentle rain when things happen, it's always a downpour.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
10 Jun 17
@Juliaacv He picked up the scrap metal today. I had a good relaxing day today. My first this week.
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• United States
7 Jun 17
He must have squeezed way too hard to hurt your ribs. No pain stops a woman from a hair appointment.
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• United States
9 Jun 17
@just4him I've never had bruised or broken ribs.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Jun 17
@AbbyGreenhill That's wonderful you never did.
@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Jun 17
You got that right. I've had many bruised and broken ribs in my day, so it didn't take much.
• Philippines
12 Jun 17
Oh my. That sounds painful. I hope it's just a bruise and nothing more to it. Sorry to hear about your son. Hope he gets a stable job after his surgery...
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Jun 17
He's sure he will. Thank you. I realized yesterday that the rib is broken, not just bruised. I can tell because it moves when I breathe. Very painful. It will take six weeks to heal.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Jun 17
@rachz_kisses No, and not planning to because they can't do anything for it. I'll heal. I have in the past.
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• Philippines
13 Jun 17
@just4him Now I'm worried about your situation. Hoping it will not do any complications. Have you seen a doctor yet?
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@manikarnika (3236)
• India
8 Jun 17
Yeah...I am sending positive vibes for speedy recovery...All problems fade away soon.Only happiness exist...
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Jun 17
Thank you.
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• India
9 Jun 17
@just4him you're welcome
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@MsBooklover (3974)
• United States
7 Jun 17
I am so sorry. You have a lot on your plate, and so does your son. It is difficult. I hope you are feeling better. Maybe your son could get some help from the state. It is there for people who truly need it. It sounds like he really does. I will be praying for both of you.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Jun 17
Thank you. He did apply for unemployment during this time. He does have Medicaid, so that helps. Yes, we both have a lot on our plate. Thanks for the prayers.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
10 Jun 17
@MsBooklover So am I.
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• United States
9 Jun 17
@just4him I am glad he is getting some help.
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@GardenGerty (160978)
• United States
8 Jun 17
I am so sorry about your son, and about your ribs. The water might make it feel better, but you know your body best.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Jun 17
It might, but I have a snug suit and getting it on would hurt my rib. So I'm waiting until I can get it on with ease.
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
8 Jun 17
Lately I had a little surgery by myself unexpectedly. So I understand it can be hard for a person to handle it all alone. I hope your son will have a successful surgery and everything will be fine for him.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Jun 17
Thank you. I hope you heal quickly from your surgery.
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@allknowing (137822)
• India
8 Jun 17
So it's raining trouble at your end it looks like. But it will stop raining - nature takes for it.
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@allknowing (137822)
• India
10 Jun 17
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Jun 17
Yes it is, but the sun always comes out.
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@Jackalyn (7558)
• Oxford, England
14 Jun 17
I am so sorry your son is having such a bad time. I pray it will all get better for him and am glad you were there for him. I also pray your rib heals right now in Jesus' name.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
14 Jun 17
Thank you. His surgery is tomorrow. Most of the time I don't feel my rib, only when I move wrong, which is good.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
7 Jun 17
I am so sorry there.Hope that things wil work out there
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Jun 17
Thank you. I'm starting to heal.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
9 Jun 17
@just4him good these things take time
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@Courtlynn (67080)
• United States
7 Jun 17
I'm sorry to hear about your son. And sorry about your pains. Hope it goes away soon.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Jun 17
Thank you. It's starting to heal.
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@Courtlynn (67080)
• United States
9 Jun 17
@just4him glad to hear it. Take care
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