He's my next door neighbor now and it's so awkward

June 9, 2017 4:01pm CST
So a few months ago, I was hit on by this guy at the bus stop in front of my apartment complex and the guy was a foreigner so it took me a minute to actually get what he was talking about. He basically asked me to "try him" and when I rejected him he told me that he'd "treat me nice". I then told him to leave me alone basically and he did. But just recently, I noticed that the new family that lives in the apartment right across from mine is headed by that guy. HE'S A FATHER. He has three kids and a wife! And you know, I don't really pay attention to my neighbors because most of them don't care for my family and I due to reasons I will talk about later. But anyway, I noticed the guy because for awhile whenever we happened to pass each other in the stairwell or by the mail boxes, he would just stare at me. Like just, unblinkingly stare at me and then it hit me! He's staring at me because he hit on me and I now see his wife on a daily basis! Hopefully he never says anything to me because I honestly don't know what I would say back. But just...Ugh, you know? It's just creepy to me.
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• United States
9 Jun 17
Be so careful my friend. Don't turn your back on him, keep him where you can see him..
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• Abuja, Nigeria
10 Jun 17
that's true, keep your friends close, but keep your enemies closer!
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Jun 17
if he makes any adances or talks to ypu would re port him as as stalkler to the pollicle so he can be stopped he does spound like a creep amd creeps are sometimes stalkers
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9 Jun 17
I will most certainly do this! Hopefully it doesn't come to that though.
• Philippines
10 Jun 17
Avoid him the best you can. Not good about him attempting to cheat on his wife.
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• Austin, Texas
10 Jun 17
That's creepy. Try not to watch too many of those real true story TV detective shows because you might start getting paranoid.
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@LeaPea2417 (37355)
• Toccoa, Georgia
10 Jun 17
That is very creepy. Be very careful and always on the alert.
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
10 Jun 17
I would have to tell him " nice family you got there" and walk away.
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@musicman6 (2407)
• United States
9 Jun 17
Whatever you do, do not let him know that he's affecting you, and don't let him think that you are intimidated by him, and if he makes any move out of line, be sure to act quickly and confidently, report him to the police if you have to, or even confront him in front of his wife, show him that you mean business, and you will do what it takes to get him in trouble ! This is how you have to deal with these type of people, (same as dealing with a bully) !
@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
10 Jun 17
@GrayCats , that is pretty darn creepy that he stares at you like that! Be careful. I do not understand men who have a family but would try to mess around.
11 Jun 17
Will do! And yes, it's like, you have these loving people around you but you're still not happy?
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@Jdaw1985 (3967)
• Harrells, North Carolina
9 Jun 17
I hope that this guy is not trying to follow you by moving in next door to you. He is a dog for trying to do that to his wife and kids. Who knows how many times he has done that though.
9 Jun 17
I actually never thought of that but I hope he isn't either. And yeah, I feel bad for his family having to deal with a dad/husband with a wandering eye.
@Jdaw1985 (3967)
• Harrells, North Carolina
14 Jun 17
@GrayCats It is just sad to even think of that but many guys do that even women do it. To bad you do not have proof to show to his wife even though it would hurt her it would help her in the long run.
@Courtlynn (67085)
• United States
10 Jun 17
Very creepy. Hopefully he doesn't say anything
@Tierkreisze (1609)
• Philippines
9 Jun 17
Maybe he's worried that you might tell his wife.
@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
10 Jun 17
What he mean when he said "try him"
@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
12 Jun 17
@GrayCats that's so arrogant, he should never do that
11 Jun 17
I assume he meant that I should give dating him a try. Or something more explicit.
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• United States
10 Jun 17
Irony at its finest hour. He said he'd be good to you? He's not even being good to his own wife! I despise men like that, no moral code whatsoever. I hope that things get better for you, and I hope that he moves out soon. Be on the alert, and keep your doors locked at ALL times. You never know what people can do. Stay safe.
11 Jun 17
I will be sure to do that and I've told my mom and brother about the 'event' and pointed him out, so they're on alert as well. Thanks!
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@Karenmm (881)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Dec 18
Hahaha that's weird I guess.... I wonder what hits him every time he thinks oooh my she's my neighbor...