Just venting

@Babs0630 (487)
June 13, 2017 8:58pm CST
I work 30+hours a week I get home from work and no one has done anything! A list has been made directions given on how dinner is supposed to be prepared and NOTHING is done! I'm tired I dont want to cook,clean after working all day. My hubby works as well but dang seriously on his day off he could pitch in! I cook,clean,shop,take the car in for repairs all I want is dinner done or the house cleaned. I can't do it all or I can but I shouldn't have to. *end of vent* thank you for reading. tired momma
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April
@thislittlepennyearns (61812)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
14 Jun 17
I think my other half had forgotten how to put dirty dishes in the dishwasher...that is if he ever knew how to to begin with
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Barbara
@Babs0630 (487)
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14 Jun 17
Seems that way dear men forget as soon as they get married lol
Patsie Hatley
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
14 Jun 17
I have a throry men are allegic to dirty dishes lol lol lol
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Barbara
@Babs0630 (487)
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15 Jun 17
@Hatley lol I think so too!
Courtney
@Courtlynn (67086)
• United States
14 Jun 17
You definitely shouldn't have to do anything after working all day, if theres someone else who could've done it while you were out. Or at least not all/most of it.
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Courtney
@Courtlynn (67086)
• United States
15 Jun 17
@Babs0630 thats terrible.
Barbara
@Babs0630 (487)
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14 Jun 17
Oh,yes there were 6 other people here today hubby and 5 kids and not one of them done anything!
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Barbara
@Babs0630 (487)
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15 Jun 17
@sugartoes lol I wonder what mine would do if I'd throw everything outside lol
celticeagle
@celticeagle (165954)
• Boise, Idaho
14 Jun 17
My ex always had dinner ready when he was off on a rain day. I would take their privileges. Hubby too!
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celticeagle
@celticeagle (165954)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Jun 17
@Babs0630 .........Good for you!
Barbara
@Babs0630 (487)
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15 Jun 17
I pulled the ps4 system out the living room all day today so they were all pretty bored lol I came home to a clean kitchen!
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Oshy
@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
14 Jun 17
Stop doing everything..that is the best thing to do.
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Barbara
@Babs0630 (487)
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15 Jun 17
Oh,I have and I still hear I need clothes I said well,you know how the washer works. I hear I'm hungry a lot with 3 teens and 2 preteens they expect me to fix them food all the time
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Betty Belekis
@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
14 Jun 17
I totally understand. I threw more than one temper tantrum when I was working. Mom's are supposed to do it all...that's for the birds.
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Barbara
@Babs0630 (487)
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15 Jun 17
Exactly, I felt overwhelmed with all that I had to do last night so I was like bump this made me a sand which and pulled ps4 out the living room and went to bed lol. They asked me this morning can we get the ps4 back I said nope and I just got home and my kitchen is cleaned and my work clothes are being washed as I'm typing this lol
librarygeek1980
@librarygeek1980 (3137)
• United States
14 Jun 17
Oh trust me, I feel your pain. Day in and day out I take care of 3 kids, every member of my family has some level of mental illness, husband included. There are those days where I just feel stuck, and get pretty sick and tired of taking care of everything, including mental health. But I just hang in there, my kids have gotta grow up sometime, hang in there, you got this!
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Barbara
@Babs0630 (487)
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15 Jun 17
Me too I'm just tired of it all the kids aguing,the not helping. But when my pay rolls in it's mom I want this or mom can I have that? Or let's go out to eat tonight. I'm like nope,nope,nope. You want something earn it you are hungry cook it in the "clean kitchen" that you never cleaned
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librarygeek1980
@librarygeek1980 (3137)
• United States
15 Jun 17
@Babs0630 heck ya! I feel the same way.
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Patsie Hatley
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
14 Jun 17
that is why mylot i s here so we c an vent or raamand not have a stroke surely he could make dinner one night a week lol lol
Patsie Hatley
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
14 Jun 17
my hubby neversaw a dish or pot or pan that he could not run away and hide from. he never'dild wash a dish or pot or pan but he sure could cookl realy well
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Barbara
@Babs0630 (487)
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15 Jun 17
@Hatley my hubby can cook too when he wants too lol
Barbara
@Babs0630 (487)
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14 Jun 17
Surely,I think men are incapable of doing anything (jk) today was his day off from work and usually he does "pickup" bit I want more than a quick pickup I want it clean,clean. You know how us women clean lol
hereandthere
@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
14 Jun 17
it's so unfair, isn't it? just because you initiate doing things, they expect you to always be the one to do it.
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Barbara
@Babs0630 (487)
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15 Jun 17
Yes,they do like today before I went into work I cleaned the kitchen and washed a load of my clothes then went grocery shopping,let the dogs out,cleaned the bathroom. When I got home everyone was like I'm hungry I still ain't cooked I got up made me a sand which and fixn to go to bed
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Pat Z Anthony
@PatZAnthony (14749)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
14 Jun 17
Go on strike. Eat before you get home. Let them have PB & J. Millions of people in this world live on less than that! Don't do laundry for anyone. If they don't have clean clothes it will be their fault. Everyone here does their share and the males clean as well as the females, plus cook when it is their turn. No excuses.
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Barbara
@Babs0630 (487)
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15 Jun 17
I get the excuses we cleaned but it got dirty again lol and my response to that is that's why that same sock in sitting in the same spot when I left? What did it do jump out the dirty clothes? Lol. Another excuse is "I forgot" and response to that is well I'm gonna forget to feed you or pay the internet bill .