What do you do when one of your fb friends keep on sending you messages about God and the world?

@thelme55 (77080)
Germany
June 15, 2017 2:39pm CST
Do you 1) Unfriend her 2) Block her 3)Telling her to stop it? This woman who keeps on sending me messages about God, proverbs about life and the world which I have to send to other fb friends and that I should not ignore them because something worse will happen to me when ignoring the messages. I find these messages annoying because in the first place, this woman is not even communicating with me in a normal way. Yes, she is a friend of my close friend but I only accepted her friendships request because I thought I can chat with her in fb as she seems an interesting woman in her profile. I have deleted her as my fb friend yesterday thinking I would not receive any messages from her anymore but nay, she still can. Then I thought of blocking her but an idea came to my mind. I thought that every time she will message me those nonsense, I will reply her with the links of my blogs. 1 message of her is equals to 1 blog link of mine. Let us see who will surrender. So, I received a message again this morning from her and I reply with the link on how to make an ice cream. Do you know what she then said? " IT IS STILL SO COLD FOR ME TO EAT AN ICE CREAM " LOL I wonder if she will send me more messages.
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@rebelann (112873)
• El Paso, Texas
15 Jun 17
I like your approach. Maybe next time send her a recipe for Chile Rellenos ??
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@rebelann (112873)
• El Paso, Texas
15 Jun 17
Dang it, now I'm hungry @thelme55
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@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Jun 17
@rebelann very nice recommendation, it would surely work.
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@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
15 Jun 17
@rebelann you just made me laugh. That is a good idea. I will send her a recipe of Chile Rellenos from you tube.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
16 Jun 17
why don't you unfollow her if you are still friends with her on FB? for me, i do that, then i also check my settings that i should "see first". i have 166 friends on FB and they are my family, close friends, and colleagues, but the ones i follow their posts are my family only.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
18 Jun 17
@thelme55 the message could be text messages i suppose. because if you deleted her, she can still send that. if you totally block her, she cannot send you any message anymore.
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@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
18 Jun 17
@ridingbet good if it is only text messages but she is sending me kilometer long paragraphs as pm in fb. I will totally block her as soon as possible. I have to go to my laptop or cp to block her in the fb setting.
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@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
17 Jun 17
@ridingbet, I already deleted her as fb friend but she can still send me a message. Today, she sent me a kilometer message again. I didn't read what it was all about but I know it was nonsense again when I checked this out before I went to work.
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@marguicha (223129)
• Chile
15 Jun 17
I´d block her.
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@marguicha (223129)
• Chile
16 Jun 17
@thelme55 Some people think it is rude if you block them for that. But I think it is rude to impose your faith on others.
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@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
18 Jun 17
@marguicha yes, that is what I think too.
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@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
15 Jun 17
I will eventually @marguicha if she doesn´t stop. I am sure she will ask my friend why I blocked her if I did.
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@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
15 Jun 17
I have to agree that messages like that are irritating and confusing when the sender is not a close friend. But she could also mean well. Or she could just be trying to reach out and this is her way of starting a connection or conversation with you. I like your blog link response - and her response clearly means she read it. So I think you should just send her blog links whenever she send you messages about that. If it's something that really irritates you, you don't have to read it all the way. See how it will play out. Maybe she'll get tired of it eventually. Who knows.
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@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
15 Jun 17
I don´t think she is trying to reach out because she is just spamming. She sent at least more than 5 a day. Yes, maybe she has read my blog. At the beginning I read what she sent but now no more. I believe in God but I don´t want anybody to tell me to pray for this or that or else something bad will happen to me if I just ignore it. Maybe she will stop when I keep sending her my blog every time she send a message to me. Thanks @Raine38
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@LadyDuck (471468)
• Switzerland
16 Jun 17
She did not get the message for sure. I usually ignore the messages.
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@LadyDuck (471468)
• Switzerland
18 Jun 17
@thelme55 I had to block someone because I had enough of that spamming.
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@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
19 Jun 17
@LadyDuck I have blocked this woman last night as she was spamming again.
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@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
18 Jun 17
It seems she didn't @LadyLuck. I have ignored it for a long time now but she is already spamming.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
16 Jun 17
That is wild! You are hilarious. Keep doing it until she gets the point. If she doesn't, she will certainly have great recipes.
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@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Jun 17
@DianneN she will have free recipes.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
18 Jun 17
@thelme55 . Do it!
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@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
17 Jun 17
Indeed it is getting wild with her @DianneN. I have to send her my island hopping you tube video in reply to a kilometer long message I received this morning
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
16 Jun 17
I just ignore. I also have one friend who keep sending messages, quotes and images as well. I can't blocked or delete her from my lists coz she is a good friend though.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
20 Jun 17
@thelme55 if she's spamming your inbox, guess that's the best way to get rid off her.
@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
20 Jun 17
I still have some friends who sent me those kinds of messages but they only sent once in a while and so I didn't delete them. This woman who is spamming is now blocked besides that, I unfriend her yesterday @jaiho2009
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
16 Jun 17
I ignore those kind of messages. But if that person is persistent I will answer her to please stop sending me things like that because i don't like it. Ako pa, I will really tell what I have in mind. he he he
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
21 Jun 17
@thelme55 That's the wisest decision.
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@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
20 Jun 17
She was persistent and so I blocked her @SIMPLYD.
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@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
27 Jun 17
@SIMPLYD yes, it is.
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• United States
15 Jun 17
Have no idea..I am not fond of Facebook lol
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• United States
20 Jun 17
@thelme55 Hope you get it sorted out Thelma.
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@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
20 Jun 17
That's great @TiarasOceanView. You are saved from chain letters and some negative "friends ".
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@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
20 Jun 17
@TiarasOceanView it is sorted now. I blocked the stammer last night.
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• United States
16 Jun 17
i despise those copy/paste/share 'r the world'll come to'n abrupt end sorta thingies. thankfully there aint nobody'n my fb that sends me such. i'm gigglin' o'er yer solution, 'pparently yer efforts fell'n blind eyes though :)
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• United States
20 Jun 17
@thelme55 sad when such comes to that, but i'm glad that'cha did't. i've mostly family'n my fb, which's the only reason i still go there. seems those young'uns 'f mine aint figured ya can email pictures?? 'tis the only way i get 'em 'f the grands ~ when they post'em'n fb. sigh...where'd i go awry with their raisin'??
@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
20 Jun 17
I have blocked her already @crazyhorseladycx. You are lucky not to have a spammer in your fb friends.
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
15 Jun 17
At least it wasn't a God message. I just ignore them and yes, I am a Christian, but I do find all the FB messages about God to be just a little annoying as well.
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
20 Jun 17
@thelme55 That's good. I've never sent one of those messages. A lot of my friends on FB do and I'll like them but I don't share them.
@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
20 Jun 17
Yes, those are annoying messages @just4him. She can't spam me now as I have blocked her yesterday.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
16 Jun 17
I have friends who do that to me. I delete the messages.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
21 Jun 17
@thelme55 I haven't blocked anyone yet. But sometimes you have no choice. If it was someone who wasn't friend or family I would block them in a minute.
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@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
20 Jun 17
I will be deleting her messages when I have time. I have blocked her yesterday @RubyHawk
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@diosabella (4789)
16 Jun 17
There were a lot of weird people sending me messages in fb. And it really annoys me when its kind of a chain letter. I do believe in God but a lot of things being shared are bunch of nonsense. I didn't block the user but I hide all the post similar to it. and I don't get anything like it anymore.
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@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
20 Jun 17
Just the same with me but I didn't hide the personal messages. That woman is blocked now @diosabella
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@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
21 Jun 17
@diosabella yes indeed. No more loads of messages coming.
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20 Jun 17
@thelme55 Good for you!
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@Sherinl (78)
16 Jun 17
I would block them! I particularly don't like messages that claim "they should be forwarded before so and so to avoid misery blah blah blah... it is a nuisance really and to send religious messages like that is like playing with one's faith ... It is NOT right. I don't forward such messages to others to avoid putting them in similar situation ... But yeah, I might tell them nicely to stop such forwards once and then block if they don't understand that they're wrong ... Sending religious messages are OK to an extent ... but nuisance isn't!
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@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
20 Jun 17
I agree with you. The problem is solved now as I blocked her @Sherinl
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20 Jun 17
@thelme55 Serves her right I think ... it is important to respect everyone's feelings ... I hope she learns something and refrains from such behaviour in the future ...
@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
15 Jun 17
OMG that's unbelievable. What kind of a person is she. Firstly you have unfriended her and she still sent you message. I think she is not an ice cream fan i hope that she doesnt send you any message again
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@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
15 Jun 17
Yes, unbelievable. Maybe she is not. I am sure she was surprised of my response. Next time I will send her a link of my you tube video when I was island hopping. Lol Thanks @Nawsheen
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@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
16 Jun 17
@thelme55 Haha, That would be funny. I wonder what she will tell you
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
28 Jun 17
lol That is a good idea, I get these kinds of messages too , I should send her a link to one of my blogs, good idea there Thelma lol
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@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
28 Jun 17
Lol! Go for it. Send her your blog links @BelleStarr. I hope she will read them.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50273)
• United States
15 Jun 17
That was very clever of you
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@Tampa_girl7 (50273)
• United States
15 Jun 17
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@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
15 Jun 17
Indeed clever of me. LOL! I tapped my shoulder for that and my hubby was laughing @Tampa_girl7
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
18 Jun 17
That is hilarious, I should try that next time someone sends me those stupid religious messages!
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@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
18 Jun 17
Yes, it is @Srbageldog. Try it next time
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@RasmaSandra (79929)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
15 Jun 17
I too have such a strange friend on FB. I knew her when growing up in NYC and she was among my childhood friends. She does not post her own photo on FB but now and then sends me similar messages to pass on to other. Last one was on Mother's Day telling me to pass the message on to other moms. I have not done any blocking or unfriending but what I do is simply ignore the messages when they show up. Hope you can come to some sort of sense with your strange friend. Too bad we cannot bring these two strange folk together.
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@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
15 Jun 17
Yes, too bad we couldn´t bring them together @RasmaSandra . I have ignored it in the beginning but now it si getting worse.
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@RasmaSandra (79929)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
17 Jun 17
@thelme55 My friend is not so bad so I hope yours lets up soon. It can really be so annoying.
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• United States
15 Jun 17
That's one way to gain a reader! LOL!
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@thelme55 (77080)
• Germany
15 Jun 17
You get it right @Jeanniemaries . I wonder if she will read it though.
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• United States
16 Jun 17
@thelme55 Only time will tell!
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