Are Babies Born Atheist?
By josefina
@josie_ (10034)
Philippines
June 22, 2017 6:36pm CST
"Upon you I was cast from birth, you have been my God from my mother's womb" ~Psalm 22:10
This is really an irrelevant question since a baby's mind is a blank slate. At this time in our lives, ideology is the last thing on our mind. We're more concern with survival and seeking our mother's breast is what interest us most.
The church start indoctrinating children at a very young age. The younger the better. Children born into a family of any religion seldom change their belief. They become "soldiers of God" and in extreme cases willing to die for their faith. This is why we have saints, martyrs and terrorists.
In our home we have divergent beliefs as far as religion is concern. I neither encourage nor discourage my grandchildren's choice of religion. I believe exposure to a variety of religions is the best way to prevent religious intolerance and a myopic view of "God" base solely on one particular religious doctrine.
Photo: My grandson Zac when less than a year old
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@Mike197602 (15505)
• United Kingdom
23 Jun 17
I like your thinkingand agree that religion is more often than not just children following parents.
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@josie_ (10034)
• Philippines
23 Jun 17
@Mike197602 _As their parents followed their grandparents. I am not anti-religion only against mindless indoctrination of children. Isn't this also a form of child abuse?
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@Mike197602 (15505)
• United Kingdom
23 Jun 17
@josie_ I am pretty much anti religion but I wouldn't go so far as to say it is a form of child abuse.
But thinking more I suppose it could be seen as such if the parents indoctrinate the kids into things that are illegal etc.
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@josie_ (10034)
• Philippines
23 Jun 17
@Mike197602 _ Unfortunately what is ethically unacceptable to you may be justified by others as a moral obligation according to their belief system. War is a good example.
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@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
23 Jun 17
I think they are born atheist. It is the parents beliefs that the children follow as they grow up. Many of them start to question the religions they follow at times. We find many people converting to other religions and other becoming atheists. Religion is not something which must be forced. As for me I respect people from all religions and atheists.
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@josie_ (10034)
• Philippines
23 Jun 17
@Nawsheen _Religion is never force on children. It's not necessary since children are susceptible to new ideas that are encourage by people they love and trust. It's not religion per se which is causing problems today but the intolerance of belief and ideology alien to our own.
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@josie_ (10034)
• Philippines
1 Jul 17
@MaiteMaite _Not all atheists use science in their argument against the existence of God. Some rely on practical experience and common sense.
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@MaiteMaite (124)
• Lahore, Pakistan
1 Jul 17
@Nawsheen Atheists arguments are weak. They tend to believe in science and science is constantly changing.
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@KiraNoFutago (107)
• United States
23 Jun 17
While I agree children are blank slates, but I feel a bit odd about calling religion something forced upon children. I know it does happen, but I think in most cases it's more about the child grasping whatever they see in the adults around them and religion is just part of what is picked up. Hopefully the child grows up aware of other religions or lack thereof, and someday make the decision on their own to be or not to be religious. The martyrs and terrorists, at least, are an overall minority worth trying to save wherever possible, and are the result of severe indoctrination and brainwashing.
Generally, however, I feel children are simply mirroring what they see as they learn what is acceptable in society. Children cave to these pressures in so many things, religion not being the least of them but certainly not the most pressing in most cases. Children are shown they are to like this or that item, this or that show, either by parents or media or peers. We pick it up, move along, and sometimes grow wise and grow out of it into ourselves. I don't fear for the religious children, but I feel concern for any religious adult who cannot give their own reasons for belief, rather than just saying "ah well, I grew up with it so..."
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@KiraNoFutago (107)
• United States
24 Jun 17
@josie_ It is probably a side effect of my own experiences, since most people I speak to online seem to feel swamped with the zealous defenders, but most of the people I've sat and spoken with in person (after the dance of making sure the other isn't the dangerously indoctrinated type) tend to more or less agree with calling ourselves "paper [insert religion here]", generally speaking of not believing the stories told in children's church groups any more than the stories told at bedtime, and feeling most of the things are man-made. I moved every couple of years in my childhood, so my experience is, at least, not from just one church, or even just one state. Even in a Catholic University, I lost my faith faster than I'd ever learned it. Most of the people I spoke to there were the same.
That said, I agree there are those who take it all too far and make force by leaving no other room for growth. I have seen those people, even had the creepy voyeuristic pleasure of being invited into one such home, and I love conversations like this simply for being another stone someone trapped in those situations might somehow stumble across and maybe open an eye. There's a great chance I've somehow lucked out in my skipping around, and the majority of religiously-raised children get the full indoctrination method, rather than the games-about-the-stories kinds of classes I've seen.
Whichever is more common, making sure absolutely every single person, no matter how young, is given information and the chance to make an informed decision is still the priority in this, as well as in so many other plagues humanity faces (also taught from childhood, ever-invasive, such as gender and racial stereotypes, and the skewed notions of how exactly the human body should look). Factual information, over all opinionated information, needs to be broadcast everywhere.
There should ideally be nowhere to hide a child from the truths they will build their identities upon, and not the least of these is the truth that religions are a dime a dozen and vary so little, and that science should trump each of them at the core. Religions are run by mankind, and are interpreted and rewritten by mankind, so if one cannot exist with the facts laid out, it is the proven facts which ought to remain. Above all, informed decisions.
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@josie_ (10034)
• Philippines
24 Jun 17
@KiraNoFutago _Religious institutions exist for the purpose of propagating their faith. They put up schools for children whose minds are not yet fully develop and easily manipulated. The word "force" does not only imply the use of physical means. In this case it is to induce a powerful effect or influence on unquestioning and trusting young minds. Is it any wonder many became adults who don't question but accept uncritically the religious teaching of their elders? I also don't believe they will simply shrug their shoulders and say "ah well, I grew up with it so.." On the contrary, they will defend their faith "forcefully".
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@josie_ (10034)
• Philippines
25 Jun 17
@KiraNoFutago _Unlike medieval times when ignorance made people fear the unknown and the church prospered by encouraging superstitious belief. Because science deal only in facts and logic, it has become the new religion. But mankind's problems seem to be growing despite the many advances in technology. Materialism and keeping up with the joneses are the false idols many now worship at.
Children are still being manipulated today. The Bible have been replace by Facebook, instagrams and other social networking apps. Their high priest and priestess are the Justin Biebers and Miley Cyrus' of the entertainment world. Video games is the preferred choice for brainwashing and mindless time wasting.
We have simply substitute one belief for another.
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@josie_ (10034)
• Philippines
24 Jun 17
@LadyDuck _Sometimes I wonder if children should only be expose to religion when they have acquired the ability to reason and think critically. But then again many adults still think irrationally and accept what they are told by their leaders hook, line and sinker.
I hope Zac who is very inquisitive never stop asking questions (something I encourage in all my grandchildren to never assume what a person say is the truth base solely on their position or age). It's the only way to protect oneself from people who are manipulative and self-serving.
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@RasmaSandra (79929)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
23 Jun 17
Cute photo. Yes, children should look to what they believe themselves but they should be exposed to the religious question as such. Then they will start to form what they believe and what they don't. I went to a private school where we had Bible classes and I for one enjoyed that very much so I believe.
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@josie_ (10034)
• Philippines
24 Jun 17
@RasmaSandra _Belief in God is an emotional question. It can't be rationalize nor explain through the use of logic. It's not something that can be measured or proven. It is a matter of faith and it is personal.
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@josie_ (10034)
• Philippines
23 Jun 17
@Yadah04 _We all have this innate quest regarding a higher purpose in life. But I don't believe spirituality can only be found in a religious institution. The church can provide us some measure of comfort although most people seek happiness through external means. The contemplative life is not for everyone.
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@MaiteMaite (124)
• Lahore, Pakistan
1 Jul 17
@Yadah04 Yes spirituality is important and it is the only road that takes us to a lasting happiness.
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@suziecat7 (3350)
• Asheville, North Carolina
23 Jun 17
Your grandson is adorable. I think you have the right approach as far as religion is concerned. People should choose their own way though I believe it's good to provide the basics.
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@josie_ (10034)
• Philippines
23 Jun 17
@suziecat7 _ Zac is now 7 but his dimple still attracts the girls in his class. He's enroll at a born again Christian school since his mother belong to that denomination. His father is an atheist.
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@aishanee (435)
• Cuttack, India
6 Jul 17
choosing to follow a particular religion is a personal choice.however,learning to accept people with an open heart and mind by overlooking their caste,colour,race or even their religion is the greatest of all religions I believe.love and hugs to the cutie pie.
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@josie_ (10034)
• Philippines
6 Jul 17
@aishanee _When I think about Mahatma Gandhi, I am reminded of his response when a western news reporter ask if he was a Hindu. Gandhi replied, "Yes I am. I am also a Christian, a Muslim, a Buddhist and a Jew.". At their very core, all religion share this universal brotherhood.
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
23 Jun 17
Babies are born completely blank slates. Their heads get filled with whatever their parents try to fill them with. Most of the people I know who were indoctrinated into religion at a young age and forced to attend religious schools later became atheists as adults. I guess those are the people with minds of their own. Some never waver in their belief and go on to indoctrinate their own children. I do think to some extent religion is child abuse. Like when I went to Sunday School as a kid, they would make us go into this room with some crazy guy afterwards who would scream and rant and rave at us to try to force us to speak in tongues. I would definitely say that qualifies as abuse. As well as all the abuse that takes place within the Catholic Church.
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
23 Jun 17
@josie_ I didn't go to that Sunday School for long, thankfully. When my parents found out about the "Service Guy" (as that's what they referred to his rants -- "Service"), they told me and my sister that we didn't have to go to "Service" and to just meet my dad on the playground after Sunday School let out. Which I did and got away with for a while, but then my Sunday School teachers caught me and decided that I was sneaking out to play on the playground and that I needed to be punished. They were going to force me to go into the room alone with that crazy guy, and I got very upset and kept insisting I needed to meet my dad. So one teacher decided to go find my dad and prove that I was a liar. He lectured me about how I was going to hell for lying the entire time we walked. We ended up running into my dad, who was looking for me. My dad fortunately told the Sunday School teacher off and informed him that I was, in fact, NOT lying. I never went back after that. That experience really turned me off from church forever.
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@josie_ (10034)
• Philippines
24 Jun 17
@Srbageldog _It puts into question the qualification of your Sunday school teachers when they automatically assume a child is lying instead of telling the truth. They should remember that Christ said "let the little children come to me for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these". This would have been the perfect comeback I'm guessing your father wasn't the narrow-minded fundamentalist type of believer.
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@josie_ (10034)
• Philippines
23 Jun 17
@Srbageldog _I have heard about speaking in tongues by adults but this is the first time I learn even children are force into this practice. It must have been traumatic for you and the other kids. I would have put that overzealous guy inside a padded room with half a dozen certified insane people and give him a taste of his own medicine.
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@TheHorse (218952)
• Walnut Creek, California
6 Aug 17
I'd say they're more like agnostic. Or if there's a religion based on sucking, pooping and sleeping, that would be their religion. By a couple of days old, most babies worship the nipple. But they're not blank slates when born. Most babies practice sucking (a reflex) and maybe grasping (another reflex) before they're born And some even play with their pees pees before they're born. Some get to listen to good music before they're born. Others hear rap before they're born. Most contemporary developmentalists reject the tabula rasa notion.
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@vandana7 (100300)
• India
6 Aug 17
Whoaaa.... @mommaj...come here...you never saw this side of Pony..lol
@CoralLevang...I give up with this confused candidate..sometimes, he is decent like a priest, at other times...lol
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@innertalks (21927)
• Australia
28 Jun 17
"This is really an irrelevant question since a baby's mind is a blank slate."
I can only talk about this from my own experience.
I was not born with a mind in a blank state. I remembered some of my life in the womb, such as when my mum and dad visited a nursery once, and she breathed in deeply of some plants there.
As a result, I developed eczema and asthma, soon after I was born.
Babies come formed as they are from the womb, but this forming begins from the very first meeting of the sperm cell with the egg.
At this stage, a soul is also attached to this union, and this soul stays around and connects to the brain and body of the emerging baby, and so the baby brain is already full of its own soul's preparative indictments for it, and it knows it roles and how its life will be mostly played out as a result of this.
I too had these memories in the womb, and I knew that I would suffer from asthma in my coming life, which would bring me certain life lessons, unobtainable to myself else-wise, given my karmic background.
Note: These experiences might not be accepted as such by some people, but when you experience them in recall in a "rebirthing" session, they do come across as being very real memories, at that time, which also impress you so very much, that you remember the experience vividly so, for the rest of your life. At least I did.
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@innertalks (21927)
• Australia
28 Jun 17
@josie_ I am not certain of anything, but I know of my own experiences with hypnosis. For someone who hasn't tried it, it is an eye-opening experience. To experience the realness of it and feel and see and be there again right inside the scene, so to speak, seemed amazing to me at the time, and still does now.
I have no real explanation for it. There are other plausible explanations too I suspect other than saying it's actually reincarnation.
To me, our soul is like the inner filament in the light globe, (something like what you said)
It shines through the outerness of ourselves giving us a light that shines outwardly from inwardly when we live from it as our guide and higher self.
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@josie_ (10034)
• Philippines
28 Jun 17
@innertalks _Since this discussion is speculative with no right or wrong answers, I bring up the idea that if a soul exist it needs us just as much as we need "it". There is no higher or lower "self". Ours is a symbiotic relationship on equal terms.
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@josie_ (10034)
• Philippines
28 Jun 17
@innertalks _I have read about past life regression through hypnosis. It's a controversial issue but for reincarnation adherents it is us who choose our parents.
We know the biology of life produce by the union of the egg and sperm but how does a soul fit into this arrangement? Is it akin to the holy trinity? The soul being the "holy spirit". Perhaps it's purpose is like a dry cell battery. It needs an appliance (human) to power else it remains latent. Where did it come from? Is it a microcosm of the universe simply appearing out of nowhere.
If it's not a product of cause and effect but a self-creating being. Then the question arise why not bypass the human biological process of creation.
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@MaiteMaite (124)
• Lahore, Pakistan
1 Jul 17
@josie_ Islam is the only true religion. Quran is an amazing book and Hadith are wonderful words. Islam is the truth and truth never get defeated.
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@josie_ (10034)
• Philippines
1 Jul 17
@MaiteMaite _Islam is one of the fastest growing religion despite being a relative newcomer when compare to older religions like Judaism and Christianity. It appeals to many people who have been marginalize by society and injustice. However I feel the religion is being politicize by it's leaders
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@josie_ (10034)
• Philippines
1 Jul 17
@MaiteMaite _Other religion also cannot agree on the interpretation of their holy scriptures. Even if the holy books are the word of God, many religious leaders interpret passages out of context to serve their own selfish interests. Religion has become divisive and authoritarian.
@MaiteMaite (124)
• Lahore, Pakistan
1 Jul 17
@josie_ If somebody honestly wants to see what Islam is they should study Quran and they should study Hadith but all Hadith that goes against Quran or against intellect is liable to rejection. As Hadith is collected by humans so they can make mistakes. What Islamic leaders or Muslims are doing is not a Standard instead the only standards are Quran and authentic Hadith. For example, many Muslims agree that apostates should be killed. The killing of apostates is not allowed by Quran. God clearly announces in Quran that whosoever wants to believe they are free to do so and whosoever wants to disbelieve they too are free to do so. The whole point of Islam is that those who believe in God out of their free will they will be rewarded in the hereafter. God does not like to compel people to believe in Him. A special case of apostasy was that some non-believers tried to play a trick with Islam. They said that in the morning accept Islam and in the evening leave it so that people can think that there must be something wrong with this religion and we should also leave Islam. So Muslims and Islamic leaders are not the standards. They can go wrong. Quran and authentic Hadith do not go wrong as they are the standards.
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@blessedLIZ (198)
• Indonesia
15 Sep 17
Thats interesting question.
Based on my opinion, that babies are born because God's mighty hand.
Period. :)