Do you hold grudges? / myLot

South Africa

June 30, 2017 12:59pm CST

Generally not much phases me, however everyone has their limit. Every day we can add value to someone's life. Unfortunately general meanness has a Ripple effect (sorry husband). Beginning to think there's a fine line between being easy going and a complete walk over. Time to re-examine situations and Google that deserted island.

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Heart2017

@HeartBM (302)

• Philippines

30 Jun 17

Nope. I can't hold grudges, Im too forgetful hhh. But uts true. Sometimes Im mad with my husbsnd in the evng but then in the morning I already forgot it.

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Rhombus

@Rhombus (356)

• South Africa

30 Jun 17

I'm exactly the same, we'll fight and I only remember I wasn't supposed to be talking to him at lunchtime the next day. This isn't husband related, it's more people I deal with on a daily basis. At what point do you hold a grudge against their words/actions.?

pgn

@pgntwo (22408)

• Derry, Northern Ireland

30 Jun 17

Never wise to go to bed at night cross with each other, you never know if both of you will waken in the morning...

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Rhombus

@Rhombus (356)

• South Africa

30 Jun 17

@pgntwo My husband is cool and we've been married a while. Best advice: pick your battles.

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Nawsheen

@Nawsheen (28643)

• Mauritius

30 Jun 17

Yes I hold grudges. It is about the bad experience I had with a so called best friend. I always helped her and was there for her. However when i needed her help she was never there for me

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Rhombus

@Rhombus (356)

• South Africa

1 Jul 17

So sorry to hear that. I also find that friends are few when times are bad. It's always the people you least expect that help, not the ones you have invested time in.

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Nawsheen

@Nawsheen (28643)

• Mauritius

2 Jul 17

@Rhombus I agree. Fortunately I finally found out who my true friends are.

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pgn

@pgntwo (22408)

• Derry, Northern Ireland

30 Jun 17

Being fazed by something's just a phase