~What To Do...Keep Waiting I Guess~

Valdosta, Georgia
July 22, 2017 1:22pm CST
Hey everyone, hope your doing well today. We were supposed to look at a house today but I had a feeling my husband should ask about the requirements before we went. I'm glad he did so we saved our time and gas. They do a credit check-which killed that one. Back to square one...again. I'm just going to keep packing and waiting I guess for something to happen. Feeling like I'm on a roller coaster at this point. I got a lot done this morning. Vacuumed all baseboards and all rooms, cleaned out the fridge, dishes are done and bagged all the laundry up. I'm trying to keep my faith and keep my head up, I know something will come through for us. We just have to be patient until it does...
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• United States
22 Jul 17
Yeah time is going on, but surely he won't just chuck you out on the day..yes something will come I am sure. They make me sick with their credit shite as they should look at rent slips first. Often people who have maxed out credit with a high credit score are in debt and may not be able to pay their rent while the people with crap credit have to pay their rent and usually will.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Jul 17
@Tiarasoceanview Actually he came by the other day and told us he needs us out and the place clean by the end of the month. =( Yeah, I wish credit wasn't such a big requirement everywhere.
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• United States
22 Jul 17
@LovingMyBabies He did? Oh no..
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@Blondie2222 (28611)
• United States
23 Jul 17
When do you have to be out of your home ? I hope something will come along soon. My sister is in the same boat just trying to find an apartment for rent in the same school district for her kid. It is hard especially when a single mom and not much available. What she did look at they were all run down apartments which she doesn't want. Wish you good luck and hope something comes along.
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@Blondie2222 (28611)
• United States
24 Jul 17
@LovingMyBabies That's good you don't have to worry about school districts then. Where are you going to go at the end of the month if you don't find a place ? I wish you luck as you only have a week left to search
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• Valdosta, Georgia
24 Jul 17
@Blondie2222 Most likely we will be going to a motel if we don't find anything. =(
• Valdosta, Georgia
24 Jul 17
@Blondie2222 We have to be out by the end of the month. Yeah, everything we have seen has been either too expensive, they want to do a credit check or its in a really bad part of town. Thank God we don't have to worry about schools because I home school, otherwise this would be even harder! Thank you, I hope so too.
@marty3888 (2355)
• Acme, Michigan
23 Jul 17
I don't know if this would work but you could try it: When we were looking for a house, the house was going to be in both our names So they ran the credit check that way. But this was my girlfriend.(16 years later, we're still together.) She didn't have bad credit, she had no credit. No credit cards or anything. So they tried running just my credit. It was very good so we got it.
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@marty3888 (2355)
• Acme, Michigan
1 Aug 17
@LovingMyBabies Fortunatly for me, my bad credit came after we got this house. If the both of you have credit cards, keep paying on them as much as possible. If you don't, try getting one. I know it's hard when you're credit is bad, but sometimes someone will take a chance. Another thing, sign up for credit karma. Not only does it not hurt your credit score to check it, they make reccomondations based on your credit score what card to apply for. It may be one that for now, has an annual fee. believe me, it's worth it.
• Valdosta, Georgia
24 Jul 17
@marty3888 Unfortunately we both have really bad credit. =( But thanks for trying to help!
@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
22 Jul 17
I'm sorry to hear that it's not going to work out with this house. It's a shame. I'm sure you will find something else.
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@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
23 Jul 17
@LovingMyBabies I'd probably be nervous as well. It's normal. All you can do is keep looking and try and stay as positive as you can.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Jul 17
@dodo19 Thanks I hope we find something soon, I'm getting very nervous.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Jul 17
@dodo19 Yeah that's what I'm doing.
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@silvermist (19702)
• India
23 Jul 17
I do not like that checking credit thing.I can imagine how you are feeling.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
24 Jul 17
@silvermist Yeah, it's making this situation really hard.
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@silvermist (19702)
• India
24 Jul 17
@LovingMyBabies Hope your problems would be solved soon.
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@marlina (154130)
• Canada
22 Jul 17
Boy, oh boy! You have a lot more patience that I have ever got in all my years. I don't know how you handle all that stress.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Jul 17
@marlina Thank you, people tell me I have the patience of a saint. Lol I do cry and pray a lot.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Jul 17
@marlina You would definitely hate my life then!
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@marlina (154130)
• Canada
23 Jul 17
@LovingMyBabies Patience is not one of my virtue!
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@GardenGerty (160996)
• United States
23 Jul 17
It has gotten to the point that a credit check has more weight than it should in our lives. I will say a prayer for you guys right now. They should look at hubby's work ethic and how well you have paid most recently.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Jul 17
@Gardengerty Yeah I agree! Thank you so much for praying. I know my husband works so hard and he gets frustrated at times because it's not getting us anywhere.
@BarBaraPrz (47702)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
23 Jul 17
Do you know for a fact that you have a bad credit rating, or are you basing it on the fact that you're under-monied? More important than the amount in your bank account is your record of bill payments. Even if you are carrying a large balance on your credit card, if you manage to make at least the minimum payments on time, there shouldn't be too much of a problem.
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@BarBaraPrz (47702)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
23 Jul 17
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• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Jul 17
@Barbaraprz Oh no I know for a fact we both have bad credit, horrible actually. We don't have credit cards and we wouldn't get approved for one even if we wanted one-which we don't.
@marguicha (223850)
• Chile
22 Jul 17
I hope so! You have waited for so long!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Jul 17
@marguicha I know, I'm getting nervous at this point.
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@marguicha (223850)
• Chile
23 Jul 17
@LovingMyBabies I can imagine. Luck this time now. Maybe it is for the best.
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@Tina30219 (82066)
• Onaway, Michigan
22 Jul 17
I hope you find something soon
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@Tina30219 (82066)
• Onaway, Michigan
24 Jul 17
@LovingMyBabies The power of prayer works wonders. Have you talked to anyone at your church to see if they know of any place
• Valdosta, Georgia
24 Jul 17
@Tina30219 Thank you, I hope so.
@velvet53 (22533)
• Palisade, Colorado
23 Jul 17
Jusst try and be patient and think positive. Something will come available that will have your name on it. Prayers are being sent out for you.
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@velvet53 (22533)
• Palisade, Colorado
25 Jul 17
@LovingMyBabies I could go out and do a little landlord dance for you. I know this has to be hard on you and my prayers are always with you.
• Valdosta, Georgia
24 Jul 17
@velvet53 I am trying. I hope something happens soon, we are running out of time. =( Thank you for praying.
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• United States
23 Jul 17
Hopefully a home comes up for you all. :)
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• United States
24 Jul 17
@LovingMyBabies I am sure things will work out soon!
• Valdosta, Georgia
24 Jul 17
@infatuatedbby I hope so too, thank you.
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
23 Jul 17
I wish it would happen soon for you. Just keep the faith and keep on packing, something will come up soon.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
24 Jul 17
@Hazysue Yeah us too. It's a scary situation.
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@Courtlynn (67080)
• United States
22 Jul 17
people deserve second chances. So the bad credit thing really bugs me.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Jul 17
@Courtlynn Yeah, most people do them now a days. I know it's to protect themselves, I just hate it right now.
@Courtlynn (67080)
• United States
22 Jul 17
@LovingMyBabies right but just csuse someone screwed up before doesnt mean they would again. Reslly stinks
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@celticeagle (168420)
• Boise, Idaho
23 Jul 17
Patience is hard. Hope you find something soon.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
24 Jul 17
@celticeagle Yeah in this situation it is tough. =( Thank you.
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@LeaPea2417 (37383)
• Toccoa, Georgia
23 Jul 17
That is too bad about the credit check.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
24 Jul 17
@Leapea2417 Yeah, it stinks but we did it to ourselves.
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@Juliaacv (51488)
• Canada
23 Jul 17
I hope that something turns up tomorrow for you. Don't get discouraged, these things take time, and you didn't get much lead time from the landlord.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
24 Jul 17
@Juliaacv Thank you, so far nothing but hopefully something will happen soon. I am trying not to get too down.
@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
23 Jul 17
I'm so sorry. This is what scares me about having bad credit myself -- if my boyfriend and I ever have to move, I won't pass a credit check! He will, but I definitely won't...which would mean having to move somewhere with only his name on the lease most likely, and I don't like that thought, as I would have no rights as a tenant. Wish they'd do away with the credit checks since most people are in debt or have bad credit nowadays!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
24 Jul 17
@Srbageldog Yeah it has been really horrible. Credit is so important now, I am teaching my children that already-trying to get it through their heads since I wasn't taught about it.
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@just4him (317315)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
23 Jul 17
Remember, God is never late. You will find your house.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Jul 17
@just4him Thank you. =)
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
23 Jul 17
Praying that it will all work out.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Jul 17
@Happy2beme Thank you so much. =)
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