How to deal with a disrespectful husband

By Dane
July 29, 2017 5:45am CST
How to deal with your husband if every time you have a fight he keeps on insulting, scolds you with bad words? I feel like being not treated right as a wife. I know in a relationship having fight or misunderstanding is normal, but saying bad words to your wife everytime you are angry is very disrespectful. Being the mother of his children I don't think I deserve those words especially coming from him. ??
4 people like this
4 responses
Trinity
@TriniTU (141)
• Philippines
29 Jul 17
oh my..i'm not in your position so..but..i think i won't ever allow another person insult me or scold me to the extent of using bad words,especially if i'm not doing anything wrong..even if he is my husband. The heck, i'd say he's no man at all..
1 person likes this
Dane
@katt271619 (14)
•
29 Jul 17
@TriniTU been thinking what should I do. ??
1 person likes this
Trinity
@TriniTU (141)
• Philippines
29 Jul 17
@katt271619 if it's still possible, you can try talking it out in a nice way..and hope he would consider listening..if not, then..it's up to you really what you think is the right thing to do..because,even if we love someone so much,we owe it to ourselves first the respect and love we seek from others..
1 person likes this
Dane
@katt271619 (14)
•
30 Jul 17
@TriniTU thank you for the advice
1 person likes this
Catherine
@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
29 Jul 17
No, you do not deserve to be disrespected. You must let him know that he must be careful with his words. Respect is important in a relationship.
1 person likes this
Catherine
@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
30 Jul 17
@katt271619 all the best.
1 person likes this
Dane
@katt271619 (14)
•
30 Jul 17
Thank you Catherine.
1 person likes this
Oshy
@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
29 Jul 17
Get away from him..unless you want to live a very unhappy life.
1 person likes this
Happy Lady and Freya the Catblog Cat
@Jackalyn (7558)
• Oxford, England
29 Jul 17
Get him to read a book on verbal abuse? I know now not to engage and to walk away from fights. No, you do not deserve this, but many people have no idea how they are acting.
1 person likes this
Dane
@katt271619 (14)
•
30 Jul 17
I'll try. Thank you.
1 person likes this