Forgive and Forget?

@Paocz28 (313)
August 4, 2017 7:39am CST
I had to wake up early for work. Good Morning my friends! My sister asked me, "Can you forgive and forget?" I said "Forgive? Yes ofcourse but forget? I need to think about it" What do you guys think, Can you Forgive and Forget?
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Aditya sharma
@spaceseed (2843)
• India
4 Aug 17
Earlier I was believer of Forgive and Forget philosophy, but multiple back stabbing incidents has changed me, dont forget and dont forgive. just avoid things to happen again if you are not in a condition to takeback. moving on happens automatically
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Pao Abdala
@Paocz28 (313)
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4 Aug 17
I'm sorry you felt that way. I can't say I understand because I did not had the same experience but I know it's tough. Time and experience give us lessons we need and I admire your honesty.
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Aditya sharma
@spaceseed (2843)
• India
4 Aug 17
@Paocz28 Thank god it did not happened to you and I pray to god it must not happen with you
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Pao Abdala
@Paocz28 (313)
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4 Aug 17
@spaceseed Thanks! You must be very strong to handle it. I may not be, do you still feel that probably someday you may forgive them?
Dollar Boy
@dollaboy (6048)
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5 Aug 17
That depends on many factors, easy to forgive but never easy to forgot
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Pao Abdala
@Paocz28 (313)
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5 Aug 17
#dollaboy Most of our friends does have the same thought about it.
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Dollar Boy
@dollaboy (6048)
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5 Aug 17
@Paocz28 You are right, Hey have I told you, that you're so beautiful and charming
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Pao Abdala
@Paocz28 (313)
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5 Aug 17
@dollaboy No pressure. Hahaha!
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Mohit Arora
@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
4 Aug 17
I can forgive but, can't forget!!!
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Pao Abdala
@Paocz28 (313)
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4 Aug 17
Same here my friend.
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Sai
@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
4 Aug 17
I can forgive but I will never forget
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Sai
@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
4 Aug 17
@Paocz28 Yes, I too had very bad experiences where I think that forgiving also was bad on my part, but letting that incident go is also important for our own self
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Pao Abdala
@Paocz28 (313)
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4 Aug 17
@vsai2008 I agree, I feel that most of us if not all would always forgive as time comes but forgetting is such a difficult thing.
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Pao Abdala
@Paocz28 (313)
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4 Aug 17
We share the same thought. Do you had an experience that made you think that way?
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Cathy Valdez
@Cathy0628 (110)
• Philippines
4 Aug 17
It is easy for me to forgive but it takes time to forget!
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Pao Abdala
@Paocz28 (313)
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4 Aug 17
Same idea I have or should I say same experience.
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Farcha
@Farcha (677)
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4 Aug 17
I think forgive is very easy than forget, so forget take time!
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Farcha
@Farcha (677)
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4 Aug 17
@Paocz28 you are right
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Pao Abdala
@Paocz28 (313)
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4 Aug 17
@Farcha Thanks! Could be that we have almost the same experience.
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Pao Abdala
@Paocz28 (313)
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4 Aug 17
I think so too. I thought I was just harsh to say that.
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LK2018
@Letranknight2015 (51969)
• Philippines
4 Aug 17
I don't know about that...Usually just moved on, then learn to forgive as time goes by. But forget? Nope we learn from experience that shouldn't happen again. Most of the time, not forgiving can just put a bucket of pain inside.
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Pao Abdala
@Paocz28 (313)
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4 Aug 17
Right, what was your experience about it if I may ask?
Tokz
@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
4 Aug 17
I think my answer would be in affirmative, yes I can forgive someone who hurt me and I can forget that thing though I cannot forget that someone that I used to love.
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Pao Abdala
@Paocz28 (313)
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4 Aug 17
That's cheezy. but i agree
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