If Dream Jobs Don’t Come True

@Farcha (677)
August 4, 2017 10:10am CST
Dream job is not simple as we are looking forward. Doing a job that it has no relationship with my capacities and my dersires. Honestly, I do it very hard, stressed, and the more important HAPPINESS. So, when I do any work that I don't like, I feel sad and time passes slowly. How it is very painful psychically and physically. But, When I do something what I love so that I feel so so confident in myself, easy going. what do you think about this?
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@holdoors (2517)
• Malaysia
4 Aug 17
I think it's important to be practical. We need to find things to motivate us through those tough times. I always make it a point to reward myself in little ways to make myself feel better.
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@Farcha (677)
4 Aug 17
Me too, I try to be more practical. It is just question of hapiness when I do something I love.
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@holdoors (2517)
• Malaysia
5 Aug 17
@Paige32 Multiple ways. Going on vacations. Eating nice foods. Shopping. Buy new games,
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@holdoors (2517)
• Malaysia
5 Aug 17
@Paige32 Yes, but I am pretty pleased with my job now.Ithink if a person is unhappy, should start finding new job before resigning.
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@velvet53 (22534)
• Palisade, Colorado
10 Aug 17
Some people can manage whether they like their job or not. I think it is better if one can work doing something they can enjoy.
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@velvet53 (22534)
• Palisade, Colorado
10 Aug 17
@Farcha That is a good way to look at things in our lives.
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@Farcha (677)
11 Aug 17
@velvet53 And life goes on
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@Farcha (677)
10 Aug 17
Yes, you are right. We have to deal with anything. Life is so short not to lose it just for thinking negatively.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
7 Aug 17
Meantime, that you are in that job, where it is far from your dream job, you have to love and be content with it while you look for a dream job. What is important, is that it gives you an income to sustain your living.
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@Farcha (677)
8 Aug 17
The income what makes us more pleasant and more patient.
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@rebelann (112878)
• El Paso, Texas
8 Aug 17
It is rare that any of us actually find a dream job that remains a dream job. For me, before I retired, it was more important to be able to support myself rather than to look for some dream job.
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@Farcha (677)
8 Aug 17
So your point view is to cope with what we have, and be more flexible. I agree with you on this side.
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@jstory07 (139717)
• Roseburg, Oregon
6 Aug 17
I did a job that I loved for forty years. Working in retail.
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@Farcha (677)
6 Aug 17
That's good! I also wish to find a job that matches with my desire and capacities. So, time passed very quickly I think.
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@JudyEv (340019)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Aug 17
I think you are right. If you enjoy something the time always goes faster.
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@Farcha (677)
6 Aug 17
@JudyEv Indeed, life is short, so we have to benefit from it.
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@Farcha (677)
6 Aug 17
@ahmedibrahem Yes, I agree with you; Sometimes a small thing gives us happiness
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• Eugene, Oregon
4 Aug 17
That is what happens. I have had jobs I liked a lot and time went fast. In other jobs, work was harder and the time dragged on and on.
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@Farcha (677)
4 Aug 17
I think you are more experiend than me, so yeven if we try to do it sincerly, but the quality is not satisfying
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
4 Sep 17
You are so right. I have worked for others most of my life and when I first came to Israel until I found something I like and I like being my own boss. I have someone helping me find other things to do on the computer and found My Lot but need something else to go with it. Where I go sell I am not my boss completely and that is very hard. I understand a job that one hates and stress. It is very difficult when I hate a job to want to get up and go to it, but, I do it and try my best to get through the day.