A discussion moment .....
@RLgemini1122 (48)
August 6, 2017 12:59am CST
You are on your computer/laptop one day just catching up with bills and writing some emails while it is quiet. The kids are at school and your fella is out at work, you have the TV on as background sound and you are feeling happy. Then you quite by accident find that your fella is signed up to a few chat/dating sites and is actively seeking out girls, and they are checking him out. Things begin to make sense now, becoming defensive when you catch him on his tablet with THAT smile on his face, phone turned face down or switched off, just the odd little things that in that one moment make absolutely perfect sense.
This is a purely hypothetical discussion and not true to my current life but just comes from things I have experienced. So what would you do? Would you confront him? or would you hang on to what you know for a while, even though inside you feel like you are dying? Would you hold on and wait for proof? I mean from what you have read there is no real evidence to suggest a relationship or a meet has taken place. How would you handle this situation?
1 response
@angelmels (541)
• Australia
6 Aug 17
I would probably wait till i get evidence as guys wont admit it till you have evidence. But sometimes just too hard to wait. I might just open up and tell him what I found out and see what he says. Guys that want to cheat will still find a way to cheat if they really want to, so no need to keep on investigating. Truth will come out eventually, just a matter of time.
I will ask him why does he needs to chat with other girls. If he says sorry and promise that he will never do it again, i would probably forgive him and I will try to be a better wife so he won't have reason to look elsewhere.
