Regret you married to someone you dont love

@abcdmm (177)
Maseru, Lesotho
August 21, 2017 5:46am CST
I am working in the Court, where every Wednesday is a divorce day, and you will find a long-listed number of all ages coming for divorce. I am not a Judge but I am the one who prepares the cases before they go into Chambers / Courts. So at some stage, I asked them, why are they making the decision of divorce, and the answer that I am getting is that "I regret I have married to a person I don't love". So now please make me understand, is it possible to marry someone you don't love???????
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Neil Develos
@Neiltarquin (1062)
• Rass, Saudi Arabia
21 Aug 17
Really?! They marry someone they don't love? Hate, the emotion that can can kill anything.
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Merium
@abcdmm (177)
• Maseru, Lesotho
21 Aug 17
In short, they marry their enemies from the start
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Merium
@abcdmm (177)
• Maseru, Lesotho
21 Aug 17
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Neil Develos
@Neiltarquin (1062)
• Rass, Saudi Arabia
21 Aug 17
@abcdmm True. And rhey wantvto get rid of them as fast as they can... Question, is not in love to a person a good ground for divorce?
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deazil
@deazil (4730)
• United States
21 Aug 17
Maybe some people thought they were in love but after living with their partner for any amount of time they have decided they really didn't love that person, or they've fallen out of love for some reason. Others may feel pressure to get married so they do, then regret it afterwards. There are probably many reasons why people marry, although I think that love would be the most popular reason. Escaping from an unhappy home life could be another reason, or looking for security. These people don't realize their mistake until later on. So yes, I think it's possible to marry someone you don't love. Are they mostly very young people?
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deazil
@deazil (4730)
• United States
21 Aug 17
@abcdmm LOL Glad to hear that you're still in love so you won't be one of your own cases anytime soon.
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Merium
@abcdmm (177)
• Maseru, Lesotho
21 Aug 17
@deazil but we do have argurments.
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Merium
@abcdmm (177)
• Maseru, Lesotho
21 Aug 17
It differs, some are just middle age while some are still young, but even the old ones are rare. I am always surprised but thank God that I still love my partner. haaaa
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solxee
@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
21 Aug 17
You have a very interesting job.
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Merium
@abcdmm (177)
• Maseru, Lesotho
21 Aug 17
Thank you, but though I like and enjoy my work, sometimes it breaks my heart to listen to different disputes taking place between people. But all in all, it is really interesting and I learn every moment.
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solxee
@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
22 Aug 17
@abcdmm Free advice before you tie the knot. ;)
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Xavier Bage
@franxav (13849)
• India
21 Aug 17
They got married when they thought they loved each other. In the the course of their married life they come to know of each other's defects and begin to hate each other.
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Merium
@abcdmm (177)
• Maseru, Lesotho
21 Aug 17
But for every couple, there is always something which is not appreciable and that doesn't mean we ought to file for divorce.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Aug 17
I think is some culture, parents are the one who will give you a husband or a wife, wealthy enough to take the generations to come.
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Rhombus
@Rhombus (356)
• South Africa
23 Aug 17
I think they should reverse things. You should have a divorce party (that's when you need things) and marriage should involve the long drawn out court case. It's too easy to get married.
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sishy7
@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
22 Aug 17
Maybe there's one word at the end of that answer - anymore.
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