Long Distance Relationship sucks sometimesr
By MissSun
@MissSun (8)
Dumaguete, Philippines
August 21, 2017 7:52am CST
Hey there!
Have you ever had a long distance relationship? How did it go? Is it all worth it? I know how hard it is to be far away from the person you love so dearly, sometimes you have so many doubts like "is everything you do and sacrifices are going to be worth it?". This is probably the toughest thing in the world, and so far I've manage to stay focus on the goal of us actually be together in time. I guess this is the mean thing that you got to always remember that everything will work out in the end. But you cant control the fact that sometimes you feel down and broken. Trust, faith, hope and the ever lasting love is the one of the keys, then.... What else?
How about you guys? What do you think we could to make LDR a little convenient?
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@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
21 Aug 17
Yes I tried that before with my boyfriend, before it so hard because we are far to each other ,but we handle it ,sometimes we have misunderstanding but at the end of the day we fixed it by talking to each other seriously.
And now we have 1 son, and turning 2 this coming Nov. 
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
21 Aug 17
If you are both committed to it and work hard at making it work it will. I was in one for five years. The plan was for him to move to my country but he wasn't able to move here so eventually it didn't work. He didn't want it as bad as I did. How far apart is the distance?
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
22 Aug 17
@MissSun I hope it all comes together for both of you soon. How often do you get to visit each other?
@MissSun (8)
• Dumaguete, Philippines
22 Aug 17
Oh 5 years! That must be really hard for both of you. Specially when you from different country. We both Living in opposite side of the world too. Our plans is to move to his country and the visa seems to be taking so long, aand it feels like it would never come. I came blame the impatient part of me. I guess thats what we feel all the time because all we wanted is to be with our love of our life.
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
14 Oct 17
Life is about 'making peace with yourself' (something like 'knowing that you accomplished the best things you could accomplish with the materials and abilities you could control').
Maybe keep that in mind in regard to your relationship. The reason you two are NOT together is that your 'usefulness-es' cannot operate in any location but the ones they're in now (oh, you could shift some things around so that you- or the other-can be useful in a different place; but it might seem like a waste of time if the shifting takes any time you could be using to fulfill your purpose)
The only reason I can think it would be good to change is 'if being together makes one-or-both of you more-efficient (serving the world better).
That's why the best relationships spring from the workplace (where my mom & dad met, my sister & brother-in-law ... I don't know if that means I should get together with one of my readers 
or if I should get together with someone I meet through my TBI recovery---or both!
)
or if I should get together with someone I meet through my TBI recovery---or both!)
Thus the heavens and the earth were completed in all their vast array. By the seventh day God had finished the work he had been doing; so on the seventh day he rested from all his work. Then God bless
@MyishaJoe (34)
• Philippines
21 Aug 17
Whatever happens in your relationship depends on how strong you love each other. My ex-boyfriend and I had once experience LDR, well things worked well though because he's no longer my boyfriend now but we've been five years married since he's now my husband. If I could recall back those trials we've been through after all I could say it's worth it. By the way Miss Sun, always keep in touch with him everyday even you may seem busy. I know it will be worth it!
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@MyishaJoe (34)
• Philippines
22 Aug 17
@MissSun I'm doing great with 3 kids in a row. Don't worry too much, I know he loves you. You pray fro both of you to work out.
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@MissSun (8)
• Dumaguete, Philippines
22 Aug 17
That is so true, communication is really the most reliable means to keep up in a long distance relationship Struggles. In the end, it will be payed off if you don't gave up. Though sometimes you can't help yourself misunderstand the situation. Congratulations my friend!!!
So,Hows your life being together now though?
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