Can I make her more intelligent?

@averygirl72 (37845)
Philippines
August 28, 2017 5:04am CST
It's hard to be a tutor to a slow learner child. You will always feel disappointed if she gets low grades and lots of errors in her seatwork. But I keep thinking I'm trying my best to help her to be more intelligent. I experience tutoring bright kids and I feel satisfied a lot because they learn quickly and get things right quickly. Wish I can help my only one tutee to be more intelligent. She's not good in memorization and is poor in spelling.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
28 Aug 17
I don't have much patience to teach. Still I try to sit with my son, he is over confident at times and make lots of mistakes. That irritates me for sure. There may be techniques to teach children who need special attention.
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
28 Aug 17
I keep repeating things over and over to my tutee until she gets it. She is not that serious in her studies and a little lazy and careless that's why she is not learning that well
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
29 Aug 17
@averygirl72 They lack concentration, that is the point. Otherwise most of the kids are intelligent.
@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
29 Aug 17
@Sreekala You got it right absolutely. They just lack concentration and interest. Sometimes they find it boring to study and they want playing more
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@Neiltarquin (1062)
• Rass, Saudi Arabia
28 Aug 17
Attack from a different angle... Sometimes you need to be creative to teach others...
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
28 Aug 17
I will try to be as creative as possible. I will do my best for her to improve academically
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
29 Aug 17
@Neiltarquin Maybe her brain is not yet fully developed and her mind is having a hard time learning things. I hope I can awaken her sleeping brain
• Rass, Saudi Arabia
29 Aug 17
@averygirl72 Do your best my friend. I am also a slow learner and what I do is I draw maps, make pneumonics . And it works for me, sometimes hehehe
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
28 Aug 17
I`m a slow learner and for me I need a lot of time to get some points on a discussions during my school years and this good teacher believed that I`m not..She was my history highschool teacher and adviser, I like her way of teaching. I remember, I got an average score in her subject and talked with me privately, asked me " Do you have some things in mind that you might want to ask me now? Maybe, I can help you" and smile..That time I was speechless and can`t say anything but I got challenged and tried to see what I really can`t understand with her subject until one time she said "Did you know that when you want to remember something, it will be more helpful if you understand it?" And I think she was right..So I guess it might work if you know some activities that can make them understand and from there they can improve themselves..Wish you a nice day
• Germany
28 Aug 17
@sabtraversa ..Hmmm..You got a good point..That`s why sometimes, we need to look at the questions first more and figure it out why the answer came up like that..Curiosity will always strike to those who have efforts to know more even if it`s not easy for them
• Germany
29 Aug 17
@averygirl72 ..Hmmm..It`s hard for me to suggest any method because only professionals can identify which type of special kid you are tutoring..I hope you can seek help from the professionals so they can recommend a much better teaching options for you..Wish you a nice day
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
28 Aug 17
I try to explain to her the lessons in the level that she can easily grasp. She's having a hard time too in Science. She don't understand Science that much but she is good in mathematics and computations
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• Philippines
28 Aug 17
Well, maybe she needs a different motivation, maybe her passion is different. I had a gf before that inspired me to understand the basics of algebra...But that was one time. She may have other talents.
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
28 Aug 17
She acts smart and active kid but I don't know why she is poor in memorization and spelling and poor comprehension too
@Morleyhunt (21744)
• Canada
28 Aug 17
Sometimes the slow learners can be more rewarding to teach than those who immediately grasp what you are trying to teach. They are so excited when they finally master a concept.
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
28 Aug 17
I should not feel down. I should take it as a challenge to help her improve a lot. One day I hope I can make her an honor student
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@gnatsmom (2439)
28 Aug 17
I tutor a student who is developmentally delayed. I used to get really discouraged because he had trouble spelling. He still has great trouble with reading and math. I have come to accept that he was created differently. I still tutor those subjects but I know his limitations. He shines with music. His mom owns a dance studio and he can tell you the theme for every years performance. He remembers the name of every dancer and what number they performed. He knows dance terminology perfectly. Because of his disabilities (also has cerebral palsy), he will always be limited. So I just focus on what he loves. His spelling improved when I set his spelling words to music. I did the same with multiplication tables. I allow him breaks to talk about his mama's dance classes. This makes whatever he can learn a fun experience. Just capitalize on your student's strengths and find a way to incorporate what she loves.
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
28 Aug 17
She does good in math. She is good in computation. It's really a challenge