Need an advice

Philippines
August 30, 2017 4:50pm CST
Here's what happened. Me and my wife used to be so sweet to each other before and she would usually send me sweet messages often, It came one point wherein we had to focus on what we are currently doing.. She's busy with her studies in college while I have my work. My job requires alot of focus and attention that whenever I come home from work I am deeply drained the whole day and I just have to send her a text or message her on facebook that I am home and that I love her or if it's my time to go to work. I just noticed lately that she is no longer that sweet sending me messages of how much she loved me.. I thought she was just busy with her studies. It even came to the point I am spying on her checking her facebook messages to find if she is seeing someone but I did'nt find any. I hope she still loves me as I love her so much which is the reason I am working so hard to get promoted for our future. I hope nothing goes wrong in our relationship. By the way she just comes home twice a month as her school is far from our home
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11 responses
Lautan
@Sarigi6141 (257)
• Indonesia
31 Aug 17
if you are really like her, you can keep your relationship...
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Yadah
@Yadah04 (3363)
• Philippines
31 Aug 17
keeping a relationship is a challenge, more so if it is a long-distance relationship. cliche as it may sound, but trust is a great deal to make such a relationship succeed. trust your wife and trust the love you have for each other. just be patient and do not ever sound like a jealous-untrusting husband. it will only make the situation worse.
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Resy King
@resy21curapika (2131)
• Pasay, Philippines
3 Sep 17
Communication is the key to a successful relationship. If both of you will going to talk about it at each other, then you shouldn't have a problem dealing with anything. I will pray for both of you and hope that things will turn out just fine.
JasperTore
@JasperTore (1275)
• Philippines
31 Aug 17
You need to talk to her and open up about your concerns. Tell her that you love her and you want to know what is happening with her? For a long distance relationship, communication is important. It brings people together. Without proper and constant communication then problem may arise which will result to something bad in your relationship with her. Stay faithful and pray to God that your wife be faithful also and study hard for the future of you two. God bless!
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Anna
@LadyDuck (472435)
• Switzerland
31 Aug 17
If you can, go to see her, see where she lives, take her out for dinner and talk with her.
salim castles
@castles (2)
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31 Aug 17
A woman never cheats, she always finds someone else better than you and just forget to tell you. But again, maybe you are too much insecure . You got to trust her and calm down. You will later realize it wasn't worth overthinking.
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youless
@youless (112671)
• Guangzhou, China
31 Aug 17
I think you can sometimes give her a little surprise. Such as sending her little gifts or flowers. A woman will be so proud to receive flowers in public
Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
31 Aug 17
If you lose trust then it won't be good for the relation. Since both of you are staying away communication if the key to keep close.
hereandthere
@hereandthere (45639)
• Philippines
31 Aug 17
can you visit her so you can talk?
Laurel (L_B)
@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
30 Aug 17
Talk to her. Communication is the key to any good relationship. Tell her that you miss al the messages that she use to send you. She is busy too and maybe she doesn't realize how much those messages meant to you. I am sure she loves you as much as she always did.
Merryjoy
@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
31 Aug 17
That's is always happen on the relationship, especially if your too far to each other! But just always think positive