Dealing with a violent partner
By lovely
@augusta123 (6649)
September 2, 2017 12:23am CST
Life is beautiful no matter what is thrown at us.I'm always a very positive person that damaged things can be repaired, if really we can salvage it.When I see two lovers at each other neck, I begin to wonder where love has gone.
You wake up one day to realize you are now sharing a bed space with a total stranger, a once sweet partner is becoming violent, you no longer know what to do.what you think about is a divorce or dumping the relationship and it becomes worse if children especially kids are involved.
All that you think about is leaving your partner and most advice will be leave and leave again, No thought for the emotional stability of the kids and their future.
Is it no way we can salvage a relationship of this magnitude.Is it always about leaving the person.What are those things we can do before ending the marriage or the relationship to really shows we had tried our very best?
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6 responses
@mildredtabitha (16126)
• Nairobi, Kenya
2 Sep 17
I wouldn't stay. I'm a victim of a violent family and I wouldn't want to go through it again in my new home with my kids. If it happens, I would rather leave because if I don't I would die thinking that I was born to suffer only.
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@augusta123 (6649)
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2 Sep 17
you eh.I love your thought pattern.But you're not considering your kids.Are they nothing else we can do?
@mildredtabitha (16126)
• Nairobi, Kenya
2 Sep 17
@augusta123 I am so against violence and I pray to God it never happens to me again. It will be difficult to answer that question because I sincerely hope it doesn't happen.
@rubyriaz007 (4188)
• India
18 Sep 17
If I find my partner,becoming violent I would not stay with him ,and inform my parents and file for divorce.
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@rosedust82 (2066)
• Philippines
5 Sep 17
I would suggest that you leave the person. I've been through abusive relationships and I can tell you... it not only physically damaging but mentally damaging as well. People who are abusers have a lot of issues and unless they are willing to get these issues fixed, they will probably never change.
@rosedust82 (2066)
• Philippines
5 Sep 17
tried lots of different ways, still had the same ending. Couldn't control his anger.
@mysimplelot (1347)
• Calcutta, India
2 Sep 17
It worsens if you have a kid. Try to solve the problem or you will be very disturbed. Try to discuss the things and sort out I will say.
