What if your boss started courting you?

@pitsop. Hi, Thank you so much. I will put that in mind. And yeah, I don't know what is his intention of doing so.

@shantalclay is he already married?

@pitstop Not yet, pitstop but he has a daughter.

@shantalclay it is hard to know what his intentions really are so best just to avoid the situation.

@Happy2BeMe That's the better option for now my friend.

That is what I am thinking and I don't like that to happen. I was in the company to work and not to ruin it. Unless he truly have a good intention.

We talk often but he never give me hints that he will court me. I don't know. It just happened. I didn't expect it. Now, I don't even know how to deal with him when we are at work.

@shantalclay Oh, it's going to be awkward, that's for sure...

@sishy7 It really is, dear friend. Urrgh, I'm not even ready for this.

@shantalclay stay professional. if you can't bear it anymore, tell HR.

He is single with a daughter. It's already 6 months now since I work in the company. So, I don't totally know him personally or the way he deal with girls.

@hereandthere I will surely do that, but for now, as the others said, I will try to avoid him if it's not for the business.

@shantalclay If it were me, I would look for another job. Here that would be considered workplace harassment and you could bring charges against such a person. I don't know what the laws are in your country for such things. I can imagine is it awkward and yes, annoying. Keep your professional attitude, and find another job.

@just4him That is a very good idea, Valerie. However, I did not finish my contract here yet. And I need a certificate of employment as a great qualification for finding another job and that can only give by my employer if I followed my contract. Here in the Philippines, it's very hard to find a job if you are out of a working experience and that is my problem because this is my first job.

Yes, Valerie. It's really awkward at the same time annoying on my part because I just never expect it, or he was putting me into test how professional I am.What do you think?

I agree with you Jazon. That is why I'm? thinking of staying away from him. I will just do my work and don't mind him.

@holdoors Yeah, that's right.

@shantalclay Yes, you will be fine. Just stick to being professional at work.

Lol. Yeah. I better be careful.

I already told him that I only there for my job and nothing else but he still continue what he is doing. For now, I am avoiding him as others' advise.

@mildredtabitha Hopefully my friend so I will go back to my normal life.

@shantalclay I hope you will be able to come out of that situation soon.

Why did you say so? I don't think promotion has nothing to do with it because I don't even have a year working with them.

@heyheyla That I don't know. And that is unfair to the other employees because when it comes to promotions, there are many employees who are ahead of me and much better.

@shantalclay but your boss likes you so he'll give you a promotion . right?