The Old One
By anorona
@anorona (225)
Philippines
September 10, 2017 7:51am CST
Have you ever missed the old version of someone? Either they are your friend, sweetheart or family member. Did it cross your mind that if only you could turn back the old them, you would?
As I am typing here, there is someone on my mind, the person who used to be the closest to my heart. I am reminiscing all the moment that I had with that person, I am remembering how that person made me happy in so many ways. Now I miss everything. I miss the way we talk before, I miss the way we treat each other before. It hurts, because everything has changed. How we are before is totally different now. Sometimes, I feel like I am talking to a different person, and seeing those changes hurt me even more. I guess missing someone who they used to be could be one of the most painful thing you would ever feel.
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@Mistletoe11 (206)
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11 Sep 17
People come and go in our lives. What matters is shared great memories with them tho we are no longer as close as we used to be. :)
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@anorona (225)
• Philippines
11 Sep 17
@Mistletoe11 I am trying even it's hard. We rarely talk and I dont where this thing would go. All I want now is to bring back the old us, but it seems like everything is goong away. :(
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
11 Sep 17
Absolutely I know this feeling! I had a friend who I was so close to for a couple years.
Then...she left her husband, left church and started acting completely different.
It broke my heart and I no longer consider her my friend. 
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
13 Sep 17
@anorona Yeah, I always want to call her and hope she went back to the way she was but I know that's not the case. =( Yes I do pray for her all the time that she will find God again.
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@anorona (225)
• Philippines
13 Sep 17
@LovingMyBabies I am sorry to hear that. Maybe we have to accept some things that will never come back to how they used to be, even if it hurts so much.
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@peachpurple (13962)
• Malaysia
10 Sep 17
yes , people change over the time, sometimes it is caused by the environment
@ronelaine (51)
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10 Sep 17
Yes, I miss my grandparents from both sides. How I wish they could turn back and see my kids (their great grandchildren)
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@ronelaine (51)
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10 Sep 17
@anorona Yes, that's actually my comforting thought then. My kids actually asked me where my grandparents are. So I'll them that they are their guardian angels
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@anorona (225)
• Philippines
11 Sep 17
@ronelaine True, they will always be there watching from above. :) Have you saved pictures of them? You can show it to your children and tell some of their stories too :)
@Whitehouse201 (111)
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13 Sep 17
Day by day situations are change our life style also .. so obviously OLD IS GOLD
When they changed we hurt but . You have to find the reason why it's happening why he change .. every situation have a reason and every reason is a way of solution .so go and find it without worrying about old days live in present situation.
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