open or closed relationship?
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
Portugal
September 10, 2017 8:41am CST
Hi everyone 
Do you guys prefer to be in an open relationship or in a closed relationship?
About me I only want to be in a closed relationship. I dont want to share my boyfriend with nobody else but I dont judge people that are in open relationships.
What matters the most to me is honesty. And if we are only having fun and not in a relationship of course both are free to do whatever we want 
What about you guys?
Please share 
Do you guys prefer to be in an open relationship or in a closed relationship?
About me I only want to be in a closed relationship. I dont want to share my boyfriend with nobody else but I dont judge people that are in open relationships.
What matters the most to me is honesty. And if we are only having fun and not in a relationship of course both are free to do whatever we want
What about you guys?
Please share 3 people like this
5 responses
@JeeyanDee (2692)
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11 Sep 17
As someone who grew up with monogamous parents, I feel like for my relationship to work out, it has to be this way. I have no plans on sharing someone I love with anybody else. Also, my religion expects from this to me too, and doing otherwise would be against everything that I am and everything that I believe in. That aside, I respect people who do open relationships. I may not understand them, but I know they have enough reasons to opt for this kind of set up.
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
13 Sep 17
Yes i also cant accept to be in an open relationship because i couldnt stand to be with a guy that is kissing and sleeping with someone else
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@JeeyanDee (2692)
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15 Sep 17
@sweetloveforeve Me too, but many are comfortable with this kind of set up so I guess it really depends on which is best for us and which fits our beliefs too.
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
13 Sep 17
Yes but even men in closed relationship try to have other girls too i think its human nature.
i think its human nature.@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
19 Sep 17
@Mrgana1 i think that if we start to like someone else the best is to leave the other person and be with the person you like
@Mrgana1 (338)
• Nigeria
13 Sep 17
@sweetloveforeve I agree with you, as we move we meet new people that are either better than our partners or otherwise but if there is personal discipline It will work
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
10 Sep 17
I prefer closed. Whats mine is mine. I'm not sharing with nobody. I agree honesty is important. If two people decide to be in an open relationship and they are open and honest about it and they both agree that is what they want then that is OK too. I don't judge others but for me I wouldn't want to be in an open relationship.
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@mildredtabitha (16137)
• Nairobi, Kenya
10 Sep 17
I would prefer a closed relationship.
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
13 Sep 17
I agree with you i also wouldnt want to share my boyfriend with another girl 
i also wouldnt want to share my boyfriend with another girl 1 person likes this
@pranav981895 (64)
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11 Sep 17
Don't want to share my things with anyone, but at the same time I keep loving my girlfriend if she had other opinion.
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
13 Sep 17
But if your girlfriend wants another guy you would still be with her?
