married without kids or married with kids?
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
Portugal
September 13, 2017 11:49am CST
Hi everyone 
Do you prefer to be married with kids or married but without kids?
I am not married yet but I want to get married one day and for a few years i would like to travel wuth my husband and after a few years have kids.
Because when we have kids we dont habe much free time to focus on each other. Kids will need us a lot so for the first few years i would like to focus more on our relationship.
What about you guys? 
Please share 
Do you prefer to be married with kids or married but without kids?
I am not married yet but I want to get married one day and for a few years i would like to travel wuth my husband and after a few years have kids.
Because when we have kids we dont habe much free time to focus on each other. Kids will need us a lot so for the first few years i would like to focus more on our relationship.
What about you guys?
Please share 3 people like this
5 responses
@JeeyanDee (2692)
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15 Sep 17
Married with kids without a doubt! I believe kids make a family complete.
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@Akatheu (387)
• Nairobi, Kenya
24 Sep 17
Sure @JeeyanDee children completes the family. They also bring happiness
@Akatheu (387)
• Nairobi, Kenya
24 Sep 17
I think first you should agree with your partner on what both of you want because people may have different thoughts then both of you can come into an agreement. Myself I stayed for three years with my husband then after that I have my first born now...
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
24 Sep 17
Yes sure both have to take the decision together but i prefer tgat we can stay married at least one year without kids but i dont know what will be my husband's opinion
but i prefer tgat we can stay married at least one year without kids but i dont know what will be my husband's opinion 1 person likes this
@Akatheu (387)
• Nairobi, Kenya
24 Sep 17
@sweetloveforeve you just need to tell him how you feel or what you want and am sure he will support you.
@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
13 Sep 17
I made the decision in my early 20's that I did not want kids. That was my choice I did it for me.
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
19 Sep 17
As long as you are happy with your decision thats the most important thing
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@mildredtabitha (16126)
• Nairobi, Kenya
13 Sep 17
I will prefer to spend a year with my future husband then start having kids after settling everything in our new home :)
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
19 Sep 17
Me too :) i want to first enjoy marriage and then have kids
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@mildredtabitha (16126)
• Nairobi, Kenya
19 Sep 17
@sweetloveforeve Good! I realize that people who have kids immediately always have too many responsibilities and they never really settle in marriage or even enjoy it
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
20 Sep 17
@mildredtabitha yes because kids need too much attention. And to give the maximum attention to the kids, the husband is a bit left aside.
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@Ashalyhia (1)
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13 Sep 17
At the moment , I don't want kids , maybe one day . I want to travel and discover the world. There is so much to see.
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
19 Sep 17
I think you are right charlotte we should have kids only when we feel ready for it
we should have kids only when we feel ready for it 1 person likes this
@Akatheu (387)
• Nairobi, Kenya
24 Sep 17
@Ashalyhia it's really a good thing to discover the world. Kids may hold you up and fail to travel when you have planned to.
