My first mother-in-law passed away

@velvet53 (22533)

Palisade, Colorado

September 13, 2017 8:41pm CST

The angels took her from us a t 11 pm Central time on September 11th. I will miss her dearly. We always remained friends from the time I divorced her son until she said good-bye to everyone. It breaks my heart that my son hasn't been able to see her for a long time. Every time he planned a trip back to see her something would come up. Rest in peace, Mom. We all love you.

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@TiarasOceanView (70022)

• United States

14 Sep 17

Oh dear such sad news Sandy. I am so sorry to hear this and sorry for your loss. I know what you mean some Mom in laws are so precious. RIP to the dear lady.

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

14 Sep 17

Thanks Oshy. She was so special to me. This is tough on me.

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

15 Sep 17

@TiarasOceanView

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@TiarasOceanView (70022)

• United States

14 Sep 17

@velvet53 Welcome friend..

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@jstory07 (140151)

• Roseburg, Oregon

14 Sep 17

I am really sorry for your loss. I know you will miss her.

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

14 Sep 17

Thanks, Judy. We always were close even after the divorce.

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@SHOHANA (16093)

• Bangladesh

14 Sep 17

Rest in peace, just pray for her!

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

14 Sep 17

That is all that I can do.

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@Courtlynn (67080)

• United States

14 Sep 17

Sorry for your loss, and sorry your son wasn't able to go see her.

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

14 Sep 17

Thanks Courtney. I knew that she didn't have long to live so I w am able to accept it better than my son. He has been trying so hard to go back and see her.

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

14 Sep 17

@Courtlynn Thanks Courtney. She s better off now.

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@Courtlynn (67080)

• United States

14 Sep 17

@velvet53 thats so sad.

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@fishtiger58 (29820)

• Momence, Illinois

14 Sep 17

I am so very sorry for your loss

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

15 Sep 17

Thank you, my dear friend. How are things in your world?

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

15 Sep 17

@fishtiger58 Things are coming along good for you then, right? It has been another day of plans being changed and that is good. It is all happening the way it is suppose to.

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@fishtiger58 (29820)

• Momence, Illinois

15 Sep 17

@velvet53 things are great, hubby is almost done with the rebuild of the front porch, and it's a beautiful day. How are you this fine day.

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@Yadah04 (3363)

• Philippines

14 Sep 17

My condolences.

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

14 Sep 17

Thank you, Yadah.

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@1hopefulman (45120)

• Canada

14 Sep 17

My condolences!

I am also friends with my first mother-in-law. I was also friends with my 2nd mother-in-law but she passed away a few years ago. She had bad health for many years.

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

14 Sep 17

Thank you, Felix. I am the type and I see that you are too, that does not let a divorce come between other members of the family. It is important to remain friends with those we can as they were part of our lives.

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@1hopefulman (45120)

• Canada

14 Sep 17

@velvet53 You are right! Enemies do nothing to contribute to my life.

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

14 Sep 17

@1hopefulman To me enemies can take a swift hike. Oops, did that come out of my mouth?

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@rebelann (113017)

• El Paso, Texas

14 Sep 17

My condolences to you and your son for your loss.

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

14 Sep 17

Thank you so much. It hurts but at least she has peace now.

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

14 Sep 17

@rebelann Yes she is. Now she is with my last husband and my mom and she knew them very well.

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@rebelann (113017)

• El Paso, Texas

14 Sep 17

She is a guardian angel now @velvet53

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@sishy7 (27167)

• Australia

14 Sep 17

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Rest in peace to her.

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

15 Sep 17

Thanks my friend. I hope that she found my husband and they are having a good time up there.

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

15 Sep 17

@sishy7 He was my second husband and not her son but they got a long super. She even dated his best friend. Her son is still alive but isn't doing well at all. I do wish Rod (her son) the best as I know that he has some severe medical issues.

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@sishy7 (27167)

• Australia

15 Sep 17

@velvet53 Yes, they are together now... I didn't know he has passed away as well... Sorry to hear that - how long ago did she lose her son?

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@LadyDuck (472160)

• Switzerland

14 Sep 17

I am very sorry. My mother-in-law passed away 11 years ago, I still miss her a lot.

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

15 Sep 17

Thanks, Anna. Most mother-in-laws are really great people. My other mother-in-law passed away 13 years ago. I miss her too.

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

15 Sep 17

@LadyDuck Very true. She knew what her son was like as he treated his sisters the same way he treated me. Oh well, it is over with and now mom is in peace.

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@LadyDuck (472160)

• Switzerland

15 Sep 17

@velvet53 I agree, it's wrong to have created a stereotype figure of the mother-in-law, because most of the time they are really great people.

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Lenore Plassman

@sallypup (61761)

• Centralia, Washington

14 Sep 17

I'm sorry to hear this.

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

15 Sep 17

Thanks, Lenore. She is much better off where she is now.

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

15 Sep 17

@sallypup From what I have been told she wasn't. I guess in the end she was arguing with the angels. I got this from my niece.

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Lenore Plassman

@sallypup (61761)

• Centralia, Washington

15 Sep 17

@velvet53 She was ill? That's too bad.

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@poehere (15123)

• French Polynesia

14 Sep 17

This is so sad Sandy and I am so sorry to hear she passed away. I know you will miss her dearly.

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

14 Sep 17

Thanks, Ann. I will miss her. We got along so well. At least I still have one sister in law left and we are very close too.

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@poehere (15123)

• French Polynesia

14 Sep 17

@velvet53 That is good to hear.

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@thelme55 (77162)

• Germany

14 Sep 17

Sorry for your loss. My heartfelt condolence. May she rest in peace.

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

15 Sep 17

Thank you so much, Thelma.

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@vsai2008 (11796)

• India

15 Sep 17

I hope she rests in peace, I am so sorry for your loss

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

15 Sep 17

Thank you, SAI. She is in good hands now.

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@dodo19 (47336)

• Beaconsfield, Quebec

14 Sep 17

I'm sorry to hear about your first mother-in-law. It's nice that you guys were able to stay close. It's always hard to lose someone that you're close to.

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

15 Sep 17

Thanks, Dominique. It is hard but I have to go on. I have lots of pictures of her so that helps.

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Anne Marie Guyer

@LeaPea2417 (37387)

• Toccoa, Georgia

14 Sep 17

I am so sorry to read this. May she RIP.

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

15 Sep 17

Thank you, Anne. She will be missed by many.

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@renicemae (4883)

• Philippines

14 Sep 17

Condolence to your whole family.

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

15 Sep 17

Thanks, Janice.

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@spaceseed (2843)

• India

14 Sep 17

May the departed soul Rest in peace

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

15 Sep 17

Thank you so much.

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Blue Butter Fly

@fly802 (1383)

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14 Sep 17

May God keep her soul in peace.

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

15 Sep 17

Thank you my dear. I like your saying. It touches in the right way.

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Rubeena Bashir Kunju

@rubyriaz007 (4188)

• India

14 Sep 17

Sorry to hear about your loss. May her soul rest in peace . Glad to hear that your mother in law was like a friend for you. You could share your emotions with her as she was a friendly person. Its more painful when such people leave the world and go. Although you divorced her son she stood for you that shows she was a very good woman who stood for daughter in law, as mostly mothers stand with their sons if some problem arises. These days we are living in a very busy world. We have no time for our near and dear ones although we are not doing it deliberately ,but we are forced to give more priority to our jobs for a better future.

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@velvet53 (22533)

• Palisade, Colorado

15 Sep 17

I do agree with you about not having time for those that mean so much to us. I was lucky to have such a great relationship with her. Her daughter and I are still very close too. We call each other sis.

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