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Pakistan
November 27, 2006 4:44am CST
My friend who was my best friend some months ago, all of a sudden stopped talking to me and I noticed that she is trying to avoid me. As soon as I realized that she is not the same as she was before I talked to her and asked what is wrong with me or her but she said nothing every thing is fine ……… I asked her that why you have changed your routine and not going out with me etc. she said just because I was busy .Now it is almost two month we are not talking to each other and things are not same which we had when we were very good friends. What should I do to leave her or to give her more time to think? I don’t want to ask her again because if again she answered same way what I will do then?
2 responses
@rainbow (6761)
27 Nov 06
just invite her for coffee or swimming of something like you used to do, if she keeps making excuses then I would let her go, if there's no real problem she'll be back. Sometimes friends drift apart and back together years later with no particular reason, I wouldn't get upset, if she can't talk to you do you really want to spendd a lot of time with her?
• Pakistan
27 Nov 06
she was very dear to me..we spent lot of time together and shared all our stressors with each other now when she is not responding the way it should be i feel a need for a friend like her whom i can share my problems and can discuss issues which u need to ventilate.
@macubx (11414)
• Philippines
27 Nov 06
leave her.. its obvious she doent want to be with you..