I Miss Home

United States
September 15, 2017 6:53pm CST
From recent responses to discussions it made me realize how much I miss my home community. I moved for a better school district (greatly needed) and we have settled in here but after a year and a half it still doesn't feel like home to me. My children are doing better, getting the help they need in the right areas, but I still miss who familiar we were with everyone in the community I came from. I am not lonely by terms of needing to talk to a person every day, but it's the familiarity that I miss I guess. Ever move? Been homesick?
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16 Sep 17
I also had to move somewhere to study and after one year, i persuade my parents to go back to a place i am more comfortable of calling "home". I left my parents and live in our old house alone.
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• Nairobi, Kenya
16 Sep 17
Do you feel homesick now that you live alone?
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16 Sep 17
@mildredtabitha no. Cuz i now live in the place i call home :)
• Nairobi, Kenya
16 Sep 17
@Mistletoe11 Ohh nice :)
@YrNemo (20255)
16 Sep 17
I have always disliked moving, but I ended up moving house like mad. Once, I moved to another state (a bigger city) and I hated almost every day there. The weather pattern was different, the trees didn't look romantic and dreamy enough, the houses and streets narrow and dirty, etc. I left after 10 years.
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• United States
16 Sep 17
I am considering moving again in another year or two, but we will see. This next consideration is a big one because it would be another state.
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• United States
16 Sep 17
Oh yes many times.. And it was always for my son. I understand what you mean.
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• United States
16 Sep 17
Things we do as parents for our children.
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• United States
16 Sep 17
@kprofgames Oh yes, they surely change our lives.
@sallypup (61563)
• Centralia, Washington
16 Sep 17
We moved over the mountains to another part of my state due to hubby getting work here. I love the little place that I live in and I crave where we used to live. That part of the world is so congested with traffic and yet I love its green forests and trails. I need it but its too expensive to buy over there again and my hubby did not feel he was treated well there so we'll not be going back.
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• United States
17 Sep 17
A career has to be the better choice. After retiring, we can move where ever we want! LOL Least that's something to look forward too.
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@sallypup (61563)
• Centralia, Washington
17 Sep 17
@kprofgames Economics prevents such easy solutions. Others want to live in paradise and there goes the price.....
@BloggerDi (3113)
• United States
16 Sep 17
I sure have. The worst time was when I was a Jr in high school. I moved away from the town I was born and raised in. I was really active in my school and had life long friends and a boyfriend. I was depressed and homesick for a long time. I'm sorry you are going through this.
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• United States
16 Sep 17
That's a tough age when it comes to moving.
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@janethwayne (5191)
• Philippines
16 Sep 17
When I was working overseas before I feel homesick for my family too especially my to children.
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• United States
16 Sep 17
That would be very hard being that far away. Was it a long time away?
@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
19 Sep 17
Yes, though sometimes we are fine with the new place, we might still miss those friends and environment in the old places. Though I have not really move with my whole family, I used to stay in different places when I was studying, and I kinda missed my old friends though I met new friends too. But it's good that you have found a better school for your kids and they are doing better too.
@Shellyann36 (11384)
• United States
11 Aug 18
I do miss being close to my parents. I moved one county away but it is an almost 45-minute drive to their home and money is always tight it seems. I do not miss other family members and the kids I grew up with though.
@Shellyann36 (11384)
• United States
13 Aug 18
@kprofgames I went to see my parents this weekend. I am glad I did. They are both not doing that great. I am rather scared for them at the moment. Now that I have my vehicle back, I am going to make it a regular habit.
• United States
13 Aug 18
@Shellyann36 I think we come to a time we know where we need to be and when. I am going back and forth about moving back around my family (would give me a 40 mile commute one way), but I think I am needed more there than here. There is so much back and forth. I wouldn't say it's a guilt thing, more over I know I need to pull the knee boots up and start to step up more.
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• United States
12 Aug 18
Last few months been going back a few times a week to help my mom out. Like you it's about a 45 minute drive. Time gets away from me. I work graveyard shift and have no concept of time the way it is.
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@prashu228 (37524)
• India
16 Sep 17
I never moved out and never have been far from family.
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• United States
16 Sep 17
When in college I lived farther away, but I also lived with my brother. I've never been that far away from family before either.
@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
17 Sep 17
I agree, we may be far or go to other places for some time, but we always yearn to return home.
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