Unimpressive Happenings In Our Family This Time
@cacay1 (83505)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
September 15, 2017 7:38pm CST
I may say it's a devastating happening. I am seeking answers through my mind. All my mind can say is, there are insensitive beings, weak beings, and soon to leave beings. Those beings are my family members. Why and what happens why to say this way.
First happening- my young niece, the only daughter or my elder brother is pregnant. 
. All people at home were informed through a text last night. Eva Mae Maglangit is her name, age 19,3rd-year college BS Biology student .What a shame.The boy is at her age and at large.
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Second happening- the eldest brother in our family wants all his siblings to visit him and talk to him. We learned through a text message that our family's beloved elder brother is so sick. He seems sick with dementia.
He sometimes opened their door and walked under the moonlit night thinking it was the sun.
. My brother is 81 years old. I have two co-teachers 81 years old but very much kicking.
Third happening- My cousins in Auckland messaged me through Facebook that Dennis is very sick. He almost finds it hard to stand and walk, They said he is very thin. We have not met on Skype for 4 successive Sundays. He is hiding the truth about his health.
Those are the unimpressive happenings in my life this moment of time.
. What a life.
Thank you guys; I hope you are not tired reading.
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. All people at home were informed through a text last night. Eva Mae Maglangit is her name, age 19,3rd-year college BS Biology student .What a shame.The boy is at her age and at large..
Second happening- the eldest brother in our family wants all his siblings to visit him and talk to him. We learned through a text message that our family's beloved elder brother is so sick. He seems sick with dementia.He sometimes opened their door and walked under the moonlit night thinking it was the sun.. My brother is 81 years old. I have two co-teachers 81 years old but very much kicking.
Third happening- My cousins in Auckland messaged me through Facebook that Dennis is very sick. He almost finds it hard to stand and walk, They said he is very thin. We have not met on Skype for 4 successive Sundays. He is hiding the truth about his health.
Those are the unimpressive happenings in my life this moment of time.. What a life.
Thank you guys; I hope you are not tired reading.
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17 responses
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
16 Sep 17
It is a blessing for a baby, she is young but hopefully things will work out. May not be what she had planned, but what's done can't be unchanged. Is the father of the baby hiding? (at large)
I hope Dennis speaks to you soon and hopefully his strength will recovery!
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
22 Sep 17
@cacay1 Hello ! Yes - long time , no see. We are back and reunited on myLot. Yes.. it is not what some hopes for for an unmarried young women, but it happens. I do not think they should punish her too much as stress for the baby is not good. The brothers should find the boy behind this whom needs to man up for his half of the responsibilities (as it takes 2) also and now being a father.
I hope you'll be able to contact Dennis soon too.
@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
16 Sep 17
@infatuatedbby , Hi Mitch? Long time no hear from each other. I am not happy with what had happened to my niece.She is the only daughter and her two brothers punished her.We plan to visit her tomorrow after we visit our eldest brother. Yes, the guy is hiding from his responsibility. All girls must be wise, if only. About Dennis, I cannot anymore contact him. I hope my cousins there would bring their laptop to Dennis home and show to me how Dennis looks like this time. I am indeed sad and worried.Thanks, girl.
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@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
17 Sep 17
@rina110383, Yes, my friend, thanks, I do.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
16 Sep 17
I guess the best I can do for you right now is to pray friend
When it rains it really pours.
When it rains it really pours.3 people like this
@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
16 Sep 17
@louievill,Thank you my friend.We plan to visit our brother tomorrow. He is a far away prov9nce in Misamis Oriental. We will also talk to our sister-in-law about the pregnancy of her daughter to console her.Dennis is so far to reach. All I can do for him is pray and cherish our happy moments together when he was so healthy.
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@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
17 Sep 17
@LadyDuck , Thank you, my friend.You are right, I have a hard time this time.We were not able to visit our eldest brother and sister in law, the mom of my pregnant niece because rain pours so hard here until this time.It is flooding here now. I am afraid blackout to resume few hours from now.here was a sudden blackout early morning good for 3 hours.About Dennis, my cousins were able to manipulate their laptop to let me see Dennis on Skype. I am so sorry for him. He is so thin this time.I noticed his voice dropped.His Parkinson's disease might be the cause. he cannot talk clearly during our very short chat. He saw me crying and I know how he felt for the falling of my tears. I hope God gives Dennis some years to live. The feeling sucks!
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Sep 17
I am so sorry you are facing these situations. I hope everyone can meet with your brother. That would be very good. I'm sorry about Dennis. 
I know you love him very much. I hope they find the boy responsible for your niece's pregnancy. I hope the reason he's at large is not because he's a lawbreaker, but he doesn't want to face the consequences of his actions, which he must do.
I know you love him very much. I hope they find the boy responsible for your niece's pregnancy. I hope the reason he's at large is not because he's a lawbreaker, but he doesn't want to face the consequences of his actions, which he must do.2 people like this
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
16 Sep 17
oh, i am so sorry for all the things that you are experiencing in your life now.
i hope the pregnant relative of yours will find the man who 'impregnated' her.
i hope your brother will be given proper care as well.
i hope Dennis will still see you even on Skype. i hope God will listen to your prayers, my friend.
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@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Sep 17
@ridingbet There are 2 social workers task by NZ government to visit him trice a week, to clean his house, check his foods and shop for him in malls.He and all sick there are granted the same privilege.
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@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
17 Sep 17
@ridingbet , Thank you, my friend.We supposed to visit our eldest brother and pregnant niece to give some advise and to console our sister-in-law, her mom; rain pours so hard to avoid us the visit to them. She should accept the fate of her daughter. Life is so cruel sometimes.About Dennis, we did meet through my cousins.I am so sad and worried.Dennis is getting thinner. I told him about his physical appearance and what had he done to himself, I told him to eat well. What a life, sometimes cruel to man and sometimes it's man that makes life cruel.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
20 Sep 17
@cacay1 who is taking care of Dennis? does he have other relatives looking after him?
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@prashu228 (37524)
• India
16 Sep 17
Ahh , so many things at a time. Hope everything gets sorted out
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@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
17 Sep 17
@prashu228 , Thanks my friend. Problems are part of our existence. I have to face all these.There are no problems that cannot be solved.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
16 Sep 17
So your niece, brother, and cousin..so much going on Erly..so very sorry for the sickness in your family and that your niece may have a baby when she was not yet ready to.
Oh dear what a life is right.
Big hugs my friend.
Praying is all you can do right now, so sorry to hear all this friend.
Praying is all you can do right now, so sorry to hear all this friend.2 people like this
@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
17 Sep 17
@TiarasOceanView , thank you, my friend, I am consoled to see you in your sexy profile photo.is that you when you were younger?Problems are spices of life and it is from them that we become stronger. I have to face all these and fight them all through acceptance of the realities. Yes, life is so cruel sometimes and it's man that makes life cruel. Thanks for the hug my dear.
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@Macarrosel (7498)
• Philippines
16 Sep 17
Well, all I can say my friend is, Everything happens for a good reason.
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@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
17 Sep 17
@Macarrosel , That is true.Another solution is acceptance of the reality.Thanks my friend.
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@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
17 Sep 17
@HazySue , thank you, Susan, we supposed to visit our eldest brother and sister-in-law having daughter pregnant.There is strong rain here this day. Time does not abide our desire at home to console my sister-in-law and talk to our very sick eldest brother.
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@kobesbuddy (78882)
• East Tawas, Michigan
16 Sep 17
There are so pretty serious issues going on in your family, at this time:(
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@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
16 Sep 17
@kobesbuddy , that is true, thanks for sharing your thoughts, very much pleased of this.
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@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
16 Sep 17
@kobesbuddy Thanks and have a nice weekend with your loves.
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@rachz_kisses (3838)
• Philippines
16 Sep 17
I wish I could do something to lighten your burden at this moment, my friend. But have faith and these too shall pass.
But have faith and these too shall pass.2 people like this
@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
17 Sep 17
@rachz_kisses , Thank you, sis. It is not easy to think about my niece putting herself to a shameful situation. She would add burden to her mother. Her father passed away a few years ago and it is her mom who survives for her being the only daughter, and now this is the price of her mom's sacrifices for her future to get pregnant with a man hiding to mean refusal? She is a moron.
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@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Sep 17
@rachz_kisses thanks friend, yes you are right.She is at peace now for her brothers accepted her fate and ready to support their younger sister.
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@rachz_kisses (3838)
• Philippines
17 Sep 17
@cacay1 Your niece will get through it. If she puts herself in it, then she'll definitely will survive it. Just be thankful that she didn't do another mistake to cover up her current mistake, like abortion.
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@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
17 Sep 17
@ABHISHEK112 , Yes, true, thanks, soon all these will be cleared.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Sep 17
I am sorry for these not so nice happenings in your family. These are all trials in life. Just be strong and keep praying.
As for your niece, it's okay that she will gve birth to her baby alone. Rather than having that good for nothing boyfriend and get impregnated again and be dependents of their parents.
As to yur brother, some people are prone to dementia, some have healthy brains. your borther is unlucky to have them. The family should be now more supportive and alert that she will not get out of the house and get lost.
As to Dennis, maybe he doesn't like you to worry and don't want you to see her in his present frail condition. So just try to undertsand and pray more for him.
All these things will pass. Just trust God. He knows what better things to give to your family.
@deba12 (2946)
• India
16 Mar 18
All of us have to go through problems in life. It's part of the life. Stay strong and pray to God.
