Another Day Of Change

Havre De Grace, Maryland
September 16, 2017 9:25am CST
I am 41 I remember when I was younger and how things change when you get older not sure about others. Sometimes I miss the days of no responsibility or little responsibility living carefree as a young person. What do you prefer adult life or carefree younger life.
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@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
16 Sep 17
One of my sons has a t-shirt, "Don't grow up, it's a trap". Sometimes I feel that way. I think I was made for more than working and paying bills. Maybe because I am not enjoying myself now the way I did earlier on.
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• United States
16 Sep 17
@mildredtabitha Yes it does. You know when we are young all we want to be is an adult, but then there are bills, medical payments, housing, arugh...it can all be overwhelming no matter what age you are.
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• Nairobi, Kenya
16 Sep 17
I read that quote too. What does it mean being trapped ?
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• Nairobi, Kenya
16 Sep 17
@kprofgames Does that also mean the rich adults who have everything are not trapped by adulthood?
• United States
16 Sep 17
Oh by far the younger life. It is much too much the stress of what I am dealing with now. I hope you get some respite friend.
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• Havre De Grace, Maryland
16 Sep 17
You as a younger person its a different kind of stress we have stress at all ages. But what im saying i think it rather deal with younger age stress.
• United States
16 Sep 17
@William21001 I am not young anymore, I am over 60. There is more stress now then when I was young.
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• Nairobi, Kenya
16 Sep 17
I learned that old people never have stress because they have more experience
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@marguicha (223010)
• Chile
16 Sep 17
As we get older, some of our loved ones start to die. I wish that I could have been spared of that. Besides that, I have led a wonderful life.
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@marguicha (223010)
• Chile
16 Sep 17
@William21001 I lost my father over a couple of decades ago. But he was the most wonderful human being. Then I lost my husband when he was still young and one of my grandsons to cancer
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• Havre De Grace, Maryland
16 Sep 17
I lost my mom and dad and a lot of my family yea it sucks because it feels like everything good simple is being taken away from us. I do love my life as of know but i also miss the olden days.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
16 Sep 17
I prefer young college days
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• Havre De Grace, Maryland
16 Sep 17
I love them carefree days your first love your friends the partys everything was so cool back then. Things seem like they slow down when you get older.
@Macarrosel (7498)
• Philippines
16 Sep 17
I choose my life now as an adult.
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• Havre De Grace, Maryland
16 Sep 17
thats cool sometimes things happen and it leads up to who we are and who we are going to be .
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@just4him (317041)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Sep 17
Those carefree days were nice, but I like the age of responsibility. It gives purpose to my life. Welcome to myLot.
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@just4him (317041)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Sep 17
@William21001 I wouldn't want to go through it all again. I like where I'm at. I would like to fall in love again and have a good loving relationship. That didn't happen the first time around.
• Havre De Grace, Maryland
16 Sep 17
Thanks for the welcome and im not saying accept what is im saying if you had one wish what would you wish for young or stay were you are. I would want to fall in love again for the first time and erase the hurt from over the years.
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• Manila, Philippines
17 Sep 17
All i know is i cant wait for my kids to finish school so that they can stand on their own and i can live freely and carefree or whatever again. ugh this responsibilities.lol
• Valdosta, Georgia
16 Sep 17
I was never care free in my life to be honest. My childhood wasn't great either. At least now I can make my own decisions and I have my husband and children. =)
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• Havre De Grace, Maryland
16 Sep 17
Like I said some of us have it hard as a young person so we cant wait to get out and do things as a adult. But so of us had great young lives and when we got older it did not added up so well as a good time.
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@LeaPea2417 (37353)
• Toccoa, Georgia
16 Sep 17
I prefer my adult life right now, because I did make a lot of foolish choices when I was younger that I just wish I could go back in time and undo.
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• United States
16 Sep 17
Hey - I a originally from Baltimore so I know where your town is! I am an adult, and old enough to know that I never would want to go back in time.
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• Havre De Grace, Maryland
16 Sep 17
Very cool I sometime miss the olden times when things were care free but i love my life as of know. Its cool to meet someone that was local. how long ago since you been in maryland.
17 Sep 17
I love my freedom now as an individual adult. My adult children treat me as their older, wiser friend and chum with meaningful element of respect as their mother.
@peachpurple (13962)
• Malaysia
17 Sep 17
I prefer my younger life when I was carefree, I could do anything I want , buy anything I want because I work for it but now I am married, I feel like I am a bird in the cage