Have You Attended A Buddhist Prayer?

@thelme55 (77082)
Germany
September 18, 2017 12:21pm CST
Is it also called a Mass? I wonder! Last Sunday, I have attended a Buddhist prayer at the house of my Thai workmate. It was the 3rd time I was invited and so I didn't say that I have no time. I was curious this time. Very curious how it went. I made cake pops as requested and brought it to the Buddhist gathering. I was the only one catholic and of course the only not Thai. There were 3 monks in the house of my workmate who was collected from Cologne temple. My workmate was dressed in a typical Thai traditional dress. She looked more gorgeous than before. There were already plenty of Thais in the house and some of them I worked with. During the prayer, the 3 monks sat on a couch in a lotus sit, hands opened and with a long cord that they were all holding. I did what the others did. We sat down on the mat placed on the floor while our hands were in a praying position. As the chanting went on in Thai language, I glanced every now and then at the monks. I noticed that one of the monks had his right hand under his orange clothes, moving. I was shocked because I saw that he was scrolling on a smartphone while his left hand facing up at his breast length, mouth chanting to a prayer but his eyes were looking at what his right hand was holding. A smartphone! I supposed, I was the only one who have seen it. The Thais were seriously closing their eyes while praying. I did too but as I have said I was curious and noticed every thing around me. I could have followed their chanting because it was easy for me to follow the words though I didn’t understand them. Instead, I prayed in my mind the way I prayed when I went to church. Thanking for everything and for the chance I had to join the Buddhist prayer. All in all, it was a good experience and the food was deliciously lavished although hot. Have you experienced going to a prayer of a religion you don't belong? The photo is the garden of my Thai workmate. Thanks for reading. Have a great new week to all.
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
18 Sep 17
The monk with the cell phone would have surprised me too. I've never been to a prayer service for another religion.
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• Philippines
19 Sep 17
@thelme55 would you go if they invited you again after this?
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@thelme55 (77082)
• Germany
19 Sep 17
@hereandthere No, I won´t as they were all talking in Thais. I felt like I was in the other world. After the prayer and eating, one of the Monks were reading the palms of the Thais. I don´t like to know my future. How can a young Monk know my future? I am sure the Monks were younger than me.
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@thelme55 (77082)
• Germany
19 Sep 17
That was the first time I did @just4him. I was invited for the 3rd times and so I didn´t refuse as my curiosity overcame me.
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@much2say (55614)
• Los Angeles, California
18 Sep 17
I've been to various Buddhist ceremonies (I think it varies with cultures too) - but not a Thai prayer. I can't believe the monk was using his smartphone like that during the prayer! I have gone to other ceremonies/events of other religions many times . . . regardless of what I believe in, it's good to learn/experience what others believe in - I can at least respect their customs/rituals.
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@thelme55 (77082)
• Germany
18 Sep 17
That is good to know @much2say. It is indeed good to know even if it is only a bit about other people's belief and to respect their customs and tradition. Just the way we expect that from other people to respect ours.
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
18 Sep 17
sorry, no picture. i, too, would not be able to resist looking around. so how do you communicate, in english or german?
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• Philippines
18 Sep 17
@thelme55 the size has to be less than 3mb.
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@thelme55 (77082)
• Germany
18 Sep 17
Sorry. I keep on trying to put a photo but it didn't show up. We communicate in German @hereandthere
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@thelme55 (77082)
• Germany
18 Sep 17
@hereandthere thanks. The photo showed up now.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
19 Sep 17
Maybe he was looking at a copy of his chant because he couldn't memorize it? ;)
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
19 Sep 17
@thelme55 haha giving him the benefit of the doubt. ;)
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@thelme55 (77082)
• Germany
19 Sep 17
Maybe @sol_cee but I doubt it.
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@YesWay (3674)
19 Sep 17
I'm the same as you. I definitely would have sneaked a peek !
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@thelme55 (77082)
• Germany
19 Sep 17
Well, we are so curious people @YesWay
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@thelme55 (77082)
• Germany
19 Sep 17
@YesWay Yes. One way of learning foreign culture and tradition.
@YesWay (3674)
19 Sep 17
@thelme55 haha / that's the only way you can learn things!!
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• United Kingdom
18 Sep 17
We used to have a mini Buddhist temple where I live, but it closed as the owners have gone to India to study. I was hoping to attend their meetings.
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@thelme55 (77082)
• Germany
18 Sep 17
I see @SerenityEngel. I have not seen a temple yet in real life.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
19 Sep 17
I never went to any other religious prayers. It's strictly not acceptable in my family . I follow Christianity.
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@prashu228 (37524)
• India
20 Sep 17
@thelme55 we respect other religions. If we don't attend their prayers that doesn't mean ,we don't respect them. .
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@thelme55 (77082)
• Germany
19 Sep 17
My family is not strict when it comes to religion. We are Roman Catholics but we respect other religions @prashu228 .
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@thelme55 (77082)
• Germany
20 Sep 17
@prashu228 I agree with you.
• United States
18 Sep 17
What? I am glad you said it was the phone Thelma..but even the phone that seems very out of place for sincere prayer.
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• Philippines
19 Sep 17
@TiarasOceanView really? they would actually do that while you're doing their hair?
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• United States
18 Sep 17
@thelme55 Yes and you know being the hairdresser, I had that rubbish on more than one occasion under the cape
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@thelme55 (77082)
• Germany
18 Sep 17
Yes, I know what was in your mind @TiarasOceanView. That was what I first thought so when I saw his hands moving under the cloth. Indeed. It was unsincere to use a phone while others were praying.
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@LadyDuck (471541)
• Switzerland
19 Sep 17
I have never attended a religious meeting that was different from my religion.
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@LadyDuck (471541)
• Switzerland
19 Sep 17
@thelme55 I would surely go if someone invited me, there is not reason to refuse.
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@thelme55 (77082)
• Germany
19 Sep 17
@LadyDuck yes, go. It is very interesting to attend such religious ceremony. I would not go though to a Muslim ceremony, however, I would love to experience the Jewish one.
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@thelme55 (77082)
• Germany
19 Sep 17
I think I wouldn´t have been if I was not invited for the 3rd times. I will not go though when they will invite me again @LadyDuck.
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
19 Sep 17
I have never attended a Buddhist prayer but that is something I would be open to attending. Although it's a bit ridiculous that the monk was on his smartphone! Sheesh, is nothing sacred anymore? Although I have to admit, at first my mind went straight to the gutter when you said his hand was under his robe moving...
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@thelme55 (77082)
• Germany
19 Sep 17
Me, too @Srbageldog. I was blushed and shocked at the evil thought of what he was doing under his robe . It seems that nothing is so sacred nowadays.
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@Macarrosel (7498)
• Philippines
19 Sep 17
That's a great experience. I had attended religious meetings and prayers but none on Buddhist prayer.
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@thelme55 (77082)
• Germany
19 Sep 17
It was indeed a great experience. @Macarrosel I wonder if we have Buddhist people in our country.
@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
18 Sep 17
I haven't yet, though I am curious with the other religions, on how they pray too :)
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@thelme55 (77082)
• Germany
19 Sep 17
@Lucky15 though it was my first time in a Buddhist ceremony, I know how they pray through watching movies.
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@kobesbuddy (78882)
• East Tawas, Michigan
18 Sep 17
No, because Buddah is a false God. I want nothing to do with their false idols.
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@thelme55 (77082)
• Germany
18 Sep 17
Really @kobesbuddy? I have not thought about that. Thanks.
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@kobesbuddy (78882)
• East Tawas, Michigan
18 Sep 17
@thelme55 You're welcome, Thelma!
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• United States
19 Sep 17
Buddah is actually not worshiped as a god. He was just a teacher. At least that is my understanding (I am not Buddhist but have read a little about it.)
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Sep 17
I like some Buddhist chant. Namaste.
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@thelme55 (77082)
• Germany
19 Sep 17
Is it not a word from Indian language @JustBhem? It is the praying gesture in India. Sawadika is the Thai gesture and saying HELLO to a person.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Sep 17
@thelme55 I see. I don't know, they use that word when greetings.
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
2 Oct 17
caught in the act.. hahaha!
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@thelme55 (77082)
• Germany
4 Oct 17
Yes. That was the sentence I have in mind when I caught the monk in the act
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
20 Sep 17
I have been to many different churches and religions. I am also curious.
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
20 Sep 17
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@thelme55 (77082)
• Germany
20 Sep 17
We have a healthy curiosity @andriaperry
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