Want to get Pregnant before marriage

Yeah, i know that it is the right thing. But i've seen it before, two of my colleague had an affair because in their long years of marriage his their wive didn't give them a child, when they impregnated another woman they left their wife.

@Phelly02 But at least you can sue him in court for leaving you and ask for support for the child. But if not married, he can deny you the support for the child if ever that happens. But don't think like that. See to it that he loves you much he won't think of leaving you even if he impregnated another. Pray everyday for your marriage to stay strong.

@SIMPLYD yes i've been praying that he would not change and would still be inlove with me no matter what happens.

@Phelly02 Love overcomes everything and without love, everything is vain. I hope you get what you aspire! :)

I would like to think that we love each other and that we could overcome anything. That is why im weighing this options.

@shaynas thanks :)

Me and my partner talked about the issue on the weekend we had a serious talked. And We decided to have our marriage first before the baby. It’s because he was just accepted in our family whole heartedly, and according to my partner, he doesn’t want to destroy the trust of my parents and siblings to him by having me impregnated before marriage. So by December since I always return home at our hometown for Christmas he will accompany me and officially asked my parents blessings for our marriage. Hopefully it would turned out well. Thanks :)

@Phelly02 That is very good and wise.

@LeaPea2417 Thank you :)

Thank you for all your advice, me and my partner talked over the matter on the weekend , a serious talked about it. We decided to have our marriage first before the baby. It’s because according to my partner, he doesn’t want to destroy the trust of my parents and siblings to him by having me impregnated before marriage. So by Christmas he will accompany me and officially asked my parents blessings for our marriage.

@Phelly02 You can procreate. But only GOD knows when. You just have to pray to GOD to give you a child.

Yes i want to get married.. and i've been praying for a bay

I just want a proof first that i can procreate.. bcoz we also had an age gap.. he is 5 yrs younger..

@Phelly02 yes your right

@Phelly02 yes correct

Yes, evry woman dream to be married to the person they love someday, but would they stay happily married together if one can not procreate..

@Phelly02 good for both of you. Hope it works out well for both of you.

Thank you for all your advice, me and my partner talked about the issue on the weekend since his only at home during weekend. We decided to have our marriage first before the baby. It’s because he doesn’t want to destroy the trust of my parents and siblings to him by having me impregnated before marriage. So by December since I always return home at our hometown for Christmas he will accompany me and officially asked my parents blessings for our marriage.

@allen0187 i hope too ;)

@Phelly02 that's great.

@wongchoiyee we just decided to marry first over the weekend of a serious talked. And decided that by December we would asked our parents for their blessings :)

@wongchoiyee We decided just that, marry first. And decided to go home for Christmas and asked our parents blessings

@Phelly02 you explain him before itself

I've prepared myself already to be pregnant and have a child of my own, but marriage scares me.

Actually there was already a plan of marraige but ever since i was diagnose of having an ovarian problem, i was doubting myself if he would still stay if ever i could not give him a child.

Thank you for all your advice, me and my partner talked about the issue on the weekend since his only at home during weekend. We decided to have our marriage first before the baby. It’s because he was just accepted in our family whole heartedly, and according to my partner, he doesn’t want to destroy the trust of my parents and siblings to him by having me impregnated before marriage. So by December since I always return home at our hometown for Christmas he will accompany me and officially asked my parents blessings for our marriage.

@peachpurple me and my partner had a serious talked about the issue on the weekend. We decided to have our marriage first before the baby. It’s because he was just accepted in our family whole heartedly, and according to my partner, he doesn’t want to destroy the trust of my parents and siblings to him by having me impregnated before marriage. So by December since I always return home at our hometown for Christmas he will accompany me and officially asked my parents blessings for our marriage, thank you :)

@Phelly02 you and your partner had made a perfect choice, Congratulations in advance and looking forward to your wedding photo

@Phelly02 that's right

@Kosgey Thank you for all your advice, me and my partner talked about the issue on the weekend since his only at home during weekend. We decided to have our marriage first before the baby. It’s because he was just accepted in our family whole heartedly, and according to my partner, he doesn’t want to destroy the trust of my parents and siblings to him by having me impregnated before marriage. So by December since I always return home at our hometown for Christmas he will accompany me and officially asked my parents blessings for our marriage.

I did already together w/ my partner and the doctor gave me vitamins.

@rubyriaz yes, we decided just that. We had a serious talked over the weekend and decided to marry first before the baby. And by December he would officially asked our parents blessings. Thanks :)