Trust issues
By bokal2703
@bokal2703 (802)
Philippines
September 22, 2017 7:12am CST
A friend of mine is struggling with her marriage because of her long distance relationship with her husband who is working overseas. She doubted her husband loyalty because of many temptation at his place of work wherein he has female co-workers. I told her she should give her husband the benefit of the doubt and not nag him all the time. Her lack of trust might ruin their marriage.
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@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
22 Sep 17
Yes, they are actually married for just two years. And she is comparing how they were before
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@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
24 Sep 17
@Akatheu Yes, you are right. They need some time together
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@Akatheu (387)
• Nairobi, Kenya
23 Sep 17
@bokal2703 the marriage is still very young so they need one another very closely. That's my thought though..
@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
22 Sep 17
do they have regular communication?
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@Akatheu (387)
• Nairobi, Kenya
22 Sep 17
Sometimes people will maintain good communication so that they are not suspected by their partners.....my thought though
@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
23 Sep 17
Not a fan of long distance relationships. In fact, I'm one of those who do not believe in such.
Hope your friend and her husband can resolve their issues.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
23 Sep 17
@bokal2703 but you know, it just come to my mind right now, that if our partner wants to cheat on us, even if they are here beside us, they will still cheat. but if they are faithful, they will remain faithful no matter how far they are to us. but still only time can tell...
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
22 Sep 17
That is what I am telling her too. And yes, she wants her husband to go home
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
22 Sep 17
Hope she trust her husband or speak to him.. otherwise relationship ruins
@joanwanjala (522)
• Mombasa, Kenya
22 Sep 17
If there is no cheating evidence, then tell your friend to relax, the doubt just works you out for no good reason
