When your Mother is the reason for having a bad day!

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
September 26, 2017 9:56pm CST
I am having a bad day. I slept after some interaction here last night and watched movies online but I fall asleep and didn't finish the movie I was watching. Then I woke up at 5: 45 am by my Mother's annoying voice. She was yelling already early in the morning and I don't know why. This pisses me off. I tried to go back to sleep because it was raining, but I couldn't because I'm pissed already. So I continue watching the movie I watched last night. I got out of the room because I am desirous already. And Mother is looking at me having an upset face, and it pisses me off again. I told her why is she looking at me like that, did I do something wrong to you again? Then she yells at me. This happens all the time, that is why I only stay inside my room. I have an attitude kind of a Mother.
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9 responses
Courtney
@Courtlynn (67085)
• United States
27 Sep 17
Is she losing her mind, or bipolar?
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Courtney
@Courtlynn (67085)
• United States
27 Sep 17
@JustBhem i get that. But not many are rude for no reason. So maybe she is?
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Sep 17
@Courtlynn She is most of the time. Like is she didn't like talking to you, she will snob you and will not talk to you the whole day.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Sep 17
I really don't know. We are not in good terms ever since because of her attitude problems.
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Melissa
@Behindtheguitarbar (2831)
• Guangdong, China
27 Sep 17
well, my mom's anger is also easily be triggered, every little things could be a blasting fuse.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Sep 17
Mother has always triggered whether it's a small thing or big thing.
Melissa
@Behindtheguitarbar (2831)
• Guangdong, China
27 Sep 17
@JustBhem yep, most time, I just be silent.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Sep 17
@Behindtheguitarbar Me too but sometimes I just take it. She always ruins everything here.
Judy Story
@jstory07 (139697)
• Roseburg, Oregon
27 Sep 17
A mother should not act like that. If you are old enough to get your own place maybe you should.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Sep 17
I'd like to but I can't for now because we need to save and payments are everywhere. As much as possible I don't want to stay where she stays. That is why I lock myself here in my room. I also eat inside my room because she always stares at me as if she doesn't want me to eat here.
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ingrid
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
27 Sep 17
that is the reason why i always tell you to live out now. even just renting a room so your mother will not annoy you anymore.
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ingrid
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
27 Sep 17
@JustBhem i hope the job you need your letter of intent will bear good results, hija.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Sep 17
@ridingbet And I still haven't got a feedback.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Sep 17
I wanted and you know that, but there are things I need to consider. We need to save first plus we have a lot of debts to pay. I am doomed.
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peachpurple
@peachpurple (13962)
• Malaysia
27 Sep 17
Why is your mom having a foul mood? Someone annoyed her?
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Sep 17
I don't know why she is like that always. Now she is mad again.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
2 Oct 17
@peachpurple I did, but she always keep it inside her.
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peachpurple
@peachpurple (13962)
• Malaysia
2 Oct 17
@JustBhem ask her whats wrong
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Sai
@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
27 Sep 17
I too don't like when someone shouts first thing in the morning, which my neighbors do most of the time :( I hope you somehow find the reason of your mother's yelling and try resolving it
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Sep 17
She is always like that most of the time. Awhile ago, she started it again.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Sep 17
@vsai2008 She always stays outside our house and collects rumors.
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Sai
@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
27 Sep 17
@JustBhem She goes out and meets other people ??
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prashu
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
27 Sep 17
I am so sorry.. your day started bad... it's better to check if your mother has any health issues
StacyB
@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
5 Oct 17
I sympathize with you, when I lived at home I often woke to my parents yelling first thing in the morning. I did not get along with my mother (or father) at all until I moved out. Their yelling still pisses me off when I am around them. They both yell a lot, usually over stupid stuff that most people wouldn't yell about.
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StacyB
@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
6 Oct 17
@JustBhem It's the worst way to wake up, I think. Automatically puts you in a horrible mood.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Oct 17
@Srbageldog Yes, it does to me. I don't like waking up in the morning with her mouth all over the house.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Oct 17
I feel you, that's my Mother. She does that most of the time. And yeah, it is very annoying early in the morning you heard her.
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Christine basweti
@Christinb (390)
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27 Sep 17
I think that you should move out n give her some space
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Sep 17
She has all the space she needed that is why I only stay inside my room. Every time I went out, her eyes are all in me. As if I did something wrong for her.