I Wished I Could Just Slap the Doctor and Leave

@salonga (27775)
Philippines
September 26, 2017 9:58pm CST
I seldom see doctors because I've been gifted with good health. But the other week, after working in my garden, I noticed my hands were itching and could not help scratching. I could not figure out what insect bit me and even if I applied vinegar, alcohol and ointment, the itching kept recurring. I was scared it might get worse if infected so I went to see a dermatologist. Her clinic hours was supposed to be 3:00 to 5:00 pm but she did not come on time. All the patients were already weary and bored before she finally came at 4:48 PM and she did not even say sorry. I wished I could just slap her and leave but thank God, I was able to hold my peace. Could you tolerate this kind of doctor?
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41 responses
• United States
27 Sep 17
My goodness, I wish she was not allowed to do this!! Terrible to keep you and everyone waiting like this..I mean it is not as if she is a surgeon!!! Did she even help you with the itch? Or know what it was? So sorry this happened to you.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
27 Sep 17
Yes! What was really sad was she was not really able to cure me with her meds so i had to see another doctor who gave me meds that really helped.
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• United States
27 Sep 17
@salonga Oh dear and after all that, she was useless to you..so sorry!! Well good the other doctor was smart and able to help you..what did he or she say it was? A bite or a plant rash?
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
27 Sep 17
@TiarasOceanView It was an insect bite,but could not tell what insect but at least i got cured,thank God.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
27 Sep 17
If she had an emergency case then yes but just being late no, that is inexcusable.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
27 Sep 17
Exactly! but she did not even care to tell the reason, so she was hated even more by all of us who waited.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 Sep 17
What was the reason why doctors did ot report on time? That doctor could be reprimanded by the clinic owners. It is not easy to wait.I experienced like that and I felt my blood boiling, so I told the doctor to come on time next time because he is paid.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
28 Sep 17
The fact that she did not even say sorry to us is what made me more mad. It was as if he was our master and we deserved no respect. It was a private clinic and so how much more if she is doing it for free.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Sep 17
@salonga that doctor lacks common sense, in short, moron.
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@iriswest (158)
• Philippines
27 Sep 17
You are absolutely right about that.
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@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
27 Sep 17
This is really scary . If she is working in a hospital and there is in patient visit the matter can understand. But in a private clinic no punctuality is really scary.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
28 Sep 17
She is in a private clinic and we are all paying and not going there to avail of free services and yet she totally forgot punctuality and offered no apology.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
29 Sep 17
@shshiju I agree.
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@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
28 Sep 17
@salonga Only simple persons can deliver a better services.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
28 Sep 17
Some can not really go with "their" time, she set s it up and why she is late? ;/
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
28 Sep 17
She did not even tell why she was so late. It was as if she was entitled to let us wait as long as she desires. and we deserve no apologies.
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Sep 17
@Lucky15, so stupid and hypocrite doctor.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
28 Sep 17
@cacay1 I will not be going to that doctor again :(
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Sep 17
Same with my Nephro Doctor, she always comes late that is why I need to call her secretary to make a reservation and end up going there around 3 in the afternoon.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
27 Sep 17
I wish they tell exactly what time they could make it instead of making the patients wait. Her medical secretary could not even tell us the reason why she was so late.
@iriswest (158)
• Philippines
27 Sep 17
Why are doctors like that? They come in late and leave early. They don't realize how stressful it is for their patients waiting for them.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
28 Sep 17
@iriswest The are not sensitive to the feelings of the patients. This is a form of abuse.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
20 Dec 17
I am used to doctors arriving late. Usually it's because they had an emergency operation or the operation they had wasn't completed at their estimated time. So, I understand them.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
20 Dec 17
I've never encountered a doctor who come on time but this doctor came very, very late and she was unapologetic.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
21 Dec 17
@SIMPLYD Well, here...even the secretary could not tell why she was very, very late.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
21 Dec 17
@salonga Here, at least it's the secretary who informs the patients that the doctor will be late because of this and that.
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
28 Sep 17
what did the first doctor prescribe that didn't work? what did the 2nd doctor prescribe that did work?
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
28 Sep 17
The latecomer said it was scabies and gave me anti-scabies lotion and topical med for scabies. The other doctor said it was a mildly infected insect bite and gave me a mild soap and topical antibiotic.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
28 Sep 17
@hereandthere Yes, and would you believe this doctor is from a public hospital so I only paid for the meds and no doctor/s fee while the first doctor is from private hospital so I used my health card.
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• Philippines
28 Sep 17
@salonga at least you "discovered" a competent dermatologist should you need one again in the future.
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@paigea (36316)
• Canada
1 Nov 17
I guess it depends. Was she just doing something personal or was she called to the hospital.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
1 Nov 17
Unfortunately, she did not even care to tell us.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
1 Nov 17
@paigea Yes so I swear I won't go back to her again.
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@paigea (36316)
• Canada
1 Nov 17
@salonga frustrating
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
27 Sep 17
maybe the doctor had many patients in other hospitals but yes, she should have apologized for her behavior. you are human beings and you should be treated well.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
27 Sep 17
She should had at least told her medical secretary so we know the reason but no she did not and this poor secretary was even telling she was already on her way only to get so embarrassed when the waiting went so long.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
28 Sep 17
@ridingbet This is quite disturbing.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
30 Sep 17
@salonga there are so many news feeds on FB about this. and yet these hospital administrators are not afraid of the word KARMA
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
27 Sep 17
These kind of medical doctors think they are the very important person in the Philippines, and there's so many of them. Its a sad thing in our country but its really happening.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
28 Sep 17
I heard this bad habit of doctors is common even in other countries so it is becoming epidemic and deadly as they will cause patients to die before they arrive.
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 Sep 17
@ilocosboy agree with you my friend.That doctor seems hypocrite.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
28 Sep 17
Their oath is what they forgot, the money and their thinking they are VIP is what they live.
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@peachpurple (13961)
• Malaysia
27 Sep 17
you should had gone to another clinic after 1 hour of waiting, that is my max limit
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
27 Sep 17
Before going there, I actually checked all the nearby hospitals and clinics and she was the only one available on that day, so I went there/.
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@peachpurple (13961)
• Malaysia
28 Sep 17
@salonga oh i see...
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@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
27 Sep 17
I hope atleast the problem got solved, you really waited for long time
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
27 Sep 17
Unfortunately, this doctor was unable to heal me. I had to see another doctor after two days when I noticed the meds she gave were not making my condition any better
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@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
27 Sep 17
@salonga Did the other doctor help get rid of your problem?
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
27 Sep 17
@vsai2008 Yes, in just a day, I was relieved and in a week time, I was healed.
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@iriswest (158)
• Philippines
27 Sep 17
What kind of doctor is she? I don't like that kind of doctor.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
28 Sep 17
All that I knew is she is a stup!d doctor.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
28 Sep 17
@iriswest Oh that is very true!
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@iriswest (158)
• Philippines
28 Sep 17
@salonga There are people that are like them.
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@LadyDuck (471968)
• Switzerland
27 Sep 17
I hate this kind of doctors, I had an eye doctor like this, but I changed. My time is as precious as their time, I pretend respect. I hope your hand is fine now.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
28 Sep 17
Exactly! But yes, my hands are okay now and it was not her but another doctor cured my hands totally.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
28 Sep 17
@LadyDuck Yes I'm very fine now, thanks!
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@LadyDuck (471968)
• Switzerland
28 Sep 17
@salonga I am glad the doctor cured you and you are now fine.
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@cahaya1983 (11116)
• Malaysia
2 Oct 17
That must be upsetting. It happened to me once but I later found out that the doctor had to attend to an emergency operation, but at least she apologized afterwards.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
2 Oct 17
That is of course excusable but this doctor did not even apologize.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
3 Oct 17
@cahaya1983 Certainly!
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@cahaya1983 (11116)
• Malaysia
3 Oct 17
@salonga Yeah that was insensitive. People could have had other plans.
@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
3 Oct 17
Maybe she made her rounds first?
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
4 Oct 17
Obviously she did not, otherwise the medical secretary should have had told us.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
7 Oct 17
@sol_cee I did.
@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
4 Oct 17
@salonga then she’s an arrogant one. You should find a new doctor.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
1 Oct 17
Perhaps she had an emergency or works at another clinic? I've had doctors who were late because they got held up in surgery, but very rarely. I hope she helped you.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
2 Oct 17
Well if only she was apologetic then I would not be very mad.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
3 Oct 17
@DianneN Exactly!
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
2 Oct 17
@salonga Some doctors think they are above apologies, unfortunately for them! Good way to lose business.
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@YrNemo (20255)
27 Sep 17
sorry to let you know but most doctors I have here, do exactly like that. We would turn up at the time they told us to come, but then we sat there waited for about 2 hours.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
27 Sep 17
It looks like majority of the doctors do not know how to respect the time of their patients. Do they really think they are entitled to do that kind of disrespect?
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
27 Sep 17
@YrNemo This is a sort of abuse I think. I just hope they'd be more considerate.
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@YrNemo (20255)
27 Sep 17
@salonga We need them, so we have no choice seriously. Sometimes I sat there, grinding my teeth! Will have to go (and wait) for one soon.
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@nangayo (2290)
• Nairobi, Kenya
27 Sep 17
Doctors are supposed to be near their patients in case of emergencies.This is just one of those ignorant doctors who don't care about their patients.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
28 Sep 17
She lacks care, concern, and respect to patients so I am not going back to this kind of doctor again.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
28 Sep 17
@nangayo Certainly!
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@nangayo (2290)
• Nairobi, Kenya
28 Sep 17
@salonga A serious doctor put his patients as first priority.
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