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It's been a long time since I posted here. MyLot is a pretty good place to talk about things though. 6 weeks ago, myself and the other 80 people that I work with (including my husband) were told that the company had been sold, and every single person would be made redundant. We were told that the new owner, who successfully runs a similar business in a different town may re-employ 10 people for the short term, but no guarantee. All of us were shocked; and in our smallish town, most have begun to look looking for other work. Some, such as my husband, are close to retirement age, so finding a job is not easy. Some, including myself, looked at going back to school to re-train for a different career. I enrolled for 2 different courses, one starting in a couple of weeks, and one in January 2018, and I applied for 2 jobs. Word got around last week. The new owner was coming on the Thursday to approach those he wanted to re-employ. Rumours, rumours, gossip, gossip. Who was going to be asked to stay? And why? Sure enough, the new owner came, and approached those he wanted to stay. There were no full-time jobs, only 3 days per week for 10 people, for a few months. I was one of the ones asked to stay and let me tell you, myLot friends, what a torrent of hate that has unleashed, not only for me, but for the others asked to stay on. I've had 'friends' on social media unfriend me, I have been sworn at when I approached someone for help. I've had people who I have to work with totally ignore me. My husband is hurt, he himself cannot understand why I was chosen and not he, particularly, (in his words) my 'annoying outspokenness'. My boss also thinks I have done some sneaky thing behind her back, and my work-mates don't even speak to me unless they have to. 'Why her' I hear them ask each other, 'why not me, why not her, why not him? Why HER! ' I don't know why, except the criteria for choice was that the new owner wanted those who were prepared to be flexible, to learn new skills, to move to new departments, or those who were multi- skilled. I am happy, I like the way the new owner thinks, I like the way he operates his business. All I want today, is to express how sad I feel for the lost mate-ship. I know that if they'd been offered a position, and not me, I would be very happy for them. I understand that all those people are hurting, it's a hard time for everyone, but to have worked with these people for 20 years and then try to deal with the loss of those workplace friendships...........well, I guess I am finding it hard. My 'new' job starts next week. I will feel better after that I suppose. Thanks for listening.