Long distance relationships : have you been in any and has it worked out for you?
By Rihanna B
@Ri1089 (225)
Mauritius
October 14, 2017 8:03am CST
Nowadays I see loads of people in long distance relationships. I'm just wondering whether it's worth it or not.
Recently I've been in one and I haven't been able to meet her. Finally she broke it up and it left me heartbroken. I wish I can see her one day. She's basically all I can think about all day but I know I can't work. I know that I won't be trying any relationships anytime soon.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
14 Oct 17
Yes they can work and they do. I have a few friends who were in long distance relationships and they are now married. It takes a lot of commitment and trust but if both people want it, it can work. Sorry about your break up. Breaking up is never easy and takes time to get over.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
15 Oct 17
@Ri1089 that is sad she would say that but you are right. There is somebody out there who will love you as much as you love them no matter what the distance is.
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@Ri1089 (225)
• Mauritius
15 Oct 17
@Happy2BeMe that's true but I'm a very patient person. I've been single for over two years now and i can wait longer.
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@DesirousDreamer (34776)
• Peoria, Arizona
14 Oct 17
I feel like they can only work out when you can meet up a few times every few months or so. And the main thing with them, you have to talk a lot, through face time and texting and talking on the phone. long distance is possible, it is just a lot of effort but worth it if you love that person. Love isn't easy.
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@DesirousDreamer (34776)
• Peoria, Arizona
15 Oct 17
@Ri1089 I'm sorry that happened. At least you tried! any relationship, near or far there is no telling what is going to happen. All that matters is the fun in the middle and the learning in the end.
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@Ri1089 (225)
• Mauritius
16 Oct 17
@DesirousDreamer yeah I don’t have any regrets, maybe only the fact that I live far away from everybody. It’s like I’m on a deserted island sometimes lol
@Meramar (2695)
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15 Oct 17
A long distance relationship only Works if it's based on communication, comprehension, and when one of the couple doesn't mind to move near to the other one and takes the decision at the right time.
Some years ago, I started a long distance relationship. We connected online as the chats were the way we used to communicate. Finally, he moved to where I was living. Seventeen years later, we are still together.
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@Meramar (2695)
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15 Oct 17
@Ri1089 Thank you! I am also happy that it worked out as we have now two kids (teenies already) and I really love my family It was (and still is) a nice experience for me. There are a lot we can learn through those kind of relations, as we belong to different nationalities.
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@Shortail (845)
• Philippines
16 Oct 17
@Ri1089 And much better that both of you has the peace of mind, nothing to worry about. The only thing missing is the word call "relationship" but aside from that, both of you can communicate also, and if the things go along on your way, go back to relation ship again, but if not, remain friends.
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@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
15 Oct 17
I haven't been in one and I don't intend to be in one. I do believe that long distance relationships do not work at all.
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@cttolledo (5454)
• Legaspi, Philippines
14 Oct 17
Well, its very hard. But so far, its working. Its been 2. years when we started LDR. So thank you to the technologies that we have now it really helps to survive that LDR thing. But in our case, though its expensive, we consistently try to see each other atleast once a month.
@lovebuglena (44716)
• Staten Island, New York
14 Oct 17
It's hard to make long distance relationships work. I've been in one but that didn't work out. And perhaps it's for the best because then I'd have never met my husband.
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
14 Oct 17
Been there, done that. Long distance relationships simply will not work out even if you do meet up in person for a variety of reasons.
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
14 Oct 17
@Ri1089 I don't think about it one way or another anymore.
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@Ri1089 (225)
• Mauritius
14 Oct 17
@JohnRoberts oh okay I see, well that's good that you moved forward. Hopefully I can do the same soon.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
14 Oct 17
Its really hard to handle long distance relationship. You may trust each other but there are so many factors, happenings, jealousy and gossips that could destroy the relationship. If you can avoid LDR, avoid it but if it can't, just accept the fate.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
14 Oct 17
LDR is one reason why some good relationship fail. Maybe its just how it meant to be but I know it hurts.
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@Ri1089 (225)
• Mauritius
14 Oct 17
@ilocosboy it does. I'm very shy to meet somebody in person though. I always meet people online first
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@William21001 (2637)
• Havre De Grace, Maryland
15 Oct 17
trust issues is one of a long distance realationship killers people cant trust people anymore or your prior experiences kinda of way you down
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@William21001 (2637)
• Havre De Grace, Maryland
16 Oct 17
@Ri1089 Yeah things happen for a reason I have had issues with relationships and i never asked why stuff happens just try to do things differently