old drunk
boyfriends bio dad
aint nobody got time for that
not how we wanted to spend our saturday night
Maybe It Was a Curse After All...
By StacyB
@Srbageldog (7716)
United States
October 15, 2017 1:31am CST
Right after I got off the phone with my mom, I told my boyfriend that the shrunken witch's head was left by my youngest brother. He said "I told you you were overreacting!" I was explaining my thought process and was just about to open the front door and collect the carved turnip, when there was a loud knock on the door. My boyfriend laughed and said it was probably my brother and I should open it. (Mind you, this was at 11:00 at night.)
Only it wasn't my brother. It was my boyfriend's bio dad, Lonnie. My boyfriend has been avoiding Lonnie for a while now, and I don't blame him. He is an old drunk who didn't raise him and he always shows up sniveling about the same old crap. Half the time his speech is so slurred it's unintelligible, and he is one of those people who always has to be the center of attention. No one enjoys being around him.
Well, it was too late to just shut the door in his face, so my poor boyfriend got stuck talking to him. Lonnie was so drunk already that he couldn't even tell that neither of us were enthused about him being here. I didn't stick around and left the room, but my boyfriend stood in the doorway while his dad rambled on about some nonsense. I could tell he didn't want him in our home because once he comes in, he won't leave.
A while ago my boyfriend went running to the bathroom and I heard him throw up, so I guess he's feeling sick. Unfortunately, while he was in the bathroom, I heard Lonnie wander inside and announce "I need to sit down." So now he is inside rattling off his same old drunken tales that he always tells when he shows up here. My poor boyfriend! All he wanted to do was play his computer game. He had been heading down the hall to log on when there was the knock at the door. I know this is NOT how he wants to spend his Saturday night. But he is too nice, (or doesn't have the guts) to just tell his dad to leave. So he will suffer through his visit and then be angry about it afterwards.
The poor guy left his cellphone in the room I'm in, so I can't even text him and ask if he wants me to make up some excuse to get rid of his dad. I suppose I could just take it out to him, but then I might get caught talking to the old fool. And I don't have time for that.
(You can read about the mystery "cursed object" I found on my doorstep here):
Earlier this evening my boyfriend and I were heading out to get dinner, when we spotted my Amazon Prime package on the doorstep. So I picked it up and was...
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
15 Oct 17
He left on his own after a while. My boyfriend told him we were getting ready to go to bed.
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@LadyDuck (471459)
• Switzerland
15 Oct 17
@Srbageldog I am glad he left, he sounds to be a very unpleasant man.
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
15 Oct 17
@LadyDuck He is. For the most part he is harmless; just an annoying old drunk. No one can really stand to be around him.
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@LilyBeBack (1994)
• United Kingdom
15 Oct 17
Not fair when people have to deal with bad behaviour from parents, especially when it's a parent who hasn't pulled their weight throughout the child's life!
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@LilyBeBack (1994)
• United Kingdom
16 Oct 17
@Srbageldog Yeah it's sort of an impossible situation for him really. I haven't seen my biological father since I was 2 so if he suddenly turned up I'd shut the door in his face with no problem whatsoever, but I don't know if I'd react differently if I'd had some interaction with him on and off over the years
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
16 Oct 17
@LilyBeBack It's a touchy situation. If he were my dad I would have nothing to do with him. But my boyfriend has always wanted to have a relationship with family, and I think he's torn on wanting to have his dad in his life and not wanting to deal with him because he's a sniveling old drunk.
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
16 Oct 17
I agree. If it were me I'd just tell him I don't want to see him anymore, but my boyfriend is too nice to do so. As he told me before, he loves him, but the guy didn't raise him and they don't really have a relationship so he doesn't want to deal with him. Usually we just don't answer the door. Nobody else ever comes over that late at night.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
16 Oct 17
Oh I am so sorry to know this..I wish you could have just got him out of the house..Yes I believe in curses Stacy..I will take a look at this shrunken head
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
16 Oct 17
I believe in curses too...which is why I freaked out over the "shrunken head" when I found it, because I didn't know who had left it there or why!
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