I'm Not Defining Myself As a "Me Too" Person

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How's this for a brash generalization? If you are a woman in the US of a particular age group (I'd say over 45), you have been sexually harassed. I'll go out further on a limb: if you're a woman and you've served in the military, you've been sexually harassed. There's a "movement" going around Facebook, Twitter, and other social media outlets, inviting women to identify themselves as a victim of sexual harassment or sexual abuse with the hashtag "me too." I'm not participating. I don't like the way this doesn't separate between "hey, babe, nice ta-tas" and rape. One is definitely much worse than the other. It's a joke -- and not a good one -- to equate the two. More importantly, what some drunk-on-his-butt sailor said to me 35 years ago doesn't identify who I am today. For that matter, it didn't identify who I was when he said it. But then, I've been subjected to things like that all my life: from wearing glasses at age 7 ("four eyes") to my tetracycline-stained teeth ("gray teeth"), I've felt those "slings and arrows," so maybe I learned at a very early age how to wield my shield and deflect it. Yes, I have been sexually harassed. No, I'm not participating in the "me too" game. It's not who I am. Here's Helen Reddy....although, as tired as I am after a poor night's sleep last night, I'd prefer this as, "I am woman, hear me snore":